moving from one side to the other on the sub dom spectrum

[tenveran]

I would be very interested in hearing people who have moved from one side to the other. A dominant becoming submissive and vice versa, or a switch moving from one side or the other.

Have you switched several times?

Have you never once moved from your standard position?

I consider myself a 50/50 switch but due to recent events my dom side is quite subdued and I am feeling much more submissive lately. I think my dom side will come back. He just needs to start feeling a little stronger and prouder.

I personally think most people are switches, it is a spectrum not a black and white thing. I figure people just label themselves what suits them best. Even though they make think or act every great once in a while on the other side of the spectrum.

I am just curious to hear stories about this.

[cooperjess]

I think I'm the opposite to you. When I was discovering all this, I was a total powerbottom, no interest in domming at all. Over time though, I think I discovered the dom side of me that I could have fun with, and since it's easier/less hassle I've kinda fallen into it as of late. I still think of myself as a switch, but I definitely discovered a dominant side.

[tenveran]

Originally Posted by cooperjess

I think I'm the opposite to you. When I was discovering all this, I was a total powerbottom, no interest in domming at all. Over time though, I think I discovered the dom side of me that I could have fun with, and since it's easier/less hassle I've kinda fallen into it as of late. I still think of myself as a switch, but I definitely discovered a dominant side.

Has it been fun for you? What do you enjoy about it?

My sub enjoys receiving things that my dom likes to give out.

[Misu]

Originally Posted by cooperjess

I think I'm the opposite to you. When I was discovering all this, I was a total powerbottom, no interest in domming at all. Over time though, I think I discovered the dom side of me that I could have fun with, and since it's easier/less hassle I've kinda fallen into it as of late. I still think of myself as a switch, but I definitely discovered a dominant side.

I completely agree with this! It also depends on the other person very much, if I, a switch, would talk to another 100% switch I won't choose the same side all the time. I am not even able to be submissive for some doms or dominant for some subs either, even if I want to. There needs to be some sort of chemistry

[Scrap]

I am pretty fluid overall. With my Lady, there is never a question- i am Hers, period, point blank, and done. We might play a scene where I Top her, but there is a clear understanding of who is in charge.

Outside of my Lady's influence, I will switch almost at will, depending on who I am around and the situation. I have a fairly dominant "public" personality, almost out of need, which gives me my "yan" to the "yin" while at my Lady's feet. I like to joke about how I am like a trained attack dog- I will roll over for my Owner, but pray to whatever Divine you worship if She lets me off the leash.

"yes, I'm a bitch. But I'm not YOUR bitch."

[Kisune Karnon]

I'm a switch, but my wife is almost completely a sub. So I tend to be more dominant due to that. Plus some of the submissive things, I would rather do as a dom while I like some of the submissive things that a dom could do. I'm maybe 65/35 switch with the upper limit as a dominant.