When and Why did you start having sex?

andrew_b · 08-05-2014, 07:50 AM

I'm just curious about how people started off with sex. Was it case of being really drunk? or a girl just feeling sorry for a guy? or even actually doing it for love?

Embry · 08-05-2014, 09:04 AM

I thought it was for the right reasons but it wasn't; probably because I just really wanted to have sex. Do I regret it? Yes... >_>

Shibari · 08-05-2014, 09:19 AM

I must be the only person that doesnt like sex, yes its pleasurble but it just isnt enough for me! I cant have an orgasm. Thats kinda why I do BDSM as it gives me the pleasure i need! How bad BDSM will be my form of making love haha .

Nicky Neko · 08-06-2014, 12:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Shibari

yes its pleasurble but it just isnt enough for me! I cant have an orgasm. Thats kinda why I do BDSM as it gives me the pleasure i need!

That's perfectly understandable though! Tons of people find ordinary sex boring, and need a little bit of extra excitement. I think the most common is pain; a lot of people need to feel some measure of pain in order to feel pleasure.
Lol just be thankful you don't have some unusual, incredibly specific fetish that you need to satisfy in order to get off :P

Okay now for my actual reply~
I started doing it because a close friend of mine and I started doing the sexy stuff. I've known him for years and we often talk about sexual stuff, and joke around etc. And one time I was sleeping over, we were chilling on the bed sit/laying across it watching stuff, and he poked/touched me somewhere (a place I'm super sensitive >.>) so I reacted and sorta batted him away. So he was like "Lol does this arouse you?" (p.s: it's just my neck, but he knew I was sensitive there) and I laughingly told him to get off, one thing led to another and he started touched me up going down my torso toward my crotch, every now and then he'd ask if he was going to fast and I'd say no. Then I touched him up a bit, we made out, wanked and sucked each other off and yeah. We didn't actually have full on sex then, but from then on it was on the table. On the cards? Idk the expression. Something like that.
Then, next time I was round, there was serious sexual tension lol. We got all intimate, and then he um... Well, lubed me up and fingered me for a bit, basically. Occasionally asking if I was doing ok if I liked it etc. and then we dID THE SEX. And it was amazing. Like wow yes please. Unfortunately we only had sex sex one time, but did lots of other stuff though ^^

I'm really happy it all went the way it did, starting having sex like that and stuff, because it was with someone I knew well, trusted, have a relaxed relationship with, (and all that meant we done it bareback, which he tells me is super lucky of me to have my first time like that sO) and it meant I could start exploring sex and gaining some experience casually with a friend. Which is the best way in my opinion ^^
I'm certainly happy about it.

Sorry for the super long response I'm waiting for dinner and I'm bored -.-

melf · 08-06-2014, 12:52 PM

Hmmm.. i was over 20 years old, my girlfriend at this time had over 10 partners, made sex to sport. I think she wanted to have a virgin. And felt sorry for me.

Plus, i was very drunk, so not able to resist. And i regret.

lucky32 · 08-06-2014, 01:25 PM

my cousin kinda abused me when i was 12. I was interested but didn't want to go further.
sex of my choice, I saw a guy at a concert who was really hot...I followed him around but was not sure what to do. I thought he was so hot. I was sober and went home with him and that was my first

NowStop · 08-06-2014, 05:49 PM

I was in love with the girl. So no regrets.

CookingGuy92 · 08-06-2014, 07:55 PM

I was about 15 when I started. I was with my ex-girlfriend at the time and we were getting hot and heavy the one night and it just went from there.

At the time I thought it was great because we were both in love and we both wanted to have that moment between us... however I learned she wasn't feeling quite the same about me. Found that out when she just dumped me the next week or so. So at the time I didn't regret it, but now I kind of do sadly.

John Masters · 08-06-2014, 11:07 PM

I was a virgin and a girl I was dating who'd had sex many times before took me back to her flat one afternoon. The sex was good

Johnyi · 08-06-2014, 11:28 PM

I was 17, i thing was about my age to have sex, i had 1 year relationship and we didn nothing, then i broke up and met a girl from myspace we met and he had sex, was awesome

deliman · 08-07-2014, 06:11 PM

Repeatedly. I had my first orgasm during the third fuck, and I've been an insatiable slut ever since.

P.S. - I've moved back home, and I'm living with my Dad, sis and little bro again. Mom divorced Dad and left.

lilsissy · 08-07-2014, 06:30 PM

i started having sex after i got out of bootcamp when i was in the marine corps.
i did it because i had never had it before and no girl was ever really interested in me so when i finally got the opportunity i took and it.

rhode64 · 08-08-2014, 08:37 AM

My first time was when I was 11 by a 15 year old girl she was my best mates sister . a lot more happened that summer as well.

slutfarm · 08-08-2014, 02:03 PM

When I got married -- the reason seems obvious to me -- that is what married people do

lola.fox · 08-02-2017, 06:45 AM

at 16, because i was really happy with my boyfriend at the time - young love

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08-05-2014, 07:50 AM	#1
andrew_b getDare Cultist (Outer Circle) Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Dublin, Ireland Posts: 11,063 Blog Entries: 20	When and Why did you start having sex? I'm just curious about how people started off with sex. Was it case of being really drunk? or a girl just feeling sorry for a guy? or even actually doing it for love? __________________ *Best Truth Giver 2016 & 2017* My Real Experiences http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=81891 Send me a pm if you want, I'm always up for chatting to people CHECK OUT MY NEW FICTIONAL STORY "Pushed to Fantasy (On Vacation)" LINK BELOW https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthre...00#post4465100 I've also got snapchat, kik, skype and messenger. If you want to add me just send me a pm and I'll give you my username(s)

08-05-2014, 09:19 AM	#3
Shibari getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: England Posts: 399 Blog Entries: 10	I must be the only person that doesnt like sex, yes its pleasurble but it just isnt enough for me! I cant have an orgasm. Thats kinda why I do BDSM as it gives me the pleasure i need! How bad BDSM will be my form of making love haha . __________________ Submissive freak . Rope, Shibari/kinbaku. I kiss my enemies lips, while I dance in the flames of the devil, worship the Dominant that guides while I suffer at His feet.

08-06-2014, 05:49 PM	#7
NowStop Member Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: North America Posts: 92	I was in love with the girl. So no regrets. __________________ I do not have an avatar, because I am a little dirty rebel. The story I am writing, Rainfall. Please give it a read, and tell me what you honestly think. Likes Piña coladas, and getting caught in the rain. I like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape. Dislikes Coffee. The fact that Pushing Daisies only got two seasons. And that there are some people who really believe that love is not all you need.

08-06-2014, 11:28 PM	#10
Johnyi getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Mar 2013 Posts: 276 Blog Entries: 1	I was 17, i thing was about my age to have sex, i had 1 year relationship and we didn nothing, then i broke up and met a girl from myspace we met and he had sex, was awesome __________________ male 25 straight, kinda slim/athletic trying to be fit. likes: most regular stuff, light pain, light humiliation, orgasms, edgings, masturbation,public,show,camera, webcamsex etc. limits:almost everything pee/poo/pain, cbt, ruined orgasms, orgasm denial, CD, toys, extreme public, hard humiliation, family, FACE etc.

08-07-2014, 06:11 PM	#11
deliman Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2013 Location: Dallas Posts: 188	Raped by my Dad on my 12th birthday Repeatedly. I had my first orgasm during the third fuck, and I've been an insatiable slut ever since. P.S. - I've moved back home, and I'm living with my Dad, sis and little bro again. Mom divorced Dad and left. __________________ 25/f/Dare me to do anything! Likes - Public Nudity, Public Masturbation, Public Sex, Family/Friends, Piss Play (receiving), being a slut Dislikes - Diapers, Pain Limits - Scat, Needles, Blood, anything that causes injury, ORGASM DENIAL! (have to come at least once a day!) I do NOT need, want or reply to anyone wanting to be my Master!

08-05-2014, 09:04 AM	#2
Embry Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 109 Blog Entries: 1	I thought it was for the right reasons but it wasn't; probably because I just really wanted to have sex. Do I regret it? Yes... >_>

08-06-2014, 12:52 PM	#5
melf Member Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Poland Posts: 87	Hmmm.. i was over 20 years old, my girlfriend at this time had over 10 partners, made sex to sport. I think she wanted to have a virgin. And felt sorry for me. Plus, i was very drunk, so not able to resist. And i regret.

08-06-2014, 01:25 PM	#6
lucky32 Distinguished Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 829	my cousin kinda abused me when i was 12. I was interested but didn't want to go further. sex of my choice, I saw a guy at a concert who was really hot...I followed him around but was not sure what to do. I thought he was so hot. I was sober and went home with him and that was my first

08-06-2014, 07:55 PM	#8
CookingGuy92 Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2014 Location: New Jersey Posts: 11	I was about 15 when I started. I was with my ex-girlfriend at the time and we were getting hot and heavy the one night and it just went from there. At the time I thought it was great because we were both in love and we both wanted to have that moment between us... however I learned she wasn't feeling quite the same about me. Found that out when she just dumped me the next week or so. So at the time I didn't regret it, but now I kind of do sadly.

08-06-2014, 11:07 PM	#9
John Masters Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Cumbria Posts: 194	I was a virgin and a girl I was dating who'd had sex many times before took me back to her flat one afternoon. The sex was good

08-07-2014, 06:30 PM	#12
lilsissy Account Banned Join Date: Aug 2014 Location: CA,USA,Debael's crib crying for a new diaper and sucking on my pacifer Posts: 379 Blog Entries: 4	i started having sex after i got out of bootcamp when i was in the marine corps. i did it because i had never had it before and no girl was ever really interested in me so when i finally got the opportunity i took and it. __________________ F/25/Bisexual/ Milly + Miri [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] I am Debael's Darling little girl ;p Likes/dislikes/Limits,training, Pm dares, *OWNED by* Debael I worship Debael's feet(god that makes me so horny)

08-08-2014, 08:37 AM	#13
rhode64 getDare Patriot Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: England south coast Posts: 3,043 Blog Entries: 3	My first time My first time was when I was 11 by a 15 year old girl she was my best mates sister . a lot more happened that summer as well.

08-08-2014, 02:03 PM	#14
slutfarm Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 133	When I got married -- the reason seems obvious to me -- that is what married people do

08-02-2017, 06:45 AM	#15
lola.fox ♡ limited edition - cock tease barbie ♡ Join Date: Jan 2014 Posts: 1,803 Blog Entries: 53	at 16, because i was really happy with my boyfriend at the time - young love . __________________ likes + limits + inbetween i’m a pint-sized lady with not so tiny curves who despises mindless small talk, men who ask for things they don't deserve, and women who have a penchant for gossip.