08-07-2017, 09:17 AM | #16 | |
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The other reason was about being found out, not because I didn't want anyone to know about my kinky side as most of my family and friends already know, but safety. I have been stalked in the past and it was exhausting and scary and I didn't want to risk that again, no matter how small the chance was, especially considering I am a parent so it isn't just me I have to worry about. With both kinky and vanilla picures I always edit out distinguishing marks still because of this to almost everyone. And then even without the above, I am and always have been and probably always will be incredibly shy. Hope that explains some reasons for you
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08-07-2017, 09:25 AM | #17 | |
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08-07-2017, 10:01 AM | #18 | |
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Even though I am very open to sending photos to friends and sometimes even strangers, I almost never send a live photo or do a video. I have major self esteem issues. Everytime I take a photo, it is a process and most of the time, hundreds of photos are deleted in the attempt to get one I am happy with. I too have been stalked and attacked. And although I feel more comfortable showing my face to friends, I have some fears showing them to strangers. And lastly I am very shy at times. Which makes it very hard to just send photos on command. Now, all that being said ... the fact that this Mistress was willing to send one photo but not a second, is highly suspicious. It would have been different if she had simply refused. You could have parted ways or discussed alternate options to prove she was a female, instead she automatically got defensive. And for me that would have been a red flag enough for me to walk away.
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08-10-2017, 07:22 PM | #19 | |
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I definitely agree that it seems an out-of-proportion reaction to the request. Whether or not the person is actually female, it doesn't sound like a compatible approach for long-term relationship development. In general, hesitancy about sending a picture with specific, vanilla indications of being taken just for you - despite willingness to send a generic photo - can be a sign that the person's appearance isn't as they'd like you to think of it. Sometimes that's just shyness, but it's impossible to tell.
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