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Old 10-14-2017, 01:42 AM   #1
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Male 25/male/master seeks any age/female/slave in any location (serious replies only)

25/male/master seeks any age/female/slave in any location (serious replies only)

Hello everyone, my names Peter and as you are no doubt aware I’m currently seeking a sub. For anyone considering responding, I will mention straight off the bat I won another female sub, she occasionally serves me in person as well, some find this a turn away so its best to get this out of the way immediately to save any reader time. For those still curious, you would have the option of being involved with this sub or of serving completely by yourself.

Who Am I?


I’ve been active in the lifestyle for around 7 years now (time goes so fast), over which time i’ve owned all manner of subs, ranging from those who crave extreme pain to those seeking the loving care of a daddy dom. I tend to be very flexible in my approach to every sub, slave, pet ect. instead of getting bogged down in the same routine for every person.
Outside of the lifestyle I love all things geek related, in particular I love video games, always have and always will, I enjoy marathoning series or movies, being critical about things and love to be creative, which I believe is what lead me to the lifestyle in the first place, every sub is a new chance to mould someone to my desires, from behavioural quirks to being creative with tasks.
I live in the UK in the north west, i’ll be willing to give the specifics once i get to know someone, but not until then.


Who/What I Am Seeking


I am currently seeking either a female, possibly trans or dedicated sissy to take on and train, any female applying would get bumped to the front of the que for consideration though. I’m not seeking any standard male subs, they always seem to be the overwhelming amount of responses I receive, even when they don’t remotely fit what I’ve outlined in my adds, so just as a warning, if your male and just simply like to put panties on occasionally, thats not grounds for me to consider you.
The person applying can be of any dynamic, be them sub, slave, pet, little ect. I can very easily adapt to any variation, though in an ideal world, I’d like someone I can mould and show who she really is, i’ve always been particularly good in drawing out the inner slut/bimbo of those who’ve served me, so someone who seeks that happening to them would be ideal.
Your living situation can always be worked around, I will need plenty of info (don’t be put off by me asking allot of questions, the more I know, the easier it is for me to control/guide someone), your experience doesn’t matter, be it you’ve been in the lifestyle for decades or if your brand new, being new only means your discovering everything for the first time after all.
I would naturally prefer someone close by to me, at least in my time zone though that does not rule out anyone else across the world, time zones are east to work with once you get a handle on things, it’d just be nice to find another local sub, it’s happened before in the past where I’ve found someone from my crummy little town on here, so there’s every possibility it could happen again.


My Expectations For You

  • You will be honest, regardless of the consequences, lying is the first biggest failing of any sub
  • You will be dependable, when you give your word, don’t break it without letting me know you won’t be able to keep it, it takes seconds to send a message after all
  • Regular contact for both serving and sessions, the term regular means different things for many but i want to be able to have a conversation with any potential sub at least once every few days
  • I expect you to have an open mind to new idea’s instead of expecting 1 very specific thing and only that
  • You will be willing to prove your a real life person somehow, instead of an evil intelligent dog with thumbs
  • You will not be a robot, there’s no worse turn off then someone who’s just going by the numbers instead of showing their personality


What To Expect From Me
  • You’ll receive regular contact
  • I am fairly strict
  • Despite being strict at enforcing rules, I give lee way to let peoples personality come through
  • I have a silly side that comes out to those who shine the right way
  • My punishments are not fun, don’t try asking for punishments and then be surprised you don’t enjoy what i set, if you enjoy the pain/humiliation of things, then say it
  • Expect to have the desires of what you wish to be become reality
  • Expect tasks to be varied and fairly creative
  • You will have rules that will guide you through your days
  • New comers will be gradually introduced to things, as not to overwhelm
  • You can always expect honesty from me, its one thing i always pride myself with, i keep my word (The best example i will give is how i don’t post pictures of people who’ve not given me the ok to places like fetlife or here, i have a huge amount of pictures of subs from over the years that will only ever sit on my hard-drive to view, with perhaps only 1-5% ever being able to be posted online when I’ve been given the nod to).


My Interests


Before reading through these, bare in mind that you are not required to be into all or even any of these things, ultimately my main enjoyment is in the dynamic thats established between the sub/slave/pet ect. and dom, having similar interests in just icing on the cake. Things that are not mentioned are still on the table.

My Loves


Humiliation: I’ve always enjoyed this from my earliest forays into the lifestyle, its often a corner stone on the dynamics I normally have gone with, its not for all, but it is for many.

Public: This is something I’ve been taking more and more interest in over the years, I’ve set many tasks online with this but have also been involved in person with public things whilst making sure to remain safe of course.

Bondage: Bit of a no brainer that this would be here, I’d love to find someone local to me that i can practice rope bondage on regularly ideally, but restraining someone, leaving themselves at your mercy, there’s something intimate about it that nothing else really compares to, in my honest opinion, i’d say there’s no better examples of putting your trust in someone.

Pet Play: I’ve owned many pets over the years, they are something that i’ve always enjoyed training which leave allot of room for tasks around that 1 dynamic.

TPE: This is not for all and its not something i’d ever expect straight off the bat, how-ever i like to work up to eventually seeing a potential slave ect. giving up their control over their own lives, or aspects of it at least.

Pain: I can be very sadistic at times, I never enjoy having to punish someones, the very nature of needing to punish someone means they’ve failed you, how-ever general pain play (pleasure/pain play for instance) can be an attraction, its certainly not for all though.

People who show effort: This is very overlooked by many, but by doing that little something to show your trying, even when you fail at something goes a long way.

My Dislikes


Liars: Far to many people think they won’t get caught out, but the truth is they always do, being in the lifestyle for so long has given me a rather good bullshit detector, perhaps sometimes people are being honest about some things, but when irregularities keep cropping up, it becomes obvious somethings not right.

People become too attached too quickly: This can push me away, its most often something thats seen in littles, they jump on and wrap their arms around something they barely know, things like that should be built up to over a long period of time, not days.


My Limits


Engaging in illegal acts: This should be a no brainer, I have no interest in drugs, I have no interest in people below the age of consent, I’m not going to do anything that revolves around stealing, though public is an interest, I have no interest in making you commit social suicide. The very basis of any dynamic is to remain ‘Safe, Sane and Consensual’.

My Outro


This add’s a bit different then my previous ones, I thought it was about time to switch it up a bit though there’s only so much you can do whilst trying to retain a certain level of info/quality (imo). Hopefully this will get a few responses, though only time will tell. I will get back to as many people who respond as I can, though if you can’t read, don’t overly expect a response.

What Comes Next For You


If you managed to get this far, congratulations! You have earned yourself a cookie! Do mention this cookie in your response message. I’d now like you to answer the below questions in your response, this gives me some basic information on you to work from and is your first impression.

What Is your name (or what you go by for now)?:
How old are you?:
What is your sex?:
What is your dynamic in the lifestyle?:
What are your loves, likes, dislikes and limits?:
Do you own a camera?:
Do you own a webcam?:
Do you have an issues using either of the above devices?:
What is your best quality?:
What is your favourite part of your body?:
What would you change about yourself given the choice?:
What can you offer to a potential owner?:
What experience do you have with the lifestyle?:
Tell me a random fact about yourself:
What time zone are you in?:
How can I improve this add?:

Thankyou for reading, if I’m not for you, then good luck in your search, but if your curious, be you experienced of brand new, feel free to message me, you may be surprised at how well you take, I know allot of the newer subs who’ve responded to me have always told me they where scared to, thats normal, but if you never dive in, you never find out how warm the water is.

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Old 10-22-2017, 04:58 AM   #2
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Yet to receive a single response this time around, so if you are curious, do feel free to get in touch!
I wonder if having so much writing is putting off most responses...
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Old 11-11-2017, 04:12 AM   #3
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I'll give this add one more try, responses have been extremely scarce this time around...
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Old 11-22-2017, 07:54 AM   #4
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This ad needs a bump. Bump bump.

Fromo is a good guy, and whoever gets to be his sub is lucky.

Good luck!
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Old 11-25-2017, 05:03 AM   #5
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This ad needs a bump. Bump bump.

Fromo is a good guy, and whoever gets to be his sub is lucky.

Good luck!
Thanks for the bump, though it seems that this add is just scaring people away XD.
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Old 01-09-2018, 10:08 AM   #6
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May as well bump this back to the top of things for the new year, see if it draws any eyes... not likely but worth a try!
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Old 02-06-2018, 03:47 AM   #7
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After a recent dynamic that sadly didn't work out (a combination of availability and compatibility due to timezone differences) I find myself back on the prowl for a new sub, I'll likely make a new add again soon given this ones a bit old, but for the time being, a bump back up will give it at least a chance to gain a response.
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