Exploring

[hothead]

So I am sort of new here. This is my first account but ive been exploring this sight for a little bit now. I want to explore my likes and dislikes and find out what really intrigues me. As of now I have this fetitsh for women socks. I dont know why but when i see feminine socks it turns me on. I have never tried bondage but i think i would like it so maybe if you have some ideas for that. Gotta try things st least onces to find out you dont like it so i dont have any dislikes as of now. However i do have limits, social suicide, family, blood, scat and illegal. Other than that i hope you guys can help me explore whats out there.

[Lightze]

Oh wow I posted a thread nearly exactly like this when I started!

Hi and welcome to GetDare. The one stop shop for all your kinkster needs.


So, as Kittenlicks did to me on my first day, I'll give you a dare...

Put your Likes, dislikes and limits in your signature.

It'll really help you out here.

Don't worry that you'll have to keep evolving it and revising it.

That's dare number one, and then we can move on to trying fun things!

[hothead]

Thanks for the warm welcome haha. Well it isn't much but hope the signature looks okay.

[Lightze]

Originally Posted by hothead

Thanks for the warm welcome haha. Well it isn't much but hope the signature looks okay.

OK! Well done! Dare complete.

So as you find things you like/dislike/are limits, just update your list.

First task, you should try an edge. No orgasms though. Just bring yourself to edge and stop. Then come back and report.
See? Nice and easy! And a little mean. But still easy!

[hothead]

Originally Posted by Lightze

OK! Well done! Dare complete.

So as you find things you like/dislike/are limits, just update your list.

First task, you should try an edge. No orgasms though. Just bring yourself to edge and stop. Then come back and report.
See? Nice and easy! And a little mean. But still easy!

Now all I can think about is finishing. That was sooo mean haha, I wanted to keep going so bad it was hard to stop.

[AnalAddict]

Let's try some easy bondage.

Strip naked. Get a chair and sit on it with legs spread on both sides. Now cuff/bind your ankles to the legs of the chair. Don't make it too tight, just enough for you to know the restraints are there.

Put your arms behind you, between your back and the back of the chair. Stay like that for ten minutes, ideally doing nothing but experience what the powerless feeling does for you. If you want some distraction, you can do this in front of a mirror and see what that does to you.

Do you feel a little ashamed? Does that shame turn you on or not?

If you feel like reporting back about what it did to you, feel free.

[Lightze]

Originally Posted by hothead

Now all I can think about is finishing. That was sooo mean haha, I wanted to keep going so bad it was hard to stop.

That's the joy of edging! It also helps get your mind into a fun place. It doesn't work for everyone, but it's always good to try something new (and safe, sane and consensual.)

If you like to feel squirmy, you might want to add edging to your likes.
You might not be sure and want to try it again! Or you might not like it!

All ok!

Personally, my average is 10 edges before I need a cooldown but I DID get it up to 30 in one sitting with a vibrating wand, as I could control the sensation precisely... and some kinksters can do many times more than that! =^-^=

With all your dares, just starts small and build up as you like.

There isn't so much a safe word system on GD, but you can just STOP if something gets too much.

It should be fun, afterall.