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Old 09-18-2021, 10:32 AM   #1
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My husband has tried to indulge my kinks for as long as he's known about them, but he has a hard time coming up with ideas and also tends to skip ahead to the finale if he doesn't have a plan in place.

Yesterday he mentioned that he wanted to try being more dominate in bed, and asked if I could come up with some ideas of what he could do to me. I thought this would be a perfect opportunity to bring getDare in. He doesn't know about this account, so every idea I present to him I would have to pass off as something I want him to do to me, not something I'm being dared to do.

Post ideas for tasks based on my likes and dislikes, and potential punishments based on my hates, and if he uses them I'll write a detailed report. Some things my husband likes for your consideration:
  • Receiving head
  • Me paying special attention to his balls
  • Burying my face in his balls
  • Spanking me
  • Fucking me hard (vaginal and anal)

If you have any other questions about what he'd like, feel free to ask.
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Old 09-18-2021, 12:25 PM   #2
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Strip naked, put clamps on your nipples and a plug in your ass. Get on all fours in front of the couch. Have your husband use you as a foot stool while he watches porn. Your job is to beg and plead for him to let you lick and worship his balls and suck his cock. It is up to him to decide what you have to do for the privilege of tasting his cock and balls.
A possible add-on if he likes is that you have to masturbate and can't come until he lets you suck him off and cum on your face. As you get hornier, you may get more creative/desperate to get to cum.
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Old 09-18-2021, 02:42 PM   #3
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Agree upon a password which your husband can text you when he's not home, together with the hour when he's coming. As the hour approaches, you're to strip naked, put on a collar and blindfold, and assume a pose, depending on your husband's wish (as agreed before or clarified in the text):

- On the bed, face down, ass high, legs apart, hands handcuffed behind your back, ballgag in your mouth - if he wants to fuck you in the ass and/or pussy. Your collection of spanking implements on your side, if he feels like giving you a little pain.

- On your knees, legs apart, hands handcuffed behind your back, cheek retractor in your mouth, if he fancies to fuck your mouth.

When he comes, he can do to you whatever he wants (within your limits, of course).
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Old 09-18-2021, 06:37 PM   #4
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Strip naked, put clamps on your nipples and a plug in your ass. Get on all fours in front of the couch. Have your husband use you as a foot stool while he watches porn. Your job is to beg and plead for him to let you lick and worship his balls and suck his cock. It is up to him to decide what you have to do for the privilege of tasting his cock and balls.
A possible add-on if he likes is that you have to masturbate and can't come until he lets you suck him off and cum on your face. As you get hornier, you may get more creative/desperate to get to cum.
I told my husband about this one. I presented it to him like it was something I've been secretly craving, and the idea really excited him. I'll report back when we do it.

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Agree upon a password which your husband can text you when he's not home, together with the hour when he's coming. As the hour approaches, you're to strip naked, put on a collar and blindfold, and assume a pose, depending on your husband's wish (as agreed before or clarified in the text):

- On the bed, face down, ass high, legs apart, hands handcuffed behind your back, ballgag in your mouth - if he wants to fuck you in the ass and/or pussy. Your collection of spanking implements on your side, if he feels like giving you a little pain.

- On your knees, legs apart, hands handcuffed behind your back, cheek retractor in your mouth, if he fancies to fuck your mouth.

When he comes, he can do to you whatever he wants (within your limits, of course).
He really liked this one, too. I suggested it to him by saying he could use me to unwind after a long day at work (I work from home, but have an objectively easier career than him). He's trying to build off of this one, and come up with other passwords indicating whatever he wants me to be ready to do when he arrives. If you have any more ideas, I'm sure he'd love to hear them!
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Old 09-19-2021, 12:54 AM   #5
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Suggest a role-play as someone who doesn't like giving oral sex. Therefore he must tie your hands behind your back. Your husband pushes your head down and you try to get up. He only pushes down and you try to escape and he pushes you down again.
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Old 09-19-2021, 10:38 AM   #6
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I look forward to your report!
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Old 09-20-2021, 06:22 AM   #7
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It sounds like he really enjoys oral, how good are your deep throating skills?

Submissive positions are good to learn, he can give you an order and you assume a specific position for him to use you as he pleases. You already mentioned furniture as a like there are numerous submissive positions you could assume at his command.

Since humiliation is an enjoy ask him to give you a humiliating name for bedroom use. Instead of your real name he calls you slut, whore, bitch whatever he likes.

Does he know you have taking a liking to bodywriting? Have him write something on your ass before he leaves for the day. You are not allowed to use a mirror to see it but you know he wrote something. When he returns home he will use a mirror to show you.
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Old 09-20-2021, 08:31 AM   #8
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Cook him a nice dinner, serve it to him in your bra and panties. After you set your plate on the table, crawl under and offer him head until he finishes the meal. Let him finish in your mouth, but if he's having a hard time offer up your ass. If he tries to offer you any pleasure, beg for a spanking instead.
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Old 09-20-2021, 08:45 AM   #9
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For the passwords, you could encourage him to be creative with the location (for example, just inside your front door so he sees you when he walks in), Toys (have you wearing a large plug so your ass is ready for him) and position (tied spread eagled for another example).

The common theme should be that you can't move until he tells you to, and that you should always be blindfolded - to make the waiting & hearing him come in more fun
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Old 09-20-2021, 09:12 AM   #10
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You two agree on a day of the week that is your day of the week to be 100% subbed to him. You must wait by his side on your hands and knees, dressed up like he likes, until he asks you for/to do something and you must do it. If he leaves if you go with him you must walk behind him, he orders your food and decide what you eat. If he has to go to work you have to wait at the door on your hands and knees till he gets home.
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Old 09-20-2021, 11:11 AM   #11
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A dare that should make you desperate to get domm'ed.

Your goal, have your husband cum on you before he leaves for work. You get dressed as normal and wear his cum all day.

The punishment if you fail. Mouthsoaping. Ten minutes with a big old bar of soap in your mouth after he leaves for work. Leave teeth marks in the bar. Masturbate over your panties while doing this.
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Old 09-20-2021, 01:31 PM   #12
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Glad to hear your husband liked my suggestion.

Here's an idea to mess with him a little, but in a very nice way. Choose a day both of you spend at home, but don't let him know you're preparing anything special. Take care to get up before him and prepare: you should be naked, but wear a subtle make up, maybe some nice little bijoux, but nothing too obvious. Bring him breakfast to bed. For the rest of the day, stay naked. Do everything he wishes. To every his suggestion or request respond politely and comply immediately. Don't speak unless spoken to. Use submissive and over-respectful body language. When he's not using you, stay in his sight, in a submissive pose - kneeling on the floor for too long can be tiring, but you can try it (legs apart, hands behind your back); you can also sit down in an overly ladylike fashion (hands on your lap, don't cross legs) or even lie down on your back near his legs when he's sitting, presenting to him your body. Don't initiate anything sexual, but fawn on him and make lots of "accidental" physical contact with him. In short, be his submissive sex slave. But don't explain that, even if he asks. Let him work it out by himself. It should be fun to observe how he realizes what's going on and starts to make use of it.

Another one: are you into roleplaying and/or do you think your husband would like it? If so, you can try the old hooker-and-john shtick. Dress provocatively (short skirt, no panties, fishnet stockings, crop top, high heels), put on too much make-up. Arrange a meeting in a secluded (and safe) place. Pretend you don't know each other. Negotiate a (humiliatingly low for you) price. Then he gets an hour to use you as he pleases. If the weather's nice, you can be a roadside hooker and he can fuck you on the car hood. Keep the money. You can buy some sex toys with it.
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Old 09-20-2021, 10:11 PM   #13
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