49/male/dom seeks 18-30/female/slave in any place (degradation)

[Marcotulio]

49/male/dom seeks 18-30/female/slave in any place (degradation)

Strict Mature Dominant Male, living in Europe. Experienced (real time and online) Mental sadist. Degrader.

My ad consists basically of two parts. The basic requirements/goals that very rarely vary over time, and the specific kinks/goals I want to explore more in deep at this period of life.

- Right now I want to start with a pure
BDSM/objectification/humiliation/degradation relationship. That means you'll start as my sub/slave/object/animal.

- I’ll want a very detailed introduction with ordinary life basics, experience and hard limits. Once agreement is established, there won’t be normal conversations at the same level during all the time the ‘training’ happens. The sub/slave will listen, perform and obey instructions. Period. She’s allowed to write a ‘diary’ where she will freely expose her Fears, feelings, dislikes, etc, but not discussion about the training/use/abuse will happen.


You need strict rules and direction, you’re ready and willing to perform tasks on a regular basis that you must physically perform and report with pics and vids often, no face requested. Ideally, you are also a decent ‘writer’, but it’s not mandatory. Our communication will be by email and kik/telegram only if instant fast communication is needed. I don’t do casual ‘dirty talk’ or sexting with strangers.
You’ll be verified as a female to start and thoroughly exposed to me later in private.
You must be really interested in sexual objectification, humiliation and degradation.

Now the basic requirements:


Requirements/Experience
All based on my experiences. I’ve been into this for a while, and I understand some won’t be for everyone,
or not yet. As long as you meet basic requirements and you’re at least curious about the rest it can be ok to
start with me.

Basic Requirements
- cis female. (born female, now female). No exceptions.
- Legal age
- Body: Average, slim, fit, little overweight ok, Not extreme obesity.
- understands bdsm is an important part of her life, or that want to move from
the sporadic sexual fantasy or dare game to a more serious status, even if she decides to keep
it secret and separated of her 'vanilla' life.
- Three holes use/training ready and/or willing: Anal/oral/vaginal. Hard Limits about this are a turn off. Newbie s OK.
- Detailed descriptions, reports, fantasies.
- Mental Training (trough different tasks, daily rituals, forced fantasies, lectures, porn, etc)
- Humiliation (diferent from person to person, so I'll need to know you first)
- Objectification: Have to do with removing dignity and being used like a toy, not necessarily as furniture
- Anal training.
- Sexual training and orgasm control.
- Pain training
- Pain-pleasure contrast tasks
- Forced exhibitionism (private)
- Position training (slave positions)
- Bodywriting
- Verbal abuse

More advanced Experiences
- Semipublic or outdoor exposure/tasking
- Micro-management online (sex control, weight control, exercise, toilet control, clothing control..)
- Toilet play and degradation (pissing, licking toilet, etc)
- More advanced pain (marks of days, hard bondage, clamping and pussy torture)
- Raceplay
- Being shared/exposed (online)

Even More Advanced Experiences

Management. Real Time Meetings:

- Management of real time meetings for sessions in the slave area. Total screening.
- Selecting and/or help to select the right real time sex/bdsm/degradation contacts, establishing sex meetings rules, safety rules, being reported by both slave and contacts.

- Total dehumanization
- Other advanced real time experiences I will talk only in private about.


PM with experience, real or online, likes, dislikes,limits, strong and weak points, or send a fast intro and be ready to send a much more detailed one after my answer to my email.

[Marcotulio]

New search. I'll answer PMs that show they read and understand the ad requests, please avoid copy-paste messages.

[Marcotulio]

New search November. Do not send copy/paste intros, your answer must fit the ad.

[Marcotulio]

No online line, no copy paste, no messengers, only email to start.

[Marcotulio]

Originally Posted by Marcotulio

No online line, no copy paste, no messengers, only email to start.

New Search 2023.

[may4683]

my name is ivy i’m f18. i attend university i study law. i live in the uk. i’m new to bdsm my last boyfriend taught me some things and i got hooked. i’m trying to fill a hole that he left. i just really enjoyed what we did and i kinda miss is. i don’t have much experience and haven’t had an online dom, but my partner used to spank me, choke me, whip me, overstimulate me, write on my body, and i haven’t done anal but he shoved a pen up my ass one time as a punishment and it’s something i’m interested in. my hard limits would be animals, family, extreme pain, public, knife play, scat, controlling what i wear. i’m willing to do photos and videos but i don’t want to show my face. in your ad the mental training, humiliation, objectification interested me the most but i really want to be forced or humiliated into doing something more extreme that i don’t want to do. i’m sorry that i’m new to this but i think i can do well as your slave and i will definitely try my hardest. plus if you call me some cute nickname and tell me i’m a good girl i’m completely yours. anyway i don’t like chatting on get dares so if you are interested in me message me on kik please x my username is: Ivy7773

[Marcotulio]

Still searching.
PM as explained in the ad or chances are that I don't see your answer.

[Marcotulio]

PM, not just answer below, or I may see your message too late.

[Marcotulio]

Please read profile well, I don't answer copy-paste PMs sent to multiple people.
Only email to start, no short term games.

[Marcotulio]

Read carefully the message, I think mine is pretty specific and different from the average, so if you're answering several messages you're probably not a good match.

[Marcotulio]

PM, No one line, no copy paste, no messengers, only email to start.

[Marcotulio]

It seems the most difficult thing is finding someone into this and at the same time can stay long term. I think I know the reasons but I'll not give up.

[Marcotulio]

Still searching someone long-term that enjoys writing long reports and writing in general and not just casual tasking and sexting. It seems it's too much.. or not?

[Marcotulio]

New Search. Remember, email preferred to start

[Marcotulio]

Originally Posted by Marcotulio

New Search. Remember, email preferred to start

NOTE: Posted today because Saturday is a good day, but I only post once monthly as you can see by my former posts.
Don't just post below if you expect an answer, PM or I could not see it in weeks.
As always, read carefully and be sure to meet the requirements before PMing