Anyone blackmailed or been blackmailed?

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For blackmailers:

Who did you blackmail?
Did they want it?
What did you blackmail them with?
What did you make them do?
Did you end up outing the blackmail material?
How did you feel about it?
Anything else you want to share?

For the blackmailed:

Who blackmailed you?
Did you want to be blackmailed?
What were you blackmailed with?
What were you made to do?
Were you outed?
How did you feel about it?
Anything else you want to share?