06-12-2017, 01:15 PM | #1 |
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Denial: Encourage me or Tease me
Courtesy of a few successive dares and games, I am currently on track towards this being the longest period of orgasm denial I have ever done. I have not had an orgasm since the morning of June 2nd. The longest I've ever gone before was 14 days.
So this thread is an opportunity for the GetDare community to encourage me to keep up with this denial and help me set a personal record, and also to tease me and make the denial that much more frustrating. I will attempt any dares posted here to the best of my ability, and I recommend checking my Likes for the best ways to frustrate me. If you don't want to post a dare, I'd also love to hear encouragement on why I should stay denied, and even your own stories about having fun with denial. Also don't try to force me to fail my denial. That is not the intent of this thread. I really do want to see just how long I can go. Some important parameters: -As much as I love edging, I'm not great at it. I can typically only edge a few times consecutively before needing to cool down, lest I risk an accident. -I don't live alone, and have no intention of involving others in this. Keep that in mind. -Inventory: I have a ~25' length of 1/4" thick rope, and a much shorter piece just long enough to tie a loop around my cock+balls. Also a few clothespins and a wooden ruler.
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06-12-2017, 03:22 PM | #2 |
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I'm also strongly considering purchasing a chastity cage soon, and am open to suggestions on that front.
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06-12-2017, 05:50 PM | #3 |
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This is the current device I own.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00W8...?ie=UTF8&psc=1 Pm me and we can chat in much more detail about devices. As far denial. I think you should be encouraged. I am denied for what will be probably be for a total of 16 days if my counting is correct. Let's start with 2 edges for every day you have not had an orgasm spread out however long you want. That's 20 edges. The longest i have done is also two weeks. Keep it going if it's something you want to strive for. The orgasms for me are always better after a period of denial.
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06-12-2017, 07:11 PM | #4 | |
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Edges so far: 11/20
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06-12-2017, 08:57 PM | #5 |
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Well hello old friend,
I encourage you're denial. So let your friends on Get Dare Help you for a while. First I want to commend Your commitment to chastity. And tell you that we're here for you Even when it get's ghastly. First I want ten smacks Everytime that you are hard. With that little thing you have, That ruled piece of card. Next you will spend ten each day Talking to your bits. Encouraging him to "just stay strong!" And minimizing his fits. Lastly is your workout time Your muscle you will stretch. Twist and pull and rub and stroke Let's get it to the edge. For now my list of demands is done Tomorrow I may start anew Turns out I'm pretty good at this Didn't know I could rhyme, did you? (Actually I did know I could rhyme because me and my friends used to speak in prose for fun. LOSERS! Also in case any of that was lost on you I want 10 ruler smacks to your balls each day and at least 1 edge. Enjoy!)
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06-12-2017, 11:11 PM | #6 | |
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I have ever read on the internet. And your dare seems so much fun to do I'm sure it's meant to make me sweat. And so I'll slap my balls each day Just as you have requested, And treat my cock to one great edge According to what you've suggested. But most of all I'm glad to have Such a rhyme-y friend, Our speech so strong and witty, No others can contend! (I especially loved the parenthetical meta at the end, really emulating my style there. )
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06-14-2017, 01:41 AM | #7 |
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Oh boy! Get ready for some teasing!
Let's start simple with three edges, all using just your thumb and forefinger: First one focused on your whole dick Second one shaft only Third one head only Let me know when you're done |
06-14-2017, 08:52 PM | #8 |
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General Progress Report:
Tenveran: Of the 20 edges required, I've so far done 7. I haven't been including edges from other dares (because I feel that would defeat the purpose), but also I've been much busier than I expected lately so it's been slow going. Lucy: As you've requested I've edged once each day, And if my balls could speak "This hurts!" they'd say. (Edged once per day for you, not counting edges done for other dares. Also, until now I had actually never used that ruler on my balls before. It hurts more than I expected, but I'm taking it well!) Dickdrip: This has been complicated by a PM exchange we had, which also effects my ability to edge for the other dares. The point is I am currently only allowed to touch my cock with light, feather-like touches, which are impossible for me to edge with (minimal stimulation just doesn't get me there). The twist, then, is that this also prevents me from completing the dare Dickdrip posted here. We had our PM exchange before I had the time to commit to attempting his dare, and now the two contradict. We will sort this in time.
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06-16-2017, 01:54 PM | #9 |
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New Record!
Today marks exactly two weeks since my last orgasm, matching my previous record. From here on, every moment I go without cumming is enhancing my new personal denial record. Now a little progress report: Tenveran: Haven't had the time or ability to edge much lately, so it's been slow going. I had hoped to have much more of them done by now, so I'll try to hurry along to catch up in the next few days. Lucy: My balls are so sore And my cock, how it twitches. Given the choice, I'd choose cum over riches! Dickdrip: Now that our PM fun has concluded, I have completed your dare. It was hard as hell (literally and figuratively), as I really struggle with minimal stimulation. Stroking the shaft alone was probably the most difficult, it took all I had just to stay interested. But it's done, and was certainly worth the frustration.
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06-16-2017, 04:00 PM | #10 | |
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We're so proud of you. For opening yourself up And trying something new. How long can you go? I think quite a while. You have adapted quite well To your celibate lifestyle. So I'm gonna add something new, Kick it up a notch. Here's your new instructions, How to handle your crotch. First in addition To my edge and ball slaps. Use that small rope To give yourself a wrap- Around your two balls And straight up your shaft. Then send me a picture I'd love to see your craft (if you are willing ) You will spend 1 hour Each and every day. With your manhood locked up In this creative way. In addition to that Some circles you'll do. With only 1 finger 200 you'll do. (That's right. I just rhymed "You'll do" with "You'll do". Sue me.) I think that's it My list of demands. And remember, your right to cum Is still very much banned. (If that's unclear you may tie your balls and cock up and send me a picture (if you're willing) and do 200 1 finger circles around the head of your cock daily.)
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06-16-2017, 05:13 PM | #11 |
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I'm having a hard time with tasks for you to complete that would help you WANT to stay in denial. I'm not sure what edges actually do for a chastised person beyond just physical pleasure and mental punishment. And i don't want to say you are denied for ex amount of time, too generic.
So for your encouragement I want you to read one page from this blog daily. https://malechastityjournal.com/ Especially the stories of the couple. There is some good reads in there, I'm not sure what your aim is beyond just breaking a personal record. But i think it will give you some insight on to keep pushing. If it doesn't strike you as interesting try to find something similar that you can read daily.
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06-16-2017, 10:09 PM | #12 | |
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Than the ones you wrote above! If had as much heart I'd say I was in love! And so my friend Dear sweet Lucy I'll produce an image That only you'll-see. I'll take that rope And wrap my balls And keep one hour As my mind recalls. This reverse-chastity Will keep me so hard As I fulfill past wishes With that piece of ruled card. And per your request Many circles I'll do They will be done slowly With one finger, not two. It's your expectations That I now serve. My denial continues, As I keep my nerve. (The way you call out your own poetic failings is the hottest thing I've ever seen. Second only to being told I'm not allowed to cum.)
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06-16-2017, 10:22 PM | #13 | |
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Your dares don't necessarily need to make me want to stay in denial, I only ask that they don't actively sabotage it (i.e. "Edge forty billion times." There's no fucking way I'll pull off anything like that without cumming accidentally). It is Encourage me OR Tease me after all, you don't have to do both. You can add more edges, dabble in CBT, or come up with some clever bondage. Or just share your own denial stories, I love a good read. That said, this blog you've linked is awesome, and will definitely be both encouraging and teasing to read. A page of that every day is just the kind of excitement I need to prepare for the delicious sampling of hell that Lucy is providing.
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06-16-2017, 11:30 PM | #14 | |
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06-17-2017, 10:07 AM | #15 |
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Turns out I can only edit the same post so many times, so here's a new edge count from Tenveran's first dare:
Edge Count: 20/20 Edges complete!
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