Changing opinions on kinks...

Sex Speed Runner · 08-06-2023, 11:47 PM

Have you ever looked down upon or maybe more just thought you would never be into a certain kink, and then realised that it actually turns you on.

For example ever since i started exploring kinks etc, ive always had a distaste to feet. Any foot fetish related things i disliked. However when i was watching porn the other night, the girl was on top, and it was recording from behind, and i found myself drawn towards her feet, despite always insisting it wasn't for me.

Maybe you have had an opposite experience, where something you thought yeah id love that turned out not the way you wanted it.

Kisune Karnon · 08-07-2023, 12:16 PM

I don't think negatively about kinks, there's just some I won't do or only fantasize about doing. Any others that I've tried or experimented with have usually been good.

alex_af1996 · 08-12-2023, 03:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Sex Speed Runner

Have you ever looked down upon or maybe more just thought you would never be into a certain kink, and then realised that it actually turns you on.

For example ever since i started exploring kinks etc, ive always had a distaste to feet. Any foot fetish related things i disliked. However when i was watching porn the other night, the girl was on top, and it was recording from behind, and i found myself drawn towards her feet, despite always insisting it wasn't for me.

Maybe you have had an opposite experience, where something you thought yeah id love that turned out not the way you wanted it.

Yes I was so against so many things and then when I tried them I was like hell yeah this is fun to explore. I regret not trying more things when I was fully addicted to being an online sub

tarheel52 · 11-08-2023, 11:10 AM

A former long term online Master changed my opinion on two kinks. He enjoyed instructing piss play and cum eating. I wasn’t keen on either. He knew my dislikes and limits as we had a cam D/s relationship for over a year.

First, he told me he respected my limits but wanted to talk about piss play. After talking about it and being promised we’d take it slow, I started my adventure into water sports. It started with some bladder control and peeing on cam for him. Progressed into peeing on my naked self (no face) and peeing myself clothed. Then went to pouring some in my mouth and spitting it. And ended with me enjoying drinking my own piss for him either out of a glass or straight from my dick.

Later on, we talked cum eating. This one we went straight for it. We talked and I agreed that I would try to swallow every cum shot for a month on cam for my Master. At first it was a little tough but I powered through. By the end of the month I was so horny I was begging my Master to login to my cam so I could cum in my mouth. I have since backed off of eating every cum shot, but I enjoy it when I’m instructed to and it brings a Dom pleasure.

ReiTheAstray · 11-11-2023, 07:57 PM

I think that's quite normal, really. I mean for one, as they say, "you don't know until you try." You may see something you think you'd like, try it, and end up hating it - or find yourself in a position to try something you didn't think you'd like or even try, and end up liking it.

And of course opinions and situations change over time, so you may find yourself liking something more or less than you did previously.

I know my interests and tastes have certainly evolved over time.

levu · 01-16-2024, 11:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Sex Speed Runner

Have you ever looked down upon or maybe more just thought you would never be into a certain kink, and then realised that it actually turns you on.

For example ever since i started exploring kinks etc, ive always had a distaste to feet. Any foot fetish related things i disliked. However when i was watching porn the other night, the girl was on top, and it was recording from behind, and i found myself drawn towards her feet, despite always insisting it wasn't for me.

Maybe you have had an opposite experience, where something you thought yeah id love that turned out not the way you wanted it.

I used to think I'd hate urination/wetting kink, and I don't do it much for obvious reasons, but I do enjoy it infrequently

08-06-2023, 11:47 PM	#1
Sex Speed Runner Account Banned Join Date: Apr 2022 Location: England Posts: 477 Blog Entries: 11	Changing opinions on kinks... Have you ever looked down upon or maybe more just thought you would never be into a certain kink, and then realised that it actually turns you on. For example ever since i started exploring kinks etc, ive always had a distaste to feet. Any foot fetish related things i disliked. However when i was watching porn the other night, the girl was on top, and it was recording from behind, and i found myself drawn towards her feet, despite always insisting it wasn't for me. Maybe you have had an opposite experience, where something you thought yeah id love that turned out not the way you wanted it. __________________ 20/Male/UK Interested in a casual Domme PM Dares Likes- Porn watching, Edging, JOI, Humiliation, Ice, Semi/Hidden Public, Driving, Gaming Dislikes- Piss, Cum eating, Anal, Photos, Moderate Pain Limits- Face, Illegal, Family, Friends, Social Suicide, Shit, Messy, Permanent, Harsh Pain 'In liquid raptures I dissolve all o’er, Melt into sperm, and spend at every pore. A touch from any part of her had done’t, Her hand, her foot, her very look’s a cunt.'

08-07-2023, 12:16 PM	#2
Kisune Karnon GetDare Ninja Join Date: May 2010 Location: Imagination Land Posts: 12,192 Blog Entries: 7	I don't think negatively about kinks, there's just some I won't do or only fantasize about doing. Any others that I've tried or experimented with have usually been good. __________________ Male/Married/Straight/Switch/32/190 lbs Likes and Limits Toys (So Far) PM Dares Utilizing Keywords Version 3 Kik: Kisune22 My goal is to give good dares and receive them because that is how I enjoy the game. I will send reports when I choose to or if I am asked. If you give me a repeated dare or a "do your own dare," I will be very disappointed because I like to be surprised and challenged.

11-08-2023, 11:10 AM	#4
tarheel52 Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: USA Posts: 161	A former long term online Master changed my opinion on two kinks. He enjoyed instructing piss play and cum eating. I wasn’t keen on either. He knew my dislikes and limits as we had a cam D/s relationship for over a year. First, he told me he respected my limits but wanted to talk about piss play. After talking about it and being promised we’d take it slow, I started my adventure into water sports. It started with some bladder control and peeing on cam for him. Progressed into peeing on my naked self (no face) and peeing myself clothed. Then went to pouring some in my mouth and spitting it. And ended with me enjoying drinking my own piss for him either out of a glass or straight from my dick. Later on, we talked cum eating. This one we went straight for it. We talked and I agreed that I would try to swallow every cum shot for a month on cam for my Master. At first it was a little tough but I powered through. By the end of the month I was so horny I was begging my Master to login to my cam so I could cum in my mouth. I have since backed off of eating every cum shot, but I enjoy it when I’m instructed to and it brings a Dom pleasure. __________________ tarheel52 submissive boy / 34 Likes: feet, barefoot, long masturbation, orgasm control, bladder control, forfeit games, watersports, spanking, CBT, cum eating, performing tasks and pleasing Dislikes: anything very public or involving someone else, face on cam or in pics

11-11-2023, 07:57 PM	#5
ReiTheAstray Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2023 Posts: 12	I think that's quite normal, really. I mean for one, as they say, "you don't know until you try." You may see something you think you'd like, try it, and end up hating it - or find yourself in a position to try something you didn't think you'd like or even try, and end up liking it. And of course opinions and situations change over time, so you may find yourself liking something more or less than you did previously. I know my interests and tastes have certainly evolved over time.