Do you enjoy reluctance for dares? - Page 3

Strangest · 06-25-2023, 11:39 AM

When I'm giving dares I like a little reluctance. When I'm getting them I love a lot more. CNC is a big one for me.

Newfoundsex · 06-25-2023, 12:00 PM

Yeah, definitely. A dare you WANT to do is only so fun. But something you really don't want to do (or at least act like it) but you give in to it, that's hot. And it goes both ways

rhode64 · 06-25-2023, 01:06 PM

Yes if their isnt self doubt or fear etc there is no fun

curiousuk86 · 06-27-2023, 08:25 AM

Yes, as someone who receives dares, it really should be something that I wouldn't just do anyway.

I prefer the ones that have an element of chance or risk, so that I know I might commit myself to something that pushes the boundaries of what I feel comfortable with.

There are a few dares on here that are along the lines of 'put your kik in if you want someone you can send your pictures to and they'll expose you on a few sites', which seem a little boring. If I wanted something that simple I could just do it myself.

anthem · 06-27-2023, 08:40 AM

yes, when it is receiving dares, it prefers having to overcome reluctance. the feeling of being made to do something is very important. in fact, without dares or orders, it is generally reluctant to engage even with its likes, and has to imagine being forced in order to do so.

when it has to give dares, it is very uncomfortable with people's reluctance. however, it knows that others also want reluctance as part of the experience. so it tries to imagine receiving the dare in order to write dares that push at an appropriate level.

VeronikaAnalSubSlut · 06-28-2023, 08:17 AM

Definitely love it.

The problem is that it can make it harder to communicate especially online.

As this slut only gets into cnc or reluctance if told it's okay. Otherwise she tries to give feedback as truthful as possible.

StripPokerGirl · 01-30-2024, 07:02 PM

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Originally Posted by cariadferch

Yes, for both. The thrill of the possibility of being forced to do something forbidden is a big turn on. The strange part is, that though losing can be very arousing, when someone tries to lose, or eagerly does the dare, that is a big turn off. It's like two nudist friends playing strip poker.

I completely agree. When I play a strip game, I always try to make sure there is some element of reluctance. I do not want to play a game with people that want to be seen nude.

Just_a_subguy · 01-30-2024, 08:52 PM

Yes I do sometimes enjoy a bit a reluctance when I am given a dare or task to do

06-25-2023, 11:39 AM	#31
Strangest Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2023 Posts: 6	When I'm giving dares I like a little reluctance. When I'm getting them I love a lot more. CNC is a big one for me. __________________ 34/male/California/switch Likes: messy, bondage, CBT, pain, orgasm control, chastity, anal, degradation, humiliation, piss, scat Limits: social suicide, permanent Kik: Ryan11370

06-25-2023, 12:00 PM	#32
Newfoundsex Member Join Date: Mar 2020 Posts: 56	Yeah, definitely. A dare you WANT to do is only so fun. But something you really don't want to do (or at least act like it) but you give in to it, that's hot. And it goes both ways __________________ Limits: Social Suicide, permanent, personal info, illegal Kik: Donwinters443 beat my meat

06-25-2023, 01:06 PM	#33
rhode64 getDare Patriot Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: England south coast Posts: 3,043 Blog Entries: 3	Yes Yes if their isnt self doubt or fear etc there is no fun

06-27-2023, 08:25 AM	#34
curiousuk86 Member Join Date: May 2022 Posts: 66	Yes, as someone who receives dares, it really should be something that I wouldn't just do anyway. I prefer the ones that have an element of chance or risk, so that I know I might commit myself to something that pushes the boundaries of what I feel comfortable with. There are a few dares on here that are along the lines of 'put your kik in if you want someone you can send your pictures to and they'll expose you on a few sites', which seem a little boring. If I wanted something that simple I could just do it myself. __________________ 37/M Likes: Humiliation, light CBT, hidden public, raceplay Limits: Crossdressing

06-27-2023, 08:40 AM	#35
anthem Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2015 Posts: 192 Blog Entries: 4	yes, when it is receiving dares, it prefers having to overcome reluctance. the feeling of being made to do something is very important. in fact, without dares or orders, it is generally reluctant to engage even with its likes, and has to imagine being forced in order to do so. when it has to give dares, it is very uncomfortable with people's reluctance. however, it knows that others also want reluctance as part of the experience. so it tries to imagine receiving the dare in order to write dares that push at an appropriate level. __________________ 29 FtM sub. he/it. cunt, clit, flat chest. Fun: mild humiliation, bladder control, medium spanking/pain, games Punishments, training, and humiliation: harsh spanking, piss, diapers, feet, chores, bodywriting, speech control Limits: pics, public, feminization, petplay, ageplay, scat, friends/family, permanent PM Dares \| Toys & Implements \| Rules

06-28-2023, 08:17 AM	#36
VeronikaAnalSubSlut Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2021 Location: Germany Posts: 130 Blog Entries: 2	Definitely love it. The problem is that it can make it harder to communicate especially online. As this slut only gets into cnc or reluctance if told it's okay. Otherwise she tries to give feedback as truthful as possible. __________________ Info / Rules My Dirty Code kik: Anal.Sub.Slut or just PM Wallclaimer: veronika AMA

01-30-2024, 08:52 PM	#38
Just_a_subguy Member Join Date: Feb 2018 Posts: 87	Yes I do sometimes enjoy a bit a reluctance when I am given a dare or task to do __________________ Accepting kik or PM dares. Will edge anytime Likes: Edging, Orgasm control, Denial, Wedgies, Anal insertion, Panties, Diapers, Nudity, Hidden public dares, Outdoors, Being told to strip, Bathroom control/desperation Limits: Family, Social Suicide, Online exposure, Body Writing, Pain, Showing face in pics or videos Kik Muffin_Time10