Basic Master stuff

Pj1977 · 07-02-2012, 08:59 AM

I'm sure this has been covered but I'm new to the whole master/slave and I'd like to explore both sides. But I'm not very experienced, once I find a willing slave I need to know how to treat her but I'm wondering if there is a good place to start? I know someone who is willing but they are expecting me to know what to do from the outset and I don't want to disappoint.

Thanks folks

Paul

fromo · 07-02-2012, 12:29 PM

Well, first off, read through the several threads in the master slave lounge, on how to be a dominant ect. there are no set in stone ways to things, but they should help you to find your feet some.

This thread just below you'res is a prime example and you should read through it:
http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=47512

But my first and formost piece of advice to any starting out dom, you do not know whats right all the time, you will be wrong at times, ask and listen and then act, do not just act and see how it goes, whenever looking into something new, research into it, and issue's there could be ect.

Pj1977 · 07-02-2012, 12:33 PM

Thanks Fromo, will give it a read, I could learn alot!

I just need to find a willing subject, the girl who was interested may already have found a master so the search continues

Paul.

vulcan · 07-02-2012, 04:19 PM

As fromo has said, you won't get it right all the time, you are bound to make mistakes. This won't matter as long as you learn from them and as long as your sub/slave understands that you are both learning together and is happy with that.
We all had to start somewhere, even the most experienced of us were newbies once even if that was before the age of the dinosaurs for some of us, lol.
I really hope you find the right person and that all goes well.
if I can ever help, or you just want somebody to talk or bitch to please feel free to contact me.

Vulcan

07-02-2012, 08:59 AM	#1
Pj1977 Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Posts: 15	Basic Master stuff I'm sure this has been covered but I'm new to the whole master/slave and I'd like to explore both sides. But I'm not very experienced, once I find a willing slave I need to know how to treat her but I'm wondering if there is a good place to start? I know someone who is willing but they are expecting me to know what to do from the outset and I don't want to disappoint. Thanks folks Paul

07-02-2012, 12:29 PM	#2
fromo Distinguished Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: UK Posts: 959	Well, first off, read through the several threads in the master slave lounge, on how to be a dominant ect. there are no set in stone ways to things, but they should help you to find your feet some. This thread just below you'res is a prime example and you should read through it: http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=47512 But my first and formost piece of advice to any starting out dom, you do not know whats right all the time, you will be wrong at times, ask and listen and then act, do not just act and see how it goes, whenever looking into something new, research into it, and issue's there could be ect. __________________ "The cogs creak a melody Sing a lullaby for the doomed The ones who would never be Will find a vessel in the paleblood moon..." My Current Add Searching For A Sub: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=431569

07-02-2012, 12:33 PM	#3
Pj1977 Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Posts: 15	Thanks Fromo, will give it a read, I could learn alot! I just need to find a willing subject, the girl who was interested may already have found a master so the search continues Paul.

07-02-2012, 04:19 PM	#4
vulcan Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: U.K. Posts: 113	As fromo has said, you won't get it right all the time, you are bound to make mistakes. This won't matter as long as you learn from them and as long as your sub/slave understands that you are both learning together and is happy with that. We all had to start somewhere, even the most experienced of us were newbies once even if that was before the age of the dinosaurs for some of us, lol. I really hope you find the right person and that all goes well. if I can ever help, or you just want somebody to talk or bitch to please feel free to contact me. Vulcan