BDSM movies?

lilith_ · 04-17-2018, 07:08 AM

Hello,

I'd like to ask whether you know any good movies that involve BDSM. Yeah, not 50 Shades of Grey, pls.
Also, I'd appreciate it if you reccommended any good books as well!

Much love,
a kinky nerd xoxo

Satoshi · 04-17-2018, 07:31 AM

I've seen references to it in many movies.. But not one movie centered around it.

Series:
- Californication (has episodes involving kinky themes) Overall amazing series too.

Movies:
- Secretary (2002) - Drama/Comedy
- The Pet (2006) - Involving kidnapping and in the end quite extreme forms of degradation/slavery.
- Maîtresse (1976)

Can't immediatly remember more from the top of my head.

P.S. Really really curious in suggestions from others *nods*

RiskyFlame · 04-18-2018, 01:25 PM

I've watched a few BDSM films so far and after reading your thread I am looking for more. I find it hard to find some films that revolve around the element of BDSM because they are hidden among films that have but a minor element of BDSM. Nonetheless, I've managed to find quite a few new ones to watch.

[2014] The Duke of Burgundy
[2014] Miss Julie
[2013] Venus in Fur
[2009] SM-rechter (translation: SM-judge)**
[2001] After Fall: Winter* (minor element of BDSM)
[1992] Bitter Moon
[1987] Personal Services
[1986] Nine Onehalf Weeks
[1874] The Night Porter
[1974] La Cagna
[1966] The Embryo Hunts in Secret

If you want to know which ones I watched and which ones I think look promising, PM me.

* Spoiler about the film

Spoiler:

The film has a major flaw and an awful ending (plot-wise), but still a good film.

** I watched this movie when I was young and I loved it. My film standards were a lot lower back then so I'm curious how good this film actually is.

lilith_ · 04-18-2018, 03:23 PM

Wow thank you both a lot!!! I'd love to read some books as well, I already have Justine by Marquis de Sade in my library but I want to expand it :P

kurious kat · 04-20-2018, 06:48 AM

Unfortunately, most often what I've found in mainstream media and publishing is "Vanilla person stumbles into BDSM, is weirded out by it, and ends up menaced by a deeply disturbed individual within its ranks." While some are very much centered on the concept of BDSM, most use it as an excuse to talk about antisocial behavior.

For movies, Secretary gets my vote for best actual-bdsm romance on screen!

I've also seen the campy 1980s comedy Exit to Eden, the slow-paced drama The Duke of Burgundy, and Quills about the Marquis de Sade. All three are BDSM-themed, but were far less satisfying for me.

For books, some top happily-kinky authors include:
Anne Rice (The Sleeping Beauty trilogy, or Exit to Eden)
Laura Antoniou (The Marketplace series, or her mystery/comedy The Killer Wore Leather)
Laurell K Hamilton (Kinky poly with supernatural guys, which starts around book 5 or 6 of the Anita Blake series)
Cherise Sinclair (Haven't read any of her work personally, but have heard promising things)

lola.fox · 04-20-2018, 07:01 AM

this isnt really -on topic- so i apologize, but i recently saw the secretary for the first time and i cringed the whole time! is that a common reaction to that movie, or am i the only one who was uncomfortable watching it

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amethyst353 · 04-20-2018, 03:40 PM

Professor Marston and the Wonder Women from last year is super good. BDSM isn't the focus of the movie, but when it shows up, it is good.

lilith_ · 04-21-2018, 07:58 AM

Thank you all for the suggestions

IceMaiden · 04-21-2018, 11:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lola.fox

this isnt really -on topic- so i apologize, but i recently saw the secretary for the first time and i cringed the whole time! is that a common reaction to that movie, or am i the only one who was uncomfortable watching it

.

I wasn't fond of it either!

Masters of the shadowlands by Cherise Sinclair are brilliant books in my opinion. I loved all of them.

sir sam · 04-21-2018, 11:15 AM

What about the classic, "mother of all":' l'histoire d'O.

Both book and film.
I watched and read them about 20years ago. Liked them at that time but have no clue how one would like them now.

JONTYTHEKING · 04-22-2018, 05:19 AM

For movies with that theme attached loosely..

Teeth
Hard Candy
The Hostel

lilith_ · 04-22-2018, 04:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JONTYTHEKING

For movies with that theme attached loosely..

Teeth
Hard Candy
The Hostel

God, I've seen hard candy and that movie annoyed me so much hahaha also the girl looks like Justin Bieber.

Unwritten · 04-26-2018, 06:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by marissa353

Professor Marston and the Wonder Women from last year is super good. BDSM isn't the focus of the movie, but when it shows up, it is good.

Second vote for Professor Marston and the Wonder Women. Not only for the positive representation of consensual kink, but also the rare film showing a positive representation of polyamory.

Forester · 04-26-2018, 06:47 AM

Yeah, I also watched Professor Marston and the Wonder Women. Great movie altogether!

04-17-2018, 07:08 AM	#1
lilith_ getDare Devil Join Date: Jan 2018 Posts: 1,101 Blog Entries: 32	BDSM movies? Hello, I'd like to ask whether you know any good movies that involve BDSM. Yeah, not 50 Shades of Grey, pls. Also, I'd appreciate it if you reccommended any good books as well! Much love, a kinky nerd xoxo __________________ *she/her ~ sub ~ bi* likes, dislikes, limits last orgasm: november 2022 my discord server: how to get in wanna message me? my usernames

04-17-2018, 07:31 AM	#2
Satoshi Lola’s Sweet Little Lamb Join Date: Nov 2015 Posts: 210 Blog Entries: 12	I've seen references to it in many movies.. But not one movie centered around it. Series: - Californication (has episodes involving kinky themes) Overall amazing series too. Movies: - Secretary (2002) - Drama/Comedy - The Pet (2006) - Involving kidnapping and in the end quite extreme forms of degradation/slavery. - Maîtresse (1976) Can't immediatly remember more from the top of my head. P.S. Really really curious in suggestions from others nods Last edited by Satoshi; 04-17-2018 at 08:12 AM.

04-18-2018, 01:25 PM	#3
RiskyFlame Longtime User Join Date: Mar 2014 Posts: 3,292 Blog Entries: 17	I've watched a few BDSM films so far and after reading your thread I am looking for more. I find it hard to find some films that revolve around the element of BDSM because they are hidden among films that have but a minor element of BDSM. Nonetheless, I've managed to find quite a few new ones to watch. [2014] The Duke of Burgundy [2014] Miss Julie [2013] Venus in Fur [2009] SM-rechter (translation: SM-judge)** [2001] After Fall: Winter* (minor element of BDSM) [1992] Bitter Moon [1987] Personal Services [1986] Nine Onehalf Weeks [1874] The Night Porter [1974] La Cagna [1966] The Embryo Hunts in Secret If you want to know which ones I watched and which ones I think look promising, PM me. * Spoiler about the film Spoiler: The film has a major flaw and an awful ending (plot-wise), but still a good film. ** I watched this movie when I was young and I loved it. My film standards were a lot lower back then so I'm curious how good this film actually is. __________________ Still responsive to DMs here I've only really liked a handful of people in my life, and you've been two of them. —Hans Axgil— Last edited by RiskyFlame; 04-18-2018 at 01:28 PM.

04-18-2018, 03:23 PM	#4
lilith_ getDare Devil Join Date: Jan 2018 Posts: 1,101 Blog Entries: 32	Wow thank you both a lot!!! I'd love to read some books as well, I already have Justine by Marquis de Sade in my library but I want to expand it :P __________________ *she/her ~ sub ~ bi* likes, dislikes, limits last orgasm: november 2022 my discord server: how to get in wanna message me? my usernames

04-20-2018, 07:01 AM	#6
lola.fox ♡ limited edition - cock tease barbie ♡ Join Date: Jan 2014 Posts: 1,803 Blog Entries: 53	this isnt really -on topic- so i apologize, but i recently saw the secretary for the first time and i cringed the whole time! is that a common reaction to that movie, or am i the only one who was uncomfortable watching it . __________________ likes + limits + inbetween i’m a pint-sized lady with not so tiny curves who despises mindless small talk, men who ask for things they don't deserve, and women who have a penchant for gossip.

04-20-2018, 06:48 AM	#5
kurious kat getDare's Kinkiest Kitty Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: USA Posts: 700 Blog Entries: 26	Unfortunately, most often what I've found in mainstream media and publishing is "Vanilla person stumbles into BDSM, is weirded out by it, and ends up menaced by a deeply disturbed individual within its ranks." While some are very much centered on the concept of BDSM, most use it as an excuse to talk about antisocial behavior. For movies, Secretary gets my vote for best actual-bdsm romance on screen! I've also seen the campy 1980s comedy Exit to Eden, the slow-paced drama The Duke of Burgundy, and Quills about the Marquis de Sade. All three are BDSM-themed, but were far less satisfying for me. For books, some top happily-kinky authors include: Anne Rice (The Sleeping Beauty trilogy, or Exit to Eden) Laura Antoniou (The Marketplace series, or her mystery/comedy The Killer Wore Leather) Laurell K Hamilton (Kinky poly with supernatural guys, which starts around book 5 or 6 of the Anita Blake series) Cherise Sinclair (Haven't read any of her work personally, but have heard promising things)

04-20-2018, 03:40 PM	#7
amethyst353 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Sep 2016 Posts: 498 Blog Entries: 16	Professor Marston and the Wonder Women from last year is super good. BDSM isn't the focus of the movie, but when it shows up, it is good. __________________ 32\|bi(prefers women)\|trans woman\|sub-leaning switch formerly known as marissa353 loves: humiliation, gags, bodywriting, bondage, games limits: pics with face, messing with sleep, public, heavy blackmail, videos, permanent, scat, extreme pain Note: I transitioned years ago - wearing women's clothes isn't a dare. If you give me a sissy-themed dare, I will ignore you. Full likes/limits \| Toys/Items I Own \| PM Dares (friends only for a bit) \| My current rules

04-21-2018, 07:58 AM	#8
lilith_ getDare Devil Join Date: Jan 2018 Posts: 1,101 Blog Entries: 32	Thank you all for the suggestions __________________ *she/her ~ sub ~ bi* likes, dislikes, limits last orgasm: november 2022 my discord server: how to get in wanna message me? my usernames

04-21-2018, 11:15 AM	#10
sir sam Distinguished Member Join Date: Dec 2016 Location: Europe (gmt+1) Posts: 795 Blog Entries: 51	What about the classic, "mother of all":' l'histoire d'O. Both book and film. I watched and read them about 20years ago. Liked them at that time but have no clue how one would like them now. __________________ M, Europe, dominant Proud owner of sweet little pet Want to read? my pets 2016-awarded story

04-22-2018, 05:19 AM	#11
JONTYTHEKING getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: UK Posts: 316 Blog Entries: 6	For movies with that theme attached loosely.. Teeth Hard Candy The Hostel

04-26-2018, 06:47 AM	#14
Forester getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Apr 2016 Location: Finland Posts: 266 Blog Entries: 2	Yeah, I also watched Professor Marston and the Wonder Women. Great movie altogether! __________________ 24\|Bi\|Sub Likes; Anal, bondage, chastity, marks, humiliation, pain, hidden public, dice dares & bets, pics, emlalock. Limits; Scat, illegal, family, social suicide/full public, extreme pain, very messy, permanent. Also wedgies and ABDL. Anything else is up for debate. My toys and PM dares. My BDSM test and sexmap. Kik: Foresterfin