Choose Your Own Blackmail Dare

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Overview

This is an idea or framework for a simple and flexible game. For now, consider the below a working draft.

The purpose of the game is to allow nervous submissives the chance to dip their toes into a more limited and self-chosen experience of consensual blackmail without losing all control. For more experienced submissives, it will give a chance to submit to a specific self-chosen task more directly, so particular kinks or ‘bucket list’ fantasies and tasks can be explored.

The specific details will be decided between sub, dom, or fellow switches, but in outline it will work as follows:

Post your offer/task

Subs can post below, nominating themselves for a specific task. You will describe the task of your own choosing in your initial post—this will be the task you commit to completing, and the dominant may not demand any other task. You may also choose to state whether you will complete the task once with a dom of your choosing, or must complete it for each dom who messages you while your post remains up.

Doms (or subs/switches who want to take a fellow sub/switch up on their task) will get in touch with them via PM, or the chat apps left by the submissive in their comment, beginning the process below.

Agreeing the contract

Once contact has been made, the two parties will agree to blackmail terms,
and time limits for when the sub must have sent proof of task completion. For longer-term or ‘in the future’ tasks this can be whatever will work best. For everything else a shorter-term window is recommended.

The method of assuring completion will be collateral of some kind. This can be achieved by sending exposing photos, personal details, and/or contact details etc. Alternatively, it can be decided by agreeing to play another blackmail/exposure dice date here. In the latter case, the chosen dice dare will be used only as a framework for providing collateral – all specific rules of the other dice dare once
completed (e.g. exposure or regular blackmail rules) will be considered null for the purposes of this game.

Proof can be negotiated, but unless agreed otherwise it ought to be a video fully showing the task that has been agreed being carried out. This would leave little doubt or room for backing out once the agreement is in place.

Agreeing the penalty

Once the method of collateral/blackmail has been agreed, both parties will agree to the penalty that will be exacted if proof of completion isn’t provided within the agreed upon window. This is a negotiation, but once clear consent to the rules has been agreed by the submissive the dom can consider the rules set in place, and uphold them.

The specifics of the penalty can be whatever both parties agree, but I suggest this game will work better if the penalty represents a form of exposure the submissive would do almost anything to avoid. That way completion is all but assured. There are plenty of ideas here in other threads and dice dares for possible penalties..

If task is completed

If the submissive’s chosen task chosen is completed, with proof submitted within the agreed timeframe, they have completed their role, and the following must be done by the dominant: all collateral (info and photos) will be completely erased. This is the primary commitment of the dom, and is non-negotiable. The submissive will then be free, and it is your responsibility to make sure this is carried out properly and fairly.

Even if both players wish to play again, the collateral must still be deleted upon successful completion. Should you choose to play another game, you will both start from scratch. This will keep things cleaner and clearer.

If the task is not completed

If the task is not complete within the agreed-upon time window, the submissive will be exposed, or suffer whatever penalty has been agreed. It is important that that this penalty is carried out fully by the dominant in line with the rules as mutually agreed; otherwise the submissive will never learn. This game will succeed through fair and proper enforcement, and each submissive must know that completing their agreed-upon task is the only way to avoid penalty.

Rules/safety

My goal with this game is to provide a clear framework with boundaries for both players.

The submissive must know that they will receive the penalty if they don’t complete their self-chosen task, and will have no right to feel aggrieved if they haven’t done as agreed.

The dominant must end the game fully on successful completion, deleting all collateral and compromising photos/videos/info regardless. The slate will then be wiped clean, and both can part company on good terms, or choose to start this task again from the beginning. Should any subs encounter a dominant who doesn’t honour these rules, please call it out in the thread.

Thoughts

Hopefully this game will prove workable, and help get around some of the complexities or concerns entailed in more open-ended blackmail, at least for those who wish to try this approach.

This is very much a work in progress, so please post any suggestions or thoughts below too.