My partner agreed to keep me in chastity!

nx_ · 01-02-2017, 07:02 PM

Hi,

Big news! My partner agreed to lock me up in a chastity device. I asked her because I think I'm masturbating to much and get a bad feeling afterwards cause I feel like I am betraying her, and because I'd really love to have it owned by her.

We already did some SM related Stuff in the past, as we both got sadistic and masochistic characteristics (though she's got a larger sadistic site than me and I'm more of a masochist, but it's the perfect mixture)
We already did Bondage and stuff and I love to having her firmly scratch and bite me.

Now I told her about my fantasy to be kept in a chastity device, and she said that it was ok for her and she would try it, but she doesn't have any ideas what to do with this new situation.
Do you have any Ideas on how to start and what to do? (else than just normal Tease & Denial ect)

The lock will have two Keys. She will get one of them and I keep the other one but it will be kept in a good secured envelope and I am only allowed to open the envelope and unlock myself in case of emergency (like if it really stats to hurt or my balls turn blue ect). Also I have to report when I have to unlock myself and let her put the key in a new envelope.
She will make the envelope unique in a way that I cant cheat by opening it and puting the key in another one after.

I will order a chastity cage as soon as we're back from my trip (wich will be on January 7th) so we will probably start around the 10th.

Wedgiebondagebabe · 01-02-2017, 07:50 PM

I think my advice is just to do the last thing you probably want to do. Read. Do your research. See how people play. See what other people do. Read blogs and search online. Do be careful for the truthfulness of the reports, but its a place to start. I know cuckolding is more than chastity, but there might be some ideas there. Other than that I really do not have much experience. Another idea since you have a second key is to make an ice lock at some point and play with that. Just realize the larger the block, the longer it will take to melt. I apologize if this is not much help.

nx_ · 01-02-2017, 08:31 PM

Thanks for the great Ideas

We are both not interested in cuckolding at all as she couldn't ever do this cause she loves me way too much and wouldn't ever cheat on me. And I wouldn't want it either.

But still thanks ^-^

Wedgiebondagebabe · 01-02-2017, 08:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nx_

Thanks for the great Ideas

We are both not interested in cuckolding at all as she couldn't ever do this cause she loves me way too much and wouldn't ever cheat on me. And I wouldn't want it either.

But still thanks ^-^

Well it might have some ideas for things you could do that relate to chastity. I am not saying go full into that realm. It just might be a place you might not have thought to get ideas from.

nx_ · 01-03-2017, 09:25 PM

Does anyone else have some Ideas?

01-02-2017, 07:02 PM	#1
nx_ Member Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: Germany Posts: 62 Blog Entries: 4	My partner agreed to keep me in chastity! Hi, Big news! My partner agreed to lock me up in a chastity device. I asked her because I think I'm masturbating to much and get a bad feeling afterwards cause I feel like I am betraying her, and because I'd really love to have it owned by her. We already did some SM related Stuff in the past, as we both got sadistic and masochistic characteristics (though she's got a larger sadistic site than me and I'm more of a masochist, but it's the perfect mixture) We already did Bondage and stuff and I love to having her firmly scratch and bite me. Now I told her about my fantasy to be kept in a chastity device, and she said that it was ok for her and she would try it, but she doesn't have any ideas what to do with this new situation. Do you have any Ideas on how to start and what to do? (else than just normal Tease & Denial ect) The lock will have two Keys. She will get one of them and I keep the other one but it will be kept in a good secured envelope and I am only allowed to open the envelope and unlock myself in case of emergency (like if it really stats to hurt or my balls turn blue ect). Also I have to report when I have to unlock myself and let her put the key in a new envelope. She will make the envelope unique in a way that I cant cheat by opening it and puting the key in another one after. I will order a chastity cage as soon as we're back from my trip (wich will be on January 7th) so we will probably start around the 10th. __________________ 19 \| MtF (on HRT since 13th Oct 2017) \| Sub \| In a relationship (Nick)Name: Annie or Aya (Please call me like this) I sadly still do have male hardware. Surgery probably end of this year! My Likes / Dislikes / Limits ect My Toys PM me whenever you like! Please send me PM Dares!!! Please note I got some special PM dares ^-^ Please give me Rules!!!

01-02-2017, 07:50 PM	#2
Wedgiebondagebabe getDare Addict Join Date: Feb 2016 Location: Dante's seventh circle, ring 2 Posts: 2,072 Blog Entries: 51	I think my advice is just to do the last thing you probably want to do. Read. Do your research. See how people play. See what other people do. Read blogs and search online. Do be careful for the truthfulness of the reports, but its a place to start. I know cuckolding is more than chastity, but there might be some ideas there. Other than that I really do not have much experience. Another idea since you have a second key is to make an ice lock at some point and play with that. Just realize the larger the block, the longer it will take to melt. I apologize if this is not much help. __________________ 23/F/Switch/Straight If you want to chat, send me a pm Happily engaged! My Likes & Limits: My AMA My Human Sex Map My BDSM Test Results This needs to end I am NOT looking for a dom or sub at this time Please do not send me PM messages asking for tasks, dares, games, or forfeits

01-02-2017, 08:31 PM	#3
nx_ Member Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: Germany Posts: 62 Blog Entries: 4	Thanks for the great Ideas We are both not interested in cuckolding at all as she couldn't ever do this cause she loves me way too much and wouldn't ever cheat on me. And I wouldn't want it either. But still thanks ^-^ __________________ 19 \| MtF (on HRT since 13th Oct 2017) \| Sub \| In a relationship (Nick)Name: Annie or Aya (Please call me like this) I sadly still do have male hardware. Surgery probably end of this year! My Likes / Dislikes / Limits ect My Toys PM me whenever you like! Please send me PM Dares!!! Please note I got some special PM dares ^-^ Please give me Rules!!!

01-03-2017, 09:25 PM	#5
nx_ Member Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: Germany Posts: 62 Blog Entries: 4	Does anyone else have some Ideas? __________________ 19 \| MtF (on HRT since 13th Oct 2017) \| Sub \| In a relationship (Nick)Name: Annie or Aya (Please call me like this) I sadly still do have male hardware. Surgery probably end of this year! My Likes / Dislikes / Limits ect My Toys PM me whenever you like! Please send me PM Dares!!! Please note I got some special PM dares ^-^ Please give me Rules!!!