a dare for everyone! enjoy.

chubcherub · 01-08-2021, 03:46 PM

i dare you to change.

have you saved yourself? are you content with your life? are your fetishes and fantasies interfering with your real life and relationships? do you feel guilty after engaging in this sexual activity online?

i imagine most of you do. i do, and i am taking an active stance to save myself from this perverse spiral. this site is wrong and encourages unsafe and amoral behaviour. i am not proud of what i have done and engaged with and how it has been normalised here. we should be encouraging ourselves to rise from these perversions and re-engage in better and healthier behaviour, we shouldn't be telling each other that this is okay.

people are literally ruining other peoples lives with blackmail dares. how is that okay? how can sexual fulfilment be more important than someones entire life - their family, their friends, their work. i can say the same for many other "fetishes." sure, some sexy and silly truths and dares are harmless. but this website clearly has no ethical concern about where the line is drawn. don't let yourself be sucked in. this is your wake-up message!

this will be my last post on getdare after having various accounts on here for many years. i will be blocking this website and all pornographic content on my computer. porn kills, by the way -- and this is coming from someone who considers themselves a semi-porn addict. not only in the way it impacts the lives of its consumers, but its "actors" too: you only have to look at the recent pornhub scandal to see the truth of this.

this message is for everyone. but it is especially for those who have these feelings and cycles of guilt like i have. you are not yourself when horny, believe me. and you have the willpower and self worth to change it.

i imagine this post will be deleted soon. but i hope that just one person can read it. i believe in you. you can change.

shyguy88 · 01-08-2021, 05:33 PM

if you want to leave thats fine, just leave though, no need to post this everywhere

lill · 01-08-2021, 06:00 PM

its really not up to you to say that this is amoral. this is a site were people can meet and share expirances. i cant say for what you have dont on this site or for everyone, but most people dont engage in anything illigal or wrong. if someone wants to be told how many spanks to have its up to them. i for one am glad your leaving, it removes a major element of kink shaming.

the_arnold · 01-10-2021, 05:47 PM

Bro just let people cum and enjoy their life lmao

Pull that stick out of your arse

jannemannetjens · 01-11-2021, 08:02 AM

I dare you to rid yourself of culturally imposed shame and enjoy the links that you were given for pleasure! Life's to short to live in shame fear and guilt. I'd much rather be tied by my beautifull gf or by one handsome Dom than by the chains of prudence.

Faskwa · 01-11-2021, 02:39 PM

Our desires are from nature, not nurture. We don't choose what we like. Therefore there must be some meaning, some reason, some importance to what we desire. Same reasoning for falling in love, no one really chooses to fall in love or who with.

01-08-2021, 03:46 PM	#1
chubcherub Account Banned Join Date: Jan 2021 Posts: 6	a dare for everyone! enjoy. i dare you to change. have you saved yourself? are you content with your life? are your fetishes and fantasies interfering with your real life and relationships? do you feel guilty after engaging in this sexual activity online? i imagine most of you do. i do, and i am taking an active stance to save myself from this perverse spiral. this site is wrong and encourages unsafe and amoral behaviour. i am not proud of what i have done and engaged with and how it has been normalised here. we should be encouraging ourselves to rise from these perversions and re-engage in better and healthier behaviour, we shouldn't be telling each other that this is okay. people are literally ruining other peoples lives with blackmail dares. how is that okay? how can sexual fulfilment be more important than someones entire life - their family, their friends, their work. i can say the same for many other "fetishes." sure, some sexy and silly truths and dares are harmless. but this website clearly has no ethical concern about where the line is drawn. don't let yourself be sucked in. this is your wake-up message! this will be my last post on getdare after having various accounts on here for many years. i will be blocking this website and all pornographic content on my computer. porn kills, by the way -- and this is coming from someone who considers themselves a semi-porn addict. not only in the way it impacts the lives of its consumers, but its "actors" too: you only have to look at the recent pornhub scandal to see the truth of this. this message is for everyone. but it is especially for those who have these feelings and cycles of guilt like i have. you are not yourself when horny, believe me. and you have the willpower and self worth to change it. i imagine this post will be deleted soon. but i hope that just one person can read it. i believe in you. you can change.

01-08-2021, 05:33 PM	#2
shyguy88 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Apr 2018 Posts: 331 Blog Entries: 1	hey if you want to leave thats fine, just leave though, no need to post this everywhere __________________ 35/m/straight i like underwear, have many pairs, like risking having to show them or be exposed in them, and clothing control i do cam or pics and chat on kik shygg88 i do not show face or bare chest as i have tattoos i'd like to keep private Likes: playing games, underwear dares, maybe pics, chatting, betting, fun Dislikes: nude pics, long dares, denial, pain Limits: face, pee/poo, family, illegal, xdressing kik shygg88 telegram shygg88

01-08-2021, 06:00 PM	#3
lill getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Apr 2017 Location: Under your boot(y) Posts: 393 Blog Entries: 4	its really not up to you to say that this is amoral. this is a site were people can meet and share expirances. i cant say for what you have dont on this site or for everyone, but most people dont engage in anything illigal or wrong. if someone wants to be told how many spanks to have its up to them. i for one am glad your leaving, it removes a major element of kink shaming. __________________ hi im lillian, i like lill, or duchess. . I'm 24 yo, gender fluid. send me your dick pics, i cant get enough,im a cock whore. kik: justmethistime12 im 6' 170lbs slim and semi fit likes and limits http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=82917 PM Dares http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?u=151102 i am a disgusting bitch on the male farm

01-11-2021, 08:02 AM	#5
jannemannetjens Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 77 Blog Entries: 2	I dare you to rid yourself of culturally imposed shame and enjoy the links that you were given for pleasure! Life's to short to live in shame fear and guilt. I'd much rather be tied by my beautifull gf or by one handsome Dom than by the chains of prudence. __________________ Kik: jmnt123 Likes: crossdressing, messy, spanking, humiliation, predicaments<3 Punishment/dislike: line writing, cornertime, parental control, public crossdressing<3 Limits: permanent harm, illigal, involving others<3 Age 28, body length 6ft4 85000grams, bi <3 Pm dares https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88802 anydesk 484 502 986

01-10-2021, 05:47 PM	#4
the_arnold Member Join Date: Sep 2017 Location: Germany Posts: 69	Bro just let people cum and enjoy their life lmao Pull that stick out of your arse

01-11-2021, 02:39 PM	#6
Faskwa getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: USA WEST SIDE GMT+8 Posts: 267 Blog Entries: 2	Our desires are from nature, not nurture. We don't choose what we like. Therefore there must be some meaning, some reason, some importance to what we desire. Same reasoning for falling in love, no one really chooses to fall in love or who with.