05-07-2010, 05:48 AM | #1 |
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Through the Looking Glass: Pain
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Man, my penis is so big if I laid it out on a keyboard it'd go all the way from A to Z Ohhhhsnap. Hello. 444 <3 Softeyes and we're in a relationship. So, advances towards softeyes would very much not be appreciated. TQTQTQ Last edited by 444; 05-07-2010 at 06:14 AM. |
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05-07-2010, 06:38 AM | #2 | |
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05-07-2010, 06:49 AM | #3 |
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Now nixie, you know these things:
1.) you prefer my whip, but not my paddle. I think you have the an affinity for your rosewood paddle, the one with 'punish the bitch' painted on it. 2.) I can only go 5 times a night, anymore and I have to rest before hand. Though you KNOW I can (and have) keep you going all night. 3.) I always mark my territory. |
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Hmm... If you have a high pain tolerance.. does that mean you're less sensitive to pain? P: But yet you like pain. How does that work xP When you talk about pain, are you referring to the actions committed to provide you the pain (like whipping or paddling) or is it the feeling that is more pleasurable? P: So does this means that without pain it is not arousing to you? Hmm... Is pain... painful to you? xP I mean, do you mind trying to describe how you feel when you receive pain... if you know what i mean :P Quote:
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05-07-2010, 07:50 AM | #5 |
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The pain is pleasurable to me. when the whip hits and the sting sets in over my nerves its turns into a pleasure and before you can process it, it hits again. And the feeling goes again. My tolerance is high. In that aspect. Is other aspects it is not. ie... I hate cramps... But what woman doesn't. Being tied and at the mercy of a whip or paddle its just I don't know how to describe it... Ecstasy... I guess. When it all settles to a numbing pleasure. That tingles over your nerve endings. I just like it I guess.
Without the pain it isn't really arousing I guess. Unless Im really "In the Mood" I suppose. Or I'm not given the choice in the matter. And cuz it is high is doesn't mean I'm less sensitive to it just means I can handle it. Endure it longer that I suppose most can. Maybe... I think... Don't quote me there. Not sure how others feel on that aspect though.
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05-10-2010, 01:31 AM | #7 |
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As a Dom, I appreciate subs/masochist withstanding pain. I admire someone that is willing to take on what I dish out. Still, I'm not a sadist: I don't get off on hurting somebody, I like how they handle the pain.
As a sub (yes, I'm a switch) I like some pain. I depends on whay kind of pain though. Like somebody stated above, I also don't like craps, or a toothache. I really don't like having my balls hurth either. But I do like "pain at the surface": spanking, whipping, clamps, ... Those that have read some more of my posts, know that I have specific kind of fetish for a special kind of pain (if can be considered as such): COLD. I like to lay naked in the snow, I can rally enjoy a cold shower one in a while, ... On the other hand: sitting at my desk with the airco on to hard, is not at all comfortable and I don't get off on it |
05-10-2010, 06:51 AM | #8 |
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Chloe... You always amaze me with your wording and I love it... Just had to say it is so... I always have a hard time at what I am trying to say that It gets mixed up in my wording and no one understands me! AHHHHHHHHHH BUT. You nailed it on the head.
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05-13-2010, 12:21 PM | #9 |
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I thought I would finally come out of the shadows and try to contribute, in as much as I can, to this site......so where better place to start than a topic close to my heart!
As a Dom, I have often, in moments of reflection, asked myself what it is about pain, and in my case, providing it, that is such a turn on? Outside the lifestyle, I avoid situations where conflict and violence have the potential to arise. Politically, I am anti-war, and a pacifist...and yet, hand me a whip/brush/belt/wand and a willing, consensual submissive girl, and I am in heaven! Why? For me, like most activities I enjoy most in this lifestyle, the base and key significance is physiological....the knowledge that I am capable of inflicting what, for most people, is a taboo.....and most importantly, that what I capable of is not only wanted, but in some cases needed, by the sub I am inflicting pain on. Most of my subs have enjoyed pain play in some form, and as a result I find I do not regularly use pain-play as a punishment, but as an element in the scene or play. Perversely, I therefore enjoy inflicting pain far more as a reward than a punishment, if that makes sense? Pain plays a large role in my enjoyment of the lifestyle, but not the key component - often, I find the threat of pain, or in some cases the withdrawal of it, is as if not more effective in play. I hope I have made sense in this post - this is a subject that over the years I have given a lot of thought too, and it is refreshing to find an outlet to discuss this with intelligent, thought provoking others. |
05-13-2010, 12:52 PM | #10 |
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A few Sweet thoughts (:
Pain is not a "major turn-on" for me but I do like it sometimes. Not in a masochistic kind of way or even necessarily in a BDSM context. Sometimes I just think it feels good to do things that would normally "hurt" other people in certain areas. If I was sexing someone and they asked to hurt me or have me hurt myself and it was something I didn't like, I would give a flat, "no." It's not about submission for me... I think in everyday life I have a fairly high pain tolerance and so maybe that's why I enjoy things that might be really painful to someone else... I have fantasies about both receiving and "inflicting." Maybe that's why I tested "switch" in Chloe's quiz. I would never want to do anything that my partner didn't like though... I think a lot of people who enjoy it all the time probably have both physical and psychological reasons.
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Ok wait... Maybe I plead the 5th... I can do that right?
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05-13-2010, 02:45 PM | #12 |
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Pain...is like an "über" feeling. The feeling is pushed to the extreme. In such it highens the sensations and is to me a form of mind work outas well.
Sudden, brutal pain clears the mind, it make all what's tormenting your mind go away in a second by deviating your focus on the sudden feel of pain. But it may also force you to focus on specific thoughts to isolate the pain in a small corner of your mind and make it bearable. When self inflicted (playing or working out) shows your will, the strength of your mind. I've been practicing martial art and very often after training my arms were bruised. I somehow wore these marks with pride, a ( perhaps stupid) way of showing that I'd been in combat, that I had endured it and came out just fine. Pain is a turn on, but only if mutually concented. I see it as an acceptance to take things one step further, highening the sensations. Offering yourself to someone to inflict pain is also a great proof of trust. I hope these ideas make somesense. |
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