Subs/Slaves Have Rights Too

BucsFan · 08-30-2009, 02:57 AM

What are you talking about. YOU DO NOT HAVE ANY RIGHTS....

Just kidding. I think there was a post on here that I read with my old name that might be helpful. It said something about the slave having the most power in the relationship.

here is the link to the thread. http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthrea...ht=Slave+Power

DMDK · 08-30-2009, 09:29 PM

Subs only have rights if they want them. However, any good dom should know that both parties are in the relationship to get certain things out of it. Those desires should be fulfilled on both sides.

Plus, that's what safe words are for and a good dom should respect the nature of the safeword.

kinkytradesmen · 08-31-2009, 10:55 AM

Typically a true "Slave" has no rights as they are a slave.... they have no limits, have no input and will do as they are ordered too. I personally only know i only know one uses the title properly, and will do anything her master tells her.

99% of "slaves" are just Submissive, they enjoy the fantasy but they still want input and rights. they have limits and if pushed to far will loose faith and trust in there master.

You can call a person anything you like, but by definition if you want rights and limits your sub, if you will do anything no matter what... and i mean anything you are a slave.

verydominant25 · 08-31-2009, 03:22 PM

A slave does have rights. It is important that in any sort of master/slave, sub/dom relationship that both parties do a lot of chatting before they even begin. I do sincerely believe this. I have met 'slaves' who just want to be ordered around right from the word go and before I havd chance to finish explaining, i get asked, "what's next?" this infuriates me. Slave/master like any reltaionship is give and take, from both sides.

Babydoll · 09-03-2009, 01:44 AM

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Originally Posted by kinkytradesmen

Typically a true "Slave" has no rights as they are a slave.... they have no limits, have no input and will do as they are ordered too. I personally only know i only know one uses the title properly, and will do anything her master tells her.

99% of "slaves" are just Submissive, they enjoy the fantasy but they still want input and rights. they have limits and if pushed to far will loose faith and trust in there master.

You can call a person anything you like, but by definition if you want rights and limits your sub, if you will do anything no matter what... and i mean anything you are a slave.

This is why I make an awful slave...

Dark_Baron · 09-22-2009, 08:08 PM

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Originally Posted by BucsFan

It said something about the slave having the most power in the relationship.

I agree. Being a Master I have concluded to this many times. Just sitting there watching someone performing the requested tasks, could be... boring. It's the effect the Master sees on the slave which causes the Master's satisfaction. The Master's satisfaction is a reflection of the slave's satisfaction. An unsatisfied, enforced slave cannot reflect that. Maybe someone could say that also the slave receives satisfaction from that drawn on the Master's face, even if this is a smile and this is also right, but the slave is the performer, the protagonist of the act. The Master is more like the director in many cases, not the actor. After all as a Master I have always taken into consideration the "likes" and "dislikes" of my slaves, which means I can pick from the basket but it's the slave to fill in the basket.

08-30-2009, 02:57 AM	#1
BucsFan Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Pencilvania Posts: 94	What are you talking about. YOU DO NOT HAVE ANY RIGHTS.... Just kidding. I think there was a post on here that I read with my old name that might be helpful. It said something about the slave having the most power in the relationship. here is the link to the thread. http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthrea...ht=Slave+Power __________________ Likes~~Crossdressing, Humiliation, Degrading, Climax Control, Bladder Control, Semi-Public Limits~~NO Public, NO Poo, NO Pain (slight might be ok) NO Heavy Anal, NO Illegal/Permenant/Defacing, NO Family Please keep in mind that I live with my family. If you wish to dare me, please respect this and base the dares around my family to where I can do them when I am alone, or able to do it in my room. Last edited by BucsFan; 08-30-2009 at 03:05 AM. Reason: addition...

08-31-2009, 03:22 PM	#4
verydominant25 Account Banned Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: uk Posts: 47	i agree with you Night A slave does have rights. It is important that in any sort of master/slave, sub/dom relationship that both parties do a lot of chatting before they even begin. I do sincerely believe this. I have met 'slaves' who just want to be ordered around right from the word go and before I havd chance to finish explaining, i get asked, "what's next?" this infuriates me. Slave/master like any reltaionship is give and take, from both sides.

08-30-2009, 09:29 PM	#2
DMDK Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 3	Subs only have rights if they want them. However, any good dom should know that both parties are in the relationship to get certain things out of it. Those desires should be fulfilled on both sides. Plus, that's what safe words are for and a good dom should respect the nature of the safeword.

08-31-2009, 10:55 AM	#3
kinkytradesmen Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 2	Typically a true "Slave" has no rights as they are a slave.... they have no limits, have no input and will do as they are ordered too. I personally only know i only know one uses the title properly, and will do anything her master tells her. 99% of "slaves" are just Submissive, they enjoy the fantasy but they still want input and rights. they have limits and if pushed to far will loose faith and trust in there master. You can call a person anything you like, but by definition if you want rights and limits your sub, if you will do anything no matter what... and i mean anything you are a slave.