Help with submissiveness (Control me - not all sexual)

[daresubby]

In this thread I’m looking to short list a few (10 or so) rules to set up a poll. Then the poll will decide what top 5 or so rules I will follow for a month.
(New here, I hope I can figure out how to set up a poll)

I made a fairly long list of ideas - rules I made for myself before and enjoyed, and things that seem like they would improve my life right now. Obviously there aren’t enough hours in the real world to do everything, so when I set up the poll I imagined, with your input, we could decide which ones make it onto the short list for the poll. You can please add your own suggestions too, it would be so fun if you tickle my fancy with something unexpected.

I plan on giving updates if anything interesting happens, or weekly, asking for punishment if I break rules, and maybe keeping rules for longer or doing a new poll if this is fun. For sure when the weather warms more up there are different ideas and opportunities available.

Also, I am happily in a relationship where he is not interested in exerting dominance to this extent (but happy to benefit from it), so that’s why I wanted to ask the friendly internet kinky people to help me feel reasonably submissive. Oh, and he has a work trip for a part of the month so won’t always be around, and is more vanilla - not usually up for the far out stuff, doing complicated things, or making any decisions really.

Clothing control
Only skirts and dresses, except short shorts or leotard for exercise, or bathing suit.
Sleep naked, no clothing between 9pm and 6am at home
No padded bras, only thin ones, or no bra.
No panties where possible. If panties must be worn, it should be a matching lingerie set, and must have something inserted for entire duration.
Husband can take my underwear on demand

Body control
Must walk 1h every day
Must do 15min ab workout daily
Do “aerobic striptease” exercise 3 times per week
Keep good posture, roll shoulders back and hold myself tall
Must sway hips when walking
No bent knees to pickup things
Style hair every day
Wear makeup

Food control
Maximum 50g carbs per day
No snacking between meals
Intermittent fasting 18/6
No fast food
No sweets treats, candy, chocolate, ice cream, etc
If we order take out, I must answer door wearing whatever I’m instructed

Behaviours
Must smile at everyone, then look down
Offer husband a BJ at least three times per week
Initiate sex and do all the work once per week
Say yes enthusiastically to every request from husband
Practice deepthroating once per week, either on him as he wishes or largest dildo w roulette.
Go for evening walk wearing nothing underneath long jacket, if weather is between -5 and -10c.

Permission from husband
Seek permission to spend any money
Permission to go out anywhere, except for work or exercise
Permission to eat anything unhealthy
Permission to watch tv or read
Permission to masturbate
Permission to get less than 8 hours of sleep (stay up late)

Work and Service
Meal plan and buy groceries weekly.
Must complete 30min clean/declutter daily.
Make dinner at least 3 times per week.
Tidy home office in sexetary outfit and file paperwork weekly
Must stay focused at work. No side tabs or scrolling on phone. Set weekly and daily targets to meet.


Punishment ideas, hard or embarrassing:
Text him a sexy picture
Give him a lap dance
Must make nipples hard before going in public, for d6 many days.
Wear princess plug for 10d6 minutes
Must undress completely, except shoes, to use any bathroom for d6 days.
Pinch nipple hard at every red light for a day.
Do d6 laps in “bay watch” thong swimsuit at public pool.
Undress completely in change room shower, wash myself all over, and walk naked to locker.
Ask for 2d6 spanks
Go do an errand wearing microskirt, no panties
Answer food delivery naked
Present myself bound and blindfolded, ask husband for help to release
Buy waist trainer/corset, wear daily for 2d6 weeks

Maybe these don’t seem like much, but I grew up in a very conservative way and I’m a late bloomer.


Let me know what rules you think I should follow! Or if there’s any questions I can answer to help you decide.