31F/ Life Update and New Request

[marriedslut]

Hi everyone,

Hope everyone is well.

This last weekend, slave was loaned out in real life to Master Kev and Mistress Joanna, by her husband and Mistress Priyanka. This would mean slave will no longer be living with her husband but serving Master Kev and Mistress Joanna.

Both new Master and Mistress have told that all the old rules will be scrapped and slave should consider collecting new rules from the community. Master and Mistress both will be adding in their rules and expectations for the slave too as she is integrated more into their life. At the moment, slave is tasked to take up house cleaning with 2 other full time house helps as slave looks to settle down in the new place.

Both Master and Mistress are 52 and 50 year old, have a successful business and live in a large house by the bay along with a really large boat, which slave loved seeing it and getting the tour. They also have 2 son and a daughter, who live in the main city by themselves but often come home over the weekends or in between. All 3 are aware about the lifestyle and have been informed that I will be the permanent slave in the house. Slave doesn't know much about the kids, but can share more as she learns.

Slave has been given a small room, with a proper bed, been fed well in last 4 days and shown around as she still settles in.

There are 2 request from the community:

1. Please suggest rules Master Kev and Mistress Joanna should consider for the slave
2. Please suggest outfits which slave should be allowed to own by Master Kev and Mistress Joanna

In further posts, slave will post all the details about the BDSM room in the house and all the toys which are available.

Thank you,
Slave Anita (earlier called married slut)

[joannasmith]

Hi everyone,

I just wanted to share a further confirmation that we have taken Anita as our full time 24/7 sub/ slave and accepted her into the life. Both, Kevin and I have gone through her life journey through getdare, heard from Anita herself and felt that getdare has been big part of supporting her in this BDSM journey. Both of us are excited to include her in our family, take care of her and be fair to her. We are new to the online site here, both have been practicing BDSM for past 25+ years. So I would request you to please do share more as per her post.

Thanks,
Joanna and Kev

[tzzzr]

1. Please suggest rules Master Kev and Mistress Joanna should consider for the slave.
Are you likes and limits up to date?
Have they been approved by your new owners?

2. Please suggest outfits which slave should be allowed to own by Master Kev and Mistress Joanna
Are these outfits for your household service or public?
Everyday outfits or kink specific?

[marriedslut]

Originally Posted by tzzzr

1. Please suggest rules Master Kev and Mistress Joanna should consider for the slave.
Are you likes and limits up to date?
Have they been approved by your new owners? Yes Sir, they have been updated to be categorized into allowed activities and limits along with the red/yellow safe words during any part of the activity. You can see the updated blog linked too.

2. Please suggest outfits which slave should be allowed to own by Master Kev and Mistress Joanna
Are these outfits for your household service or public?
Everyday outfits or kink specific?

For outfits, Master and Mistress are interested in looking at the household, public everyday outfit as well as the kink-specific one too. Mistress said that given slave will accompany them to different public and family events, going to the city, and the kink events, slave will need a proper outfit to be considered.

Thanks,
Slave Anita

[GivingWantingDares]

Hi Slave Anita,

About the links in your signature: one brings to this thread, the other one I can't access. So if anything of what I say is against any limit, please excuse me, I'm just going by memory


Let's start with some simple rules:
1. You should always be horny. Edge once every 30 minutes while your Master and Mistress are not home, so when they're back they find you horny and ready for them.
2. You should help the other 2 service people with their duties, following any directions they give you (in absence of your Master and Mistress).
3. If Master and Mistress are expected to be away for over 3 hours, put a plug up your ass for 1h, then rest 30 minutes, and repeat, until they're back. You need to train your ass.

As for some outfits, I'll suggest one of each:
1. Household https://www.kinkyangel.co.uk/collect...ness-set-15125
2. Public https://i.pinimg.com/564x/0f/d5/67/0...37c392dda6.jpg
3. Kink specific https://www.kinkyangel.co.uk/collect...otic-chain-set

Hope you like the rules and outfits And wish you all the best with your new Owners!

[marriedslut]

Originally Posted by GivingWantingDares

Hi Slave Anita,

About the links in your signature: one brings to this thread, the other one I can't access. So if anything of what I say is against any limit, please excuse me, I'm just going by memory


Let's start with some simple rules:
1. You should always be horny. Edge once every 30 minutes while your Master and Mistress are not home, so when they're back they find you horny and ready for them.
2. You should help the other 2 service people with their duties, following any directions they give you (in absence of your Master and Mistress).
3. If Master and Mistress are expected to be away for over 3 hours, put a plug up your ass for 1h, then rest 30 minutes, and repeat, until they're back. You need to train your ass.

As for some outfits, I'll suggest one of each:
1. Household https://www.kinkyangel.co.uk/collect...ness-set-15125
2. Public https://i.pinimg.com/564x/0f/d5/67/0...37c392dda6.jpg
3. Kink specific https://www.kinkyangel.co.uk/collect...otic-chain-set

Hope you like the rules and outfits And wish you all the best with your new Owners!

Hi Sir,

Thank you for sharing the rules and the outfit suggestions. Master and Mistress will take a full look as more suggestions may come in before finalizing the list.

One quick comment which Mistress made on the clothing was that she liked the one for home as well as kink specific. For public, she will prefer something allows slave to blend in and not stand out, but also allows her to be seen as a slave.

Also, if you please try the links again, they should work.

Thanks,
Slave Anita

[GivingWantingDares]

I'm glad Mistress likes those two. I went a bit for a bold choice for public (kept you more covered, but wanted to make sure you could be identified as slave). I'll see if I can find something more subtle next time.

I tried the links again. The second one works, the first keeps sending me to this thread.

[marriedslut]

Originally Posted by GivingWantingDares

I'm glad Mistress likes those two. I went a bit for a bold choice for public (kept you more covered, but wanted to make sure you could be identified as slave). I'll see if I can find something more subtle next time.

I tried the links again. The second one works, the first keeps sending me to this thread.

Thank you so much Sir. The first one is actually supposed to bring it to this thread itself, specially for the update which slave shared in her post.

Thanks,
Slave Anita

[LPV]

For rules I would say that you should be denied frequently and have to earn an orgasm.

Also, maybe have to wear nipple pegs for a certain time 5 days a week.

You should have a workout schedule if you are able.

Maybe be tickled once or twice a week if you are ticklish.

Good luck!

[marriedslut]

Originally Posted by LPV

For rules I would say that you should be denied frequently and have to earn an orgasm.

Also, maybe have to wear nipple pegs for a certain time 5 days a week.

You should have a workout schedule if you are able.

Maybe be tickled once or twice a week if you are ticklish.

Good luck!

Thank you so much for sharing the rules Sir, really appreciate it.

Thanks,
Slave Anita

[joannasmith]

Hi everyone,

Thank you for sharing some rules and suggestions on what she needs to do or rules for daily basis. As we have been talking to Anita, understanding her previous rules, we don't think many of them would apply as she serves us as a slave. To give a general sense, you can see some of the examples below on what we will not allow/ or allow and this list may increase as we see more:

She has and will have a proper room of her own, with all the nice bed and mattress, makeup table, her own restroom, mirrors, etc. She needs to feel comfortable in the living space and safe

She will have proper set of clothes over the period of time catering to different times. For e.g., she will need lingerie, bikinis, general clothes when we go out for lunches, coffee or dinner, something for attending parties, events, and then something which will be specific for the BDSM session at home as well as when she joins us for the community meet

She will not have any restriction on bath schedule or water temperatures. These will be used as part of punishments but not really a daily schedule.

We have seen the desire to not allow lingerie at all to slaves or subs but you won't believe that these are great tool to include in play. Imagine asking her to remove her thong and hand it over to me in semi-public space or any similar task. It can be exhilarating and fun moment for everyone. So please, no rules like never allow her to wear panties and bras.

She will have to workout regularly to stay in shape and she will have to do house work, upskill herself based on which we will give her the monthly allowance to save or spend however she likes. We all can agree that she will have needs and desire outside of living 24/7 as a sub to us as well as the getdare community

These are just some examples, but hopefully I am able to drive the point home as you all suggest the rules for lovely Anita and any outfit suggestions.

Thank you,
Joanna and Kevin

[LPV]

Sounds good.

One more idea I have is for her to generally have a set wake up and bed time.

Perhaps she should have some restrictions on TV and computer time as well?

[marriedslut]

Originally Posted by LPV

Sounds good.

One more idea I have is for her to generally have a set wake up and bed time.

Perhaps she should have some restrictions on TV and computer time as well?

Thank you so much for sharing this Sir, really appreciate it.

Thanks,
Slave Anita

[marriedslut]

Hi everyone,

I wanted to share a quick update on some of the rules I have been given today morning.

1. Slave will refer to herself again as Anita in the household as well as in front of others.

   - Mistress and Master has asked me if I would want a change in name for all communication or in official documents, they are happy with that decision too. Slave will create a poll to seek guidance.
   

2. In the BDSM setup, I will be referred as slave or sub as per Mistress and Master's preference at the time
3. I will serve Mistress Joanna and Master Kevin but will also be serving broader family and BDSM community they are part of.
4. I am not permitted to masturbate or orgasm without permission but will be able to collect orgasm coins for good work and use them as I prefer.
5. I will be respectful to everyone at all times
6. I am to maintain the diary of how the day went, how I felt through the day, anything which needs changing and submit it to Mistress and Master before going to bed.
7. I am expected to be awake by 7 AM in morning on most days unless we have been out or awake for late and I have gotten permission to sleep in
8. I will be enrolled in a gym class and expected to make on most days without fail, considering 5 times a week
9. I am expected to take a bath, clean up and dress to meet Mistress and Master on breakfast table every morning
10. I do not have any limit on television and phone time at the moment, but Mistress and Master are going to monitor the consumption and the content I am going through to update this further
11. I am to help around the house for at least 1-2 hours a day, could be either with making beds, cleaning and organizing the kitchen, mowing lawn or getting groceries, etc. Mistress wants me to be productive
12. I am expected to think about any learning I would like to do and set target. This could include reading books, going to libraries, knowing new technology, could be anything at the moment
    
    Some of the more intimacy based rules are still being discussed by Master and Mistress to share with me.
    
    Thank you,
    Slave Anita

[LPV]

Perhaps another rule could be for you to message me every day and let me know how you are and how your training went. I won't be here every day, but would try to reply when I am. I am anxious to see how you grow in your new home.