32/male/dom seeks any age/female/sub in any place

Alex91 · 05-21-2023, 04:15 AM

32/male/dom seeks any age/female/sub in any place

Welcome few intrigued ones!

I'm a 32 year old Dom from UK looking for a long-term sub who will also be a friend and companion in an kinky exploration journey. Location for the moment is not important for me.
I posted before but due to a lot of different reasons I still didn't find what I am looking for. Hope that changes soon.

As a Dom
I prefer to develop mental connection with the sub first and foremost, and I really like to chat endlessly about ideas, philosophies, dreams and nightmares.My Dom side is understanding and fair, albeit strict and demanding at times. I like to negotiate rules in the beginning and built the trust slowly before introducing more rules in the future. I tend to be sadist when punishing sometimes, though my subs health is always a priority for me.
I believe a Dom's purpose is to develop his sub, making her not only a better submissive but a better person as well (of course this works both ways).
Everything has to do with the belief that kink is knowledge (of yourself, of limits, of likes, of how far you can go, of pleasure) therefore, for me at least, knowledge becomes the absolute kink.

Vanilla me
My vanilla side is full of books, writing essays and exploring things and places, so naturally I expect my sub to be interested in this kind of exchange as well. I don't require a sub to be knowledgable but I require for her to be curious, not only about kinks but about everything.
I Studied Music, currently studying History just for the personal enjoyment.
Love literature but hate elitists and opinionated parrots.
Favourite writer is Maxim Gorky (I have a soft spot for Russian nihilist literature) and i am traveling as much as I can, but prefer to travel alone most of the time.

Likes - Limits
I always feel a bit awkward or even bored writing down my likes like a shopping list where a sub can put the items in the cart and press checkout if she is satisfied.
I have a lot of likes and I easily adapt them according to the sub limits (we cannot and should not have everything). I would like the other person to be open minded, willing to try anything as long as there is no permanent damage and generally eager to discover new things.
Ofcourse I have some general and quite sensible limits like scat, permanent, family, blood, social suicide, face pics or vids (until trust develops, I have a very high profile job and don't want to risk that) that if you are into them then sadly I am not the one for you.

So that's it, my first post, bit awkward as always. Would love to talk to any interested people and see where it goes from there.

Aonar · 06-24-2023, 11:39 PM

I really felt the need to bump your post, it's far too good to be so far back! I really hope you find someone soon, you sound like an excellent Dom!

05-21-2023, 04:15 AM	#1
Alex91 Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2019 Location: London Posts: 22	32/male/dom seeks any age/female/sub in any place 32/male/dom seeks any age/female/sub in any place Welcome few intrigued ones! I'm a 32 year old Dom from UK looking for a long-term sub who will also be a friend and companion in an kinky exploration journey. Location for the moment is not important for me. I posted before but due to a lot of different reasons I still didn't find what I am looking for. Hope that changes soon. As a Dom I prefer to develop mental connection with the sub first and foremost, and I really like to chat endlessly about ideas, philosophies, dreams and nightmares.My Dom side is understanding and fair, albeit strict and demanding at times. I like to negotiate rules in the beginning and built the trust slowly before introducing more rules in the future. I tend to be sadist when punishing sometimes, though my subs health is always a priority for me. I believe a Dom's purpose is to develop his sub, making her not only a better submissive but a better person as well (of course this works both ways). Everything has to do with the belief that kink is knowledge (of yourself, of limits, of likes, of how far you can go, of pleasure) therefore, for me at least, knowledge becomes the absolute kink. Vanilla me My vanilla side is full of books, writing essays and exploring things and places, so naturally I expect my sub to be interested in this kind of exchange as well. I don't require a sub to be knowledgable but I require for her to be curious, not only about kinks but about everything. I Studied Music, currently studying History just for the personal enjoyment. Love literature but hate elitists and opinionated parrots. Favourite writer is Maxim Gorky (I have a soft spot for Russian nihilist literature) and i am traveling as much as I can, but prefer to travel alone most of the time. Likes - Limits I always feel a bit awkward or even bored writing down my likes like a shopping list where a sub can put the items in the cart and press checkout if she is satisfied. I have a lot of likes and I easily adapt them according to the sub limits (we cannot and should not have everything). I would like the other person to be open minded, willing to try anything as long as there is no permanent damage and generally eager to discover new things. Ofcourse I have some general and quite sensible limits like scat, permanent, family, blood, social suicide, face pics or vids (until trust develops, I have a very high profile job and don't want to risk that) that if you are into them then sadly I am not the one for you. So that's it, my first post, bit awkward as always. Would love to talk to any interested people and see where it goes from there.

06-24-2023, 11:39 PM	#2
Aonar Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2017 Location: USA Posts: 2	I really felt the need to bump your post, it's far too good to be so far back! I really hope you find someone soon, you sound like an excellent Dom!