AMA 21F - New here (first post)

[CuteWhimpers]

Hello!
Like my title says, this is my first post here. I couldn't really find a "introduce yourself" type of subforum (maybe I'm just blind?). But I figured this would be the next best thing. So yeah, I'm new to this site and new to kink, so feel free to ask me anything (within reason, not going to give away anything too personal).

And please be nice 🫶

[sirie]

Why are you here on getdare ?

Whats your secret sexual fantasy ?

[CuteWhimpers]

Originally Posted by sirie

Why are you here on getdare ?

Whats your secret sexual fantasy ?

So I found/joined getdare through fetlife. A friend from uni showed me fetlife about a week ago, and then I met someone there who mentioned it a few times. Wanted to see what all the fuss was about.

My secret sexual fantasy? Hmmm, i have multiple ones, and I think it's always changing or evolving based on my daily mood and needs. But I think being in a sub/Dom relationship would be very exciting to me, as it isn't something I've experienced before. Having someone who has a bit more of a clue exploring with me, teaching me what they know and finding out new things together. I've also always wanted to try to have sex with another woman. I'm pretty sure I'm bi/pan, but never gotten to test it out. Mostly because women are way too gorgeous and I'm terrified to flirt with them ����

[herrinisabell]

So lets get you some questions ro answer:

- whats your homecountry?
- whats your username on fetlife?

- when have you start masturbating?
- when have you start having sex?
- sex with how many men/women at all
- Did you have oral sex? Do you swallow cum?
- Did you have anal sex? What have been the biggest inside your ass
- how wet can you get and how easily
- are you shaved?
- describe detailed your best and worst sex you had
- what are you favorite positions for having sex?
- on what places do you have been fucked yet?
- how often do you masturbate? How do you do it? Whatvyou are thinking about while doing it?
- which toys do you own? Which toy do you want ro have?

- describe your body detailed from feet to chest
- which parts of your body do you like /dislike/hate and why?
- what are your sizes for clothes, shoes and so on?
- your height and weight?

- describe detailed 6 typical outfits for different situations. Including underwear and shoes
- what is your most slutty outfit?

- what kind of porn do you watch
- which websites do you use for bdsm kink

- do you like being controlled in daily life like clothing, food, ...
- do you like to be humilated?
- do you like pain?
- do you like formal slave training like positions,...
- do you like pet play

- have your parents been strict?
- how did they punish you when necessary?

[CuteWhimpers]

Oh my, that's a lot of questions all at once. I'll try to answer the ones I can at least

- whats your homecountry?
I was born in China, but raised in Norway (my mom is Chinese and my dad Norwegian)

- whats your username on fetlife?
It was the same as here, but I've deleted my profile. I felt like Fetlife was 80% being bombed with unwanted dick pics/nudes from men

- when have you start masturbating?
I'm assuming you mean what age? I can't remember exactly, but I'd guess 15

- when have you start having sex?
18 - I was late to the party

- sex with how many men/women at all
One

- Did you have oral sex? Do you swallow cum?
I did both, can't say I was a big fan of either (didn't enjoy the taste)

- Did you have anal sex? What have been the biggest inside your ass
No

- how wet can you get and how easily
That's a very weird question to answer. There isn't really a scale to measure wetness, and it would of course depend on my arousal and where I'm at in my cycle. How easily would be the same, right? I would guess I'm average without having nay way of knowing

- are you shaved?
No

- describe detailed your best and worst sex you had
Best sex: Probably after the first time me and my boyfriend told each other we loved each other. There wasn't anything special or kinky about or, but I've never felt more safe with another person.

Worst sex: Probably my first time. Just felt so awkward and uncomfortable, and I didn't really know what to do. Also a bit painful (we were both virgins)

- what are you favorite positions for having sex?
I don't think I have one universal favourite. It depends on my mood and what my partner wants as well. I think doggy feels the best, but I often feel disconnected from my partner then. Missionary is always great, and spooning as well. I also enjoy being on top as long as I get to love how I want, I can get awkward if he makes me feel like I'm not doing it well enough etc

- on what places do you have been fucked yet?
I'm not sure if I understand this question can you clarify what you mean?

- how often do you masturbate? How do you do it? Whatvyou are thinking about while doing it?
Again, there's no set number. If I'm ovulating, then a lot. If I'm on my period, almost not at all. If I'm stressed about studies or my life, then a lot less then when everything is good. Just depends. I like to mix it up, both with how I do it and what I think about. I think doing the same every time gets very boring.

- which toys do you own? Which toy do you want ro have?
I have a wand, bullet with a rabbit attachment, gspot vibe. I've also ordered nipple clamps, a tiiiint buttplug and a paddle.

- describe your body detailed from feet to chest
- which parts of your body do you like /dislike/hate and why?
- what are your sizes for clothes, shoes and so on?
- your height and weight?
I'm going to summarize these 4 questions into one answer. I don't want to talk about my body in a negative way, or my weight. I've had a lot of struggles with my body growing up, and it's a sensitive topic for me. ED aren't fun, and talking about weight triggers me.

- describe detailed 6 typical outfits for different situations. Including underwear and shoes
I mostly just wear jeans, hoodies and comfortable baggy clothes. Shoes are always the same, just white Nike's

- what is your most slutty outfit?
Don't really think I own anything that would be slutty. Sorry 💀

- what kind of porn do you watch
I'm not really huge on porn, as it makes me dissociate.

- which websites do you use for bdsm kink
This one?

- do you like being controlled in daily life like clothing, food, ...
Never tried, but it doesn't sound very appealing no

- do you like to be humilated?
No, that would make me pretty sad

- do you like pain?
I don't know

- do you like formal slave training like positions,...
I don't know

- do you like pet play
I don't know, but I don't think so

- have your parents been strict?
Sure, my mom mostly

- how did they punish you when necessary?
I don't think I ever did anything bad enough to deserve any sort of punishment, mostly just got spoken to if there was an issue