It is Dangerous to BE The sub?

[SissyAndGirlFriend]

Hey..
I'm really into femdom i love to get pegged, humilated and even sissyfication.. The Problem is, that im really depressed my Life is totally fucked Up.. and Sex leads me into another world and there im Happy ... Im so scared that this can damage my mental health more and more.. any idea what i can do?

Sry for my Bad Englisch i Hope you can understand this

[Terminal]

I myself have noticed that i only feel subby on days when my self-esteem is low and my mood is down. Taking breaks from getDare is necessary. Even if you love submission generally, life is more enjoyable when your self-esteem is high. When you’re exhausted at work or school and then to get away from all that you log onto getDare where you get humiliated, i think it leaves a mark. Stay safe.

[PrincessJessica]

From my experience with depression and submissive I'd say when you're moods very low then it is indeed best to totally avoid doing submissive things (watch sub porn etc if you really need something). In my darker moments I find it hard to have that self-respect for myself to stay within my limits which means I end up regretting things after only making the situation worse.

Generally though being submissive makes me happy & is one of the few things that can totally destract me from life. Just be careful to build up a list of kinks you've done but feel guilty about after that might make you more depressed and avoid doing them again. Being subby should be enjoyable, it's just being honest (& strict with yourself) about what sub things make you happy and what sub things don't.

Good luck fighting your depression and I hope you can find the right submissive level for you that makes you happy.