32/male/sub seeks 30+/any sex/top in any place (queer kinky pup)

[curiosity_killed]

32/male/sub seeks 30+/any sex/top in any place (queer kinky pup)

I am looking for someone to explore an online-based power exchange dynamic. I generally really enjoy tasks, rules and protocols. For ~most things~ I don't need much convincing however I have other interests (especially toilet stuff and the things in my 'curious about' where some encouragement or perhaps coercion
is needed to make me the best pup I can be. I'm looking for someone who will work to get into my head and guide me towards that goal. I'm curious about this involving things like hypnosis, or consequences for not following directions.

Kinks: humiliation, degradation, rules and protocols, (light) exposure, discreet public play, tasks, orgasm control/denial, puppy play, chastity, cum play, piss, scat and toilet play, anal training, most things tbh.

curious about: coercion, manipulation, reprogramming cnc, brainwashing, blackmail. account control, forced bi, forced intox, full toilet training.

Limits: illegal acts, heavy pain, blood, vomit, findom. I'm not here to commit social suicide or be completely doxxed. While I will share pics/videos and some info, be prepared to build trust over time. People who go straight to pushing boundaries before building a connection are a red flag.

I am poly and live with a nesting partner. I have another long term partner. I also have a pretty busy career. This will mean that I am not always able to complete tasks immediately, particularly if they are to take place over an extended period of time. I will also not engage in play/tasks that compromises or intrudes on those relationships, eg prolonged chastity, involving those people or others who do not consent. For the same reason, while I definitely like power dynamics, I am not looking to be ‘owned’.

My experience: I like to think I have a heap of it with most of the things in my kink list, less so for my 'curious about's. I've been active in the local kink scene for about 10 years. I practice kink in both of my current relationships, though neither are '24/7'. However when it comes to online play and particularly blackmail or exposure play my experience is more limited. Let's fix that.

Foremost I'm ideally after someone I can build up a connection with (and the trust that comes with it) over time. While I have a long interest list, some of which some considered 'edge play', trust for that stuff is earned over time.

While I'm open to all ages things are probably less likely to work out if you are a lot younger than me.

Similarly with gender, I identify as queer/bi but tend to be more selective with cis-men (though have met plenty of exceptions so don't let that stop you).

I'm open to a range of connections but ideally seeking an ongoing relationship/dynamic with frequent communication and play. While I'm always open to casual play, the kinks I am really hoping to explore will require a bit more of a time commitment.

I'm a sucker for a 'gentle but firm' dom, with things starting off as 'tasks' but over time becoming more about CNC, coercion and - with the right person- blackmail.

What I can offer: I'd like to think I am a good communicator. While I am not always available for play/tasks on a moment's notice, I am usually responsive if not otherwise occupied and have a lot of energy to chat. If you decide I am worth spending your time and energy on I will reciprocate in kind. besides that, my brain is full of filth and I'd like to think I'm offering some fun kinds of play!

If any of that resonates with you, I would love to hear from you. When messaging telegram is prefered but kik is also an option. Please let me know where you came from and engage with this post a bit.

Low effort intros, especially people that start by asking for ASL or something like that will probably be blocked.

look forward to hearing from you.

[curiosity_killed]

A quick bump/update

Originally Posted by curiosity_killed

32/male/sub seeks 30+/any sex/top in any place (queer kinky pup)

I am looking for someone to explore an online-based power exchange dynamic. I generally really enjoy tasks, rules and protocols. For ~most things~ I don't need much convincing however I have other interests (especially toilet stuff and the things in my 'curious about' where some encouragement or perhaps coercion
is needed to make me the best pup I can be. I'm looking for someone who will work to get into my head and guide me towards that goal. I'm curious about this involving things like hypnosis, or consequences for not following directions.

Kinks: humiliation, degradation, rules and protocols, (light) exposure, discreet public play, tasks, orgasm control/denial, puppy play, chastity, cum play, piss, scat and toilet play, anal training, most things tbh.

curious about: coercion, manipulation, reprogramming cnc, brainwashing, blackmail. account control, forced bi, forced intox, full toilet training.

Limits: illegal acts, heavy pain, blood, vomit, findom. I'm not here to commit social suicide or be completely doxxed. While I will share pics/videos and some info, be prepared to build trust over time. People who go straight to pushing boundaries before building a connection are a red flag.

I am poly and live with a nesting partner. I have another long term partner. I also have a pretty busy career. This will mean that I am not always able to complete tasks immediately, particularly if they are to take place over an extended period of time. I will also not engage in play/tasks that compromises or intrudes on those relationships, eg prolonged chastity, involving those people or others who do not consent. For the same reason, while I definitely like power dynamics, I am not looking to be ‘owned’.

My experience: I like to think I have a heap of it with most of the things in my kink list, less so for my 'curious about's. I've been active in the local kink scene for about 10 years. I practice kink in both of my current relationships, though neither are '24/7'. However when it comes to online play and particularly blackmail or exposure play my experience is more limited. Let's fix that.

Foremost I'm ideally after someone I can build up a connection with (and the trust that comes with it) over time. While I have a long interest list, some of which some considered 'edge play', trust for that stuff is earned over time.

While I'm open to all ages things are probably less likely to work out if you are a lot younger than me.

Similarly with gender, I identify as queer/bi but tend to be more selective with cis-men (though have met plenty of exceptions so don't let that stop you).

I'm open to a range of connections but ideally seeking an ongoing relationship/dynamic with frequent communication and play. While I'm always open to casual play, the kinks I am really hoping to explore will require a bit more of a time commitment.

I'm a sucker for a 'gentle but firm' dom, with things starting off as 'tasks' but over time becoming more about CNC, coercion and - with the right person- blackmail.

What I can offer: I'd like to think I am a good communicator. While I am not always available for play/tasks on a moment's notice, I am usually responsive if not otherwise occupied and have a lot of energy to chat. If you decide I am worth spending your time and energy on I will reciprocate in kind. besides that, my brain is full of filth and I'd like to think I'm offering some fun kinds of play!

If any of that resonates with you, I would love to hear from you. When messaging telegram is prefered but kik is also fine. Please let me know where you came from and engage with this post a bit - if I haven't given you something you can mention in this post, then it probably isn't going to work out... Low effort intros, especially people that start by asking for ASL or something like that will probably be blocked.

look forward to hearing from you.

[curiosity_killed]

Updating this for 2024, have been a bit inactive due to a busy end to the year but am back and now have some more time and energy for this