Do you enjoy reluctance for dares? - Page 3

JamieDarkheart · 02-01-2022, 07:01 PM

I don't really like to give or receive dares that induce reluctance. Instead, I much prefer dares that force an ultimatum, a predicament. With both types of dares you can see how far a sub will go for you, which is incredibly empowering and hot!! But I prefer a more gentle approach. This approach also is actually MORE manipulative because it give the illusion of choice to the sub so they "only have themselves to blame" for the outcome.

fire9starter · 02-01-2022, 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by JamieDarkheart

I don't really like to give or receive dares that induce reluctance. Instead, I much prefer dares that force an ultimatum, a predicament. With both types of dares you can see how far a sub will go for you, which is incredibly empowering and hot!! But I prefer a more gentle approach. This approach also is actually MORE manipulative because it give the illusion of choice to the sub so they "only have themselves to blame" for the outcome.

See, what you're describing here I like a lot more than reluctant dares! Reluctant dares are just me pushing myself to do something, but an ultimatum is more chaotic, more scary, and way more thrilling and fun than just pushing yourself to do something in my opinion. I'm also extremely shy and get reluctant naturally though, which makes me feel bad because I feel like I look like I'm not having a good time when I am lol

rhl · 03-03-2022, 05:31 AM

I've beenhin situations where I was truly reluctant, and forced. This truly was a turn on.

However I find when I follow, without question, way more adventurous. I start out without knowing much about what I'm commenting to.

Inexp1 · 03-03-2022, 06:21 AM

I’m a bi curious guy that likes the idea of being coerced or forced into hookups through dares etc

alex_af1996 · 06-25-2023, 06:12 AM

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Originally Posted by andrew_b

If you are either giving or receiving dares...do you like there be at least some element of reluctance on the side of the person to do the dare?

The dares I was reluctant to do turned out to be the most wildest and fun. My mistress got me doing so much I wouldn’t normally do. She liked me being reluctant to

Strangest · 06-25-2023, 11:39 AM

When I'm giving dares I like a little reluctance. When I'm getting them I love a lot more. CNC is a big one for me.

Newfoundsex · 06-25-2023, 12:00 PM

Yeah, definitely. A dare you WANT to do is only so fun. But something you really don't want to do (or at least act like it) but you give in to it, that's hot. And it goes both ways

02-01-2022, 07:01 PM	#1
JamieDarkheart Member Join Date: Jan 2022 Posts: 35	I don't really like to give or receive dares that induce reluctance. Instead, I much prefer dares that force an ultimatum, a predicament. With both types of dares you can see how far a sub will go for you, which is incredibly empowering and hot!! But I prefer a more gentle approach. This approach also is actually MORE manipulative because it give the illusion of choice to the sub so they "only have themselves to blame" for the outcome. __________________ ► 21, trans girl, bi, switch Toys: handcuffs, gags, chains, rope, tape, vibrators, buttplugs, collars, dildo, nipple clamps, blindfold, ear plugs Loves: bondage, tease/denial, feminization, chastity, humiliation, exhibitionism, fear play Limits: poop, blood, public, illegal, urethral insertions, friends/family/social suicide, messy, anything loud (have roommates) Last edited by JamieDarkheart; 02-01-2022 at 07:03 PM.

03-03-2022, 05:31 AM	#3
rhl getDare Succubus Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: The Planet Earth Posts: 1,693 Blog Entries: 7	I've beenhin situations where I was truly reluctant, and forced. This truly was a turn on. However I find when I follow, without question, way more adventurous. I start out without knowing much about what I'm commenting to. __________________ My PM Dares and Likes my Kik to give or ask for a dare. I might not respond for a day or 2

03-03-2022, 06:21 AM	#4
Inexp1 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Oct 2013 Posts: 402	I’m a bi curious guy that likes the idea of being coerced or forced into hookups through dares etc __________________ 34 M UK submissive and bi Like forced bi, humiliation, exposure Dislike watersports, scat and blood Kik subbi1985 Telegram lee856876

06-25-2023, 11:39 AM	#6
Strangest Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2023 Posts: 6	When I'm giving dares I like a little reluctance. When I'm getting them I love a lot more. CNC is a big one for me. __________________ 34/male/California/switch Likes: messy, bondage, CBT, pain, orgasm control, chastity, anal, degradation, humiliation, piss, scat Limits: social suicide, permanent Kik: Ryan11370

06-25-2023, 12:00 PM	#7
Newfoundsex Member Join Date: Mar 2020 Posts: 56	Yeah, definitely. A dare you WANT to do is only so fun. But something you really don't want to do (or at least act like it) but you give in to it, that's hot. And it goes both ways __________________ Limits: Social Suicide, permanent, personal info, illegal Kik: Donwinters443 beat my meat