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Old 01-12-2018, 12:19 PM   #1
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Hi all, I have been a lurking for a few months and finally decided to join. I am intrigued and turned on by the sub lifestyle but don't know what my likes and dislikes really are. I'm looking for dares and tasks which will help me to explore and establish my likes and dislikes. Any help would be greatly appreciated and I will write full reports of all dares completed.
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Old 01-13-2018, 01:45 AM   #2
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First of all make sure you stay safe and don't do anything too detrimental for you health! But also welcome!

But if you're looking for some dares here are four categories to try and see if they're for you.

Exhibitionism:

Easier-If you live with roommates try to find a time frame where they will be gone. Strip naked and go masturbate in front of the entryway of your front door. Go slow and take your time but don't stop until you cum. You can keep you door double lock to buy yourself a few extra seconds just in case something happens. Alternatively you can masturbate in front of a window, keeping you legs spread and being as exposed as you can manage. If you live alone you could keep you front door slightly opened and masturbate behind it, never stopping when people are outside.

More Challenging-Go to your local park when is not busy wearing a short skirt with no panties. Take a walk and pause every once in a while to pretend to tie your shoe. Each time you do so squat down and keep you legs spread out so your skirt rides up and you pussy is visible. Untie and tie your shoe for a good time interval. When you stand up don't push your skirt back down until a second or two after your up. Do this several times before coming home. You could even do this at a clothing or grocery store during their slow time. Masturbate as a well deserved reward when you get back.

Denial:
Light-Every time when you masturbate edge before you allow yourself to cum. Get used to the feeling then eventually edge twice before you cum. Keep tying adding more edges until you get to an enjoyable ratio. Then any time you plan to masturbate edge earlier in the day in order to earn the orgasm later. Never let yourself cum if you didn't have an independent edge session earlier in the day! Try this for a few days if it interest you.

More Challenging-Get ready for a good masturbation session. Do whatever you want but make sure to edge and never cum. After you're first edge quickly try and edge again. Keep trying to edge as many time in a session as you can. The goal is to stop yourself from cumming each time but don't stop the session until you accidentally cum, If that makes sense. Now count the number of edges and set this as you're new record. The next time you masturbate try to edge more times than this in order to earn your orgasm. Every edge over the number is how many orgasms you're allowed. But if you cum before then previous number then immediately stop and try to ruin your orgasm. Every number you were below is how many days you are forbidden from cumming and must edge each day as punishment! If you match the old number, still ruin your orgasm but you don't have any added denial. Keep trying to raise you max amount and use your highest number as you new standard. Eventually you'll get to a point where you struggle to beat your record. This will keep you in a continual cycle of frustration with a few ruined orgasms here and there with a rare earned orgasm. Try this for a few day and see what you think?

Punishment:
Light- Before you masturbate slap you face, ass, breasts, and clit 3-5 times as hard as you please(but feel free to just get a light sting) to get warmed up. Then masturbate but every thirty seconds or so slap your favorite place( or rotate places) two or three times. As you cum give yourself a few harder slaps and maybe another round all over you body when you're done. Try it out and see if if you liked it or not.

More Challenging- Get a brush or equivalent and spank your ass and each breast until their nice and red. Don't stop until you're sore and sensitive. Then warm up your pussy with some light slaps until it begins to sting. Then put your nipple clamps on on and begin masturbating. Continually pull on you nipple clams, slap your face, use the brush on your ass and breasts, in a rotation or just punish whatever area you prefer. Be light if you need to but don't stop unit your ready to cum. When you cum stop masturbating and slap your clit until you stop cumming. Try this out and see how fun it is for you?

Over stimulation:
Light-Get out a good toy and masturbate to orgasm as you please. When you cum you can take a very quick break but continue masturbating as soon as you can. Try to cum again. If you do, try for another, and so on and so on. The goal is try to cum as many times as you can. You can pause between each time but try to get as many as you can even if it's just two or three. Keep trying in different session to see how far you can go.

More Challenging-This will be very similar and will work best with a good vibrator. Set yourself up so you can masturbate without your hands(you banner says you have an egg vibrator so try taping or pressing that against your clit). Tie(or just keep them) your hands together behind your back so that you can escape but not quickly. Have a timer set for 15-25 minutes and turn on the vibrator. No matter what happens don't release your hands or stop the vib. Try and fight though as best as you can after you cum and just endure the sensitivity. The goal is to last as long as you can and try and cum as much as you can!

See if any of them interest you. Hopefully this helps cover some fetish bases.
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Old 01-13-2018, 11:12 AM   #3
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First welcome

Alu's list is a great start; in the mean time lets find out more about you.

Give us a full detailed description of your body.

What is the first porn you saw and what is last porn you watched ?

Lets try a little body writing in sharpie or lipstick write on your tits " New Subbie" above your pussy write " What makes me Cum " now while standing in front of a mirror masturbate while reciting theses statements.

For a little rope play lets start with a classic rope bra ( and yes they can be done with any size titties ). And they can be worn under clothes.

Next a nice pair of crotch rope panties, making sure the a line goes straight across your clitty.

Looking forward to reading your reports.
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Old 01-13-2018, 02:27 PM   #4
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Thank you both for your tasks. I will complete them over the next couple of days and will post my reports as I complete them.

I am 5"2 curvy with 36DD tits.

I can't remember the first porn I watched or the last as lately I have preferred to read stories from getdare and erotica on the internet instead and they are usually from the forced slavery genre.
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Old 01-13-2018, 02:45 PM   #5
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Here is a pussy spanking for you to try. It should help to test your humiliation and pain desires.

Strip naked, lay flat on your back, spread your legs wide and pull your knees up so that your feet are flat. Apply a clothespin to each nipple or use nipple clamps if you have them. Lay your hand on your pussy with your fingers at your opening. Raise your hand up and bring it down in a sharp slap. Slap your pussy 50 times. Do this in 2 sets of 25 so that you can continue to slap hard. Finish by holding yourself open and slapping your clit 15 times with a wooden spoon. Be sure to count all of your spanks out loud. You may remove your nipple clamps when the spanking is complete.

Please provide your report afterwards both here and by PM.
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Old 01-13-2018, 05:42 PM   #6
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1. Pet play: eat at least 2 meal naked, from a bowl on the floor without using hands (a vibe must be in your ass the whole time)
2. Nipple play: before you edge you have to twist your nipples 10 times as hard as possible, and while you edge you have to have 1 clothes pin on each nipple
3. Pee control: you can only pee at 9:00, 14:00, 18:00 and 23:00, if you miss it hold it or pee yourself
4. Body Writing: every hour write something dirty or naughty on your body
5. Semi-Public: edge only in a T-shirt in front of your flat/house front door (at which hour you do it determines the risk)
6. Hypno: listen to this file 10 times
7.Humiliation: Fill up a cup of water. Pour some into your mouth and swirl it around, then spit it back into the cup. Then pour it over your head. Edge 3 times as you dry.
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Old 01-14-2018, 03:01 AM   #7
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Exhibitionism:

Easier-If you live with roommates try to find a time frame where they will be gone. Strip naked and go masturbate in front of the entryway of your front door. Go slow and take your time but don't stop until you cum. You can keep you door double lock to buy yourself a few extra seconds just in case something happens. Alternatively you can masturbate in front of a window, keeping you legs spread and being as exposed as you can manage. If you live alone you could keep you front door slightly opened and masturbate behind it, never stopping when people are outside.
I tried this one first. As I live with parents I didn't feel comfortable completing the dare by the front door. Instead I went into my living room and completed in front of the balcony door/window. It was extremely nerve-wracking being that exposed even though I completed it late at night there was still the chance someone could see me. Several cars drove past the window but being on the first floor I don't know if they saw or not. I wanted to stop and hide each time a car came in to view but I was so wet and horny that I managed to carry on

Denial:
Light-Every time when you masturbate edge before you allow yourself to cum. Get used to the feeling then eventually edge twice before you cum. Keep tying adding more edges until you get to an enjoyable ratio. Then any time you plan to masturbate edge earlier in the day in order to earn the orgasm later. Never let yourself cum if you didn't have an independent edge session earlier in the day! Try this for a few days if it interest you.
I will try this over the next few days. This morning I masturbated to an edge and it was very hard to stop myself from cumming and was very frustrating. However when I did cum after the edge it made it feel better so intrigued to carry on exploring this.

Thank you for these dares Alucard346. I will continue working through the list over the next couple of days.
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Old 01-14-2018, 05:52 AM   #8
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First welcome

Alu's list is a great start; in the mean time lets find out more about you.

Give us a full detailed description of your body.

What is the first porn you saw and what is last porn you watched ?

Lets try a little body writing in sharpie or lipstick write on your tits " New Subbie" above your pussy write " What makes me Cum " now while standing in front of a mirror masturbate while reciting theses statements.

For a little rope play lets start with a classic rope bra ( and yes they can be done with any size titties ). And they can be worn under clothes.

Next a nice pair of crotch rope panties, making sure the a line goes straight across your clitty.

Looking forward to reading your reports.
Unfortunately I don't currently have any rope so I couldn't do the rope bra or panties. When I get a chance to go shopping I will see if I can find some rope so that I can then try them.

I tried the body writing with lipstick so that I could wash it off after completing the task as I was worried about the writing on my tits being visible. It felt very humiliating to watch myself masturbating with the phrases written on my body and reciting them. However it made me very horny and made me cum quicker which of course made me more humiliated. I definitely enjoyed this dare and am interested in exploring body writing further now.
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Hi all, I have been a lurking for a few months and finally decided to join. I am intrigued and turned on by the sub lifestyle but don't know what my likes and dislikes really are. I'm looking for dares and tasks which will help me to explore and establish my likes and dislikes. Any help would be greatly appreciated and I will write full reports of all dares completed.
Toys- dildo, RC egg vibrator, various sized butt plugs, nipple clamps
OK. See how long you can remain naked continuously, Weekend?
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Old 01-14-2018, 08:21 PM   #11
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Thank you for these dares Alucard346. I will continue working through the list over the next couple of days.
Good work! It seemed like you got something out of them! Let us know how any others go. If you get a taste for anything let us know for more specific dares.
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Old 01-17-2018, 10:01 AM   #12
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Here is a pussy spanking for you to try. It should help to test your humiliation and pain desires.

Strip naked, lay flat on your back, spread your legs wide and pull your knees up so that your feet are flat. Apply a clothespin to each nipple or use nipple clamps if you have them. Lay your hand on your pussy with your fingers at your opening. Raise your hand up and bring it down in a sharp slap. Slap your pussy 50 times. Do this in 2 sets of 25 so that you can continue to slap hard. Finish by holding yourself open and slapping your clit 15 times with a wooden spoon. Be sure to count all of your spanks out loud. You may remove your nipple clamps when the spanking is complete.

Please provide your report afterwards both here and by PM.
I was unsure before completing this dare if I would be able to manage this many spanks and even then I didn't realize how much spanking my pussy and clit would hurt. Or how painful the wooden spoon would be.

Once I got into position I attached my nipple clamps and prepared to start my spanking. To start with the spanks whilst painful were not too bad and were manageable. It was my nipples which were more sore as every spank caused the clamps to move and pull on my nipples. Counting the spanks out loud was humiliating as I knew how far away I was from being done and that I was counting each spank that caused me pain. By the time I finished the first 25 my pussy was very red and sore and I wanted to stop. However I was very horny and extremely wet. So carried on as I was clearly enjoying it. The last 25 were hard to do and took longer as my pussy felt like it was on fire but I was still very wet. I underestimated how much the wooden spoon would hurt and the spanks direct to my clit were practically impossible. Once I had completed them my pussy and clit was so painful. I then had to remove my nipple clamps from my nipples which wer extremely sore as the clamps had been on for a while and had been dragged around the whole time by the spanking.

I really enjoyed this task and know that spanking, humiliation and nipple play are definite likes
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So its January and everyone is getting fit so should you.
Go for a run for at least 2 miles.

The catch you have to wear your remote control vibe and a buttplug.

Every person you pass you turn up the egg.

Once on Max leave it there until you orgasm.

You should also put some good porn on your headphones.

Now enjoy the fun little run
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