Which is more humiliating?

inflamio · 11-11-2013, 02:48 PM

Which is more humiliating for a guy to wear, bra or panties?

I have been pondering this question for a while and have asked my friend, she said panties but I said bra.

I am genuinely interested in the responses so please answer truthfully.

Both genders can answer, don't feel like you can't answer if you are a girl.

hotguns · 11-11-2013, 02:49 PM

panties for me

Vodin30 · 11-11-2013, 02:56 PM

i find the panties are more humiliating. A bra is embarassing if you are caught with it but you can always pass it off as a joke or dare or something along those lines. Panties though, they just seem to carry more weight, so to speak. Peaople will give you more grief if you are caught in them.

inflamio · 11-11-2013, 03:02 PM

I didn't think about that, I was thinking that everyone wears underwear of some sort but only women wear bras, but perhaps you could then say that because everyone wears underwear of some sorts there is a big division between male and female underwear so to keep society from a genderless or unisex society, this therefore makes the fact that you are wearing female underwear more humiliating than a bra, that men have no use for (reason to wear).

The moral of the story, no matter what you're told, society still hasn't reached equality.

Sorry to rant, I'm just very passionate about gender equality

NYC · 11-11-2013, 03:33 PM

I think bra because it is harder to hide

inferiorwhiteboi · 11-11-2013, 04:26 PM

Definitely a bra.

I've worn panties my fair share of times, I'll admit it - even when a dare was NOT involved. Sure, I do find it a bit humiliating, but it is also rather arousing.

A bra on the other hand...well there's no real reason for a guy to have one on. Once, I have worn a bra and it was awkward. The straps dug into my shoulders and it was unpleasant. I was quite humiliated and didn't enjoy it at all.

Unrelated, but I pity you gals that have to wear bras. I sure hope that some of them are comfortable, because my lone experience indicated otherwise.

slaveboy82 · 11-11-2013, 08:08 PM

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Originally Posted by inflamio

I didn't think about that, I was thinking that everyone wears underwear of some sort but only women wear bras, but perhaps you could then say that because everyone wears underwear of some sorts there is a big division between male and female underwear so to keep society from a genderless or unisex society, this therefore makes the fact that you are wearing female underwear more humiliating than a bra, that men have no use for (reason to wear).

The moral of the story, no matter what you're told, society still hasn't reached equality.

Sorry to rant, I'm just very passionate about gender equality

don't be sorry for the rant please don't. I am gender queer and have wondered for a long time about it all.
Here is my little rant. we all study animals in school right? in the animal world the females are (not trying to start anything here) more plain if you will less color less show etc. in the animal world the males are flashy colorful and what not they make a statement as to say look at me.
then you have the human world so full of self importance that pokes fun of animals all the time but we as humans think the woman shout be flashy and colorful. why is this? I have always wondered all those animal species out there and only 1 is different? kinda something to chew on and think about.

lta9613 · 11-12-2013, 07:27 PM

Bra...most of the underwear I wear is small and tight enough to be panties.

pisspants · 11-13-2013, 03:35 AM

For me it has to be a bra. It's more visible and it's difficult to come up with a convincing excuse as to why you should be wearing one.

ctsub4otk · 11-13-2013, 06:48 AM

For me it is the bra. With just a normal shirt you can see the bra straps. Plus i am constintly adjusting the straps. try standing in line to pay for something and wondering whether the person behind you and see you are wearing a bra

gpguy · 11-13-2013, 07:17 AM

If it turns you on it is actually not really humiliating. You know what it is that turns you on and you have fun with it. It would be humiliating if you have to do it but it doesn't turn you on. I guess might be better to ask a two part question. Does it turn you on? If yes what you turns you on more having to wear a bra or panty? Just a thought.

gpguy · 11-13-2013, 07:22 AM

I gave it some more thought, I guess for me it would have to be a bra would be more humiliating, I can always fairly easily wear my boxerbriefs over top the panties I'd be FORCED to wear.

Sarge90 · 11-13-2013, 09:48 AM

A bra, I think, because I wore my ex's knickers several times (she quite liked it when I did) and firstly they're easier to hide, easier to explain and most couples I've known will admit to having worn each other's underwear during their relationship

My only experience wearing a bra was while playing truth or dare with her, and it was embarrassing and didn't sit right, so I think there's that awkwardness to it too. But that's simply my viewpoint

mrpropel · 09-23-2016, 08:08 PM

Panties, I don't know it's just something about seeing a man with panties on and his dick just begging to come out of their. I think that's more humiliating.

Kisune Karnon · 09-23-2016, 08:15 PM

Panties for sure.

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11-11-2013, 02:48 PM	#1
inflamio getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: In a galaxy far far away... Posts: 280 Blog Entries: 1	Which is more humiliating? Which is more humiliating for a guy to wear, bra or panties? I have been pondering this question for a while and have asked my friend, she said panties but I said bra. I am genuinely interested in the responses so please answer truthfully. Both genders can answer, don't feel like you can't answer if you are a girl. __________________ sissy slut UK pansexual Likes: Crossdressing, humiliation, public, spankings, light anal Dislikes: friends, pictures Limits: Family, severe pain, poo and piss I lost to Nicole.

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Vodin30 getDare Devil Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: SoCal Posts: 1,253 Blog Entries: 4	i find the panties are more humiliating. A bra is embarassing if you are caught with it but you can always pass it off as a joke or dare or something along those lines. Panties though, they just seem to carry more weight, so to speak. Peaople will give you more grief if you are caught in them. __________________ Teamup Calendar Likes: LIKES Limits: family, friends, animals, scat, under age, social suicide. Permanent markings. feel free to send me an email, PM, or kik me

11-11-2013, 03:02 PM	#4
inflamio getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: In a galaxy far far away... Posts: 280 Blog Entries: 1	I didn't think about that, I was thinking that everyone wears underwear of some sort but only women wear bras, but perhaps you could then say that because everyone wears underwear of some sorts there is a big division between male and female underwear so to keep society from a genderless or unisex society, this therefore makes the fact that you are wearing female underwear more humiliating than a bra, that men have no use for (reason to wear). The moral of the story, no matter what you're told, society still hasn't reached equality. Sorry to rant, I'm just very passionate about gender equality __________________ sissy slut UK pansexual Likes: Crossdressing, humiliation, public, spankings, light anal Dislikes: friends, pictures Limits: Family, severe pain, poo and piss I lost to Nicole. Last edited by inflamio; 11-11-2013 at 03:04 PM.

11-11-2013, 04:26 PM	#6
inferiorwhiteboi getDare Devil Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: Anywhere but getDare Posts: 1,338 Blog Entries: 24	Definitely a bra. I've worn panties my fair share of times, I'll admit it - even when a dare was NOT involved. Sure, I do find it a bit humiliating, but it is also rather arousing. A bra on the other hand...well there's no real reason for a guy to have one on. Once, I have worn a bra and it was awkward. The straps dug into my shoulders and it was unpleasant. I was quite humiliated and didn't enjoy it at all. Unrelated, but I pity you gals that have to wear bras. I sure hope that some of them are comfortable, because my lone experience indicated otherwise. __________________ (\__/) (='.'=) (")_(") Bunny says, "Bye bye!"

11-11-2013, 02:49 PM	#2
hotguns Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2013 Posts: 29	panties for me

11-11-2013, 03:33 PM	#5
NYC Member Join Date: Nov 2013 Posts: 31	I think bra because it is harder to hide

11-12-2013, 07:27 PM	#8
lta9613 Distinguished Member Join Date: Oct 2013 Posts: 515 Blog Entries: 1	Bra...most of the underwear I wear is small and tight enough to be panties. __________________ LDL was outdated, ask me about likes/limits/etc

11-13-2013, 03:35 AM	#9
pisspants Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 57 Blog Entries: 9	For me it has to be a bra. It's more visible and it's difficult to come up with a convincing excuse as to why you should be wearing one.

11-13-2013, 06:48 AM	#10
ctsub4otk Baby Member Join Date: Dec 2012 Posts: 1	For me it is the bra. With just a normal shirt you can see the bra straps. Plus i am constintly adjusting the straps. try standing in line to pay for something and wondering whether the person behind you and see you are wearing a bra

11-13-2013, 07:17 AM	#11
gpguy getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 252	If it turns you on it is actually not really humiliating. You know what it is that turns you on and you have fun with it. It would be humiliating if you have to do it but it doesn't turn you on. I guess might be better to ask a two part question. Does it turn you on? If yes what you turns you on more having to wear a bra or panty? Just a thought.

11-13-2013, 07:22 AM	#12
gpguy getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 252	I gave it some more thought, I guess for me it would have to be a bra would be more humiliating, I can always fairly easily wear my boxerbriefs over top the panties I'd be FORCED to wear.

11-13-2013, 09:48 AM	#13
Sarge90 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: UK Posts: 397 Blog Entries: 14	A bra, I think, because I wore my ex's knickers several times (she quite liked it when I did) and firstly they're easier to hide, easier to explain and most couples I've known will admit to having worn each other's underwear during their relationship My only experience wearing a bra was while playing truth or dare with her, and it was embarrassing and didn't sit right, so I think there's that awkwardness to it too. But that's simply my viewpoint __________________ Magic always comes with a price....

09-23-2016, 08:08 PM	#14
mrpropel Truth or Dare Junkie Join Date: Nov 2013 Location: Paradise Posts: 5,103 Blog Entries: 2	Panties, I don't know it's just something about seeing a man with panties on and his dick just begging to come out of their. I think that's more humiliating. __________________ M~28~bi~Femboy hi there! hope you are having a great day! feel free to say hi to me on discord! `Bantering` love you all <3

09-23-2016, 08:15 PM	#15
Kisune Karnon GetDare Ninja Join Date: May 2010 Location: Imagination Land Posts: 12,192 Blog Entries: 7	Panties for sure. __________________ Male/Married/Straight/Switch/32/190 lbs Likes and Limits Toys (So Far) PM Dares Utilizing Keywords Version 3 Kik: Kisune22 My goal is to give good dares and receive them because that is how I enjoy the game. I will send reports when I choose to or if I am asked. If you give me a repeated dare or a "do your own dare," I will be very disappointed because I like to be surprised and challenged.