Give my partner control for my 21st birthday!

[Sexygal20]

Originally Posted by MasterSlave85

Then I would say you can make him over the next weeks more and more suggestions he can choose of for that day:
Search 21 sexy/slave outfits and let him choose what you will wear that day
Offer 21 different meals and let him choose what you will cook him
search 21 pictures/videos that turn you on and let him choose which one he wants to recreate with you

I like this! Honestly realizing more and more how much I’d rather him be in control! The sexy/slave outfits in particular! Do you have any suggestions?

[Sexygal20]

Originally Posted by Caya

Now to the fun Part.

I would sugest a Ritual in the beginning.
Like waking him up with a blow Job and when Heß fully awake. Get of the bed an kneel infron of it with your Arms extended hands fscing up with a collar on them. Your Gaze Touren to the grpund and thsn you anounce somthing like. If you put this collar on me im yours to comand till dste X.

I’m interested in waking him up with a blowjob, but I’m not sure about a collar. Seems a little soon for that, plus not sure my pride could say those words

[Caya]

Originally Posted by Sexygal20

I’m interested in waking him up with a blowjob, but I’m not sure about a collar. Seems a little soon for that, plus not sure my pride could say those words

Hm
Csm be a necklace for the start.

Are you alone at home at the moment ?

[Sexygal20]

Originally Posted by Caya

Hm
Csm be a necklace for the start.

Are you alone at home at the moment ?

Yes I am currently alone

[Caya]

Originally Posted by Sexygal20

Yes I am currently alone

Go undress and kneel infront of a mirrour. And lock yourself in the eys and say tjose words.

Describe how you feel etc. Afterwards please

[Sexygal20]

Originally Posted by Caya

Go undress and kneel infront of a mirrour. And lock yourself in the eys and say tjose words.

Describe how you feel etc. Afterwards please

I’m sorry, what words?

[MasterSlave85]

Originally Posted by Sexygal20

I like this! Honestly realizing more and more how much I’d rather him be in control! The sexy/slave outfits in particular! Do you have any suggestions?

You mean for the outfits?
Depends a bit what he prefers. Is he more into the classical sexy dessous or trashy slutty stuff or are you two into humiliation?

[Caya]

Originally Posted by Sexygal20

I’m sorry, what words?

If you put this collar on me im yours to comand till dste X. These words

[Sexygal20]

Originally Posted by MasterSlave85

You mean for the outfits?
Depends a bit what he prefers. Is he more into the classical sexy dessous or trashy slutty stuff or are you two into humiliation?

He likes both. I think I’ve found some for him to pick from.

He’s not into humiliation, but I am interested. I’m not super familiar with it, but I’m open to trying

[MasterSlave85]

Originally Posted by Sexygal20

He likes both. I think I’ve found some for him to pick from.

He’s not into humiliation, but I am interested. I’m not super familiar with it, but I’m open to trying

Then look espacilly for some where you think you feel insecure in, but at the same time you think he would really like them.

You can also make a wishlist of 21 sextoys you would like to put into your arsenal. leet him choose which one you buy as your birthday gift.

If it fits you could buy/bake a birthday donut for yourself. you stick then his dick through the hole and eat it from there.

[Sexygal20]

Originally Posted by MasterSlave85

Then look espacilly for some where you think you feel insecure in, but at the same time you think he would really like them.

You can also make a wishlist of 21 sextoys you would like to put into your arsenal. leet him choose which one you buy as your birthday gift.

If it fits you could buy/bake a birthday donut for yourself. you stick then his dick through the hole and eat it from there.

I might get him something like this then, everything is just out there! My goodness

https://www.adameve.com/lingerie/wom...ddy-98898.aspx

I’ll have to look into sextoys to see what I’m interested in and what there is, but I think that’d be a good use of a birthday present. After all, I am still the birthday girl!
The donut would certainly be a yummy dessert for me and something fun for him

[MasterSlave85]

Originally Posted by Sexygal20

I might get him something like this then, everything is just out there! My goodness

https://www.adameve.com/lingerie/wom...ddy-98898.aspx

I’ll have to look into sextoys to see what I’m interested in and what there is, but I think that’d be a good use of a birthday present. After all, I am still the birthday girl!
The donut would certainly be a yummy dessert for me and something fun for him

Yeah with your breast size I would go fore something like that if I would be your bf.
maybe even crotchless like this https://www.adameve.com/lingerie/wom...ddy-90845.aspx

[Sexygal20]

Originally Posted by MasterSlave85

Yeah with your breast size I would go fore something like that if I would be your bf.
maybe even crotchless like this https://www.adameve.com/lingerie/wom...ddy-90845.aspx

Ooh good choice! The back is a win for sure, shows off my best feature!

[MasterSlave85]

Originally Posted by Sexygal20

Ooh good choice! The back is a win for sure, shows off my best feature!

But you should let him decide what he wants to see maybe he is a purist and enjoys the old fashion collar only style.

You can write also 21 one different sexual fantasies of you down. Then let him pick one. Or all as vouche.

Regarding your oral problem: I guess you enjoy it when he eats you out or? One new rule could be that you can only get it after you managed to please him x amounts of minutes first/ make him cum in the next step.

[Sexygal20]

Originally Posted by MasterSlave85

But you should let him decide what he wants to see maybe he is a purist and enjoys the old fashion collar only style.

You can write also 21 one different sexual fantasies of you down. Then let him pick one. Or all as vouche.

Regarding your oral problem: I guess you enjoy it when he eats you out or? One new rule could be that you can only get it after you managed to please him x amounts of minutes first/ make him cum in the next step.

You are absolutely right, I didn’t really think about a collar being an option for lingerie, it is up to him after all!

First I’d have to think of 21 fantasies! But I like the idea.

Yeah I do, this would be good to make me wait! It still means I get pleasure but he still does first.