What turns YOU off?

mrpropel · 03-02-2014, 05:52 PM

Inspired by the What turns YOU on thread?

Similar concept, girls what are some of the biggest turn offs in men. Guys what are some of your biggest turn off in woman? Is it something physical? mental? attitude? The possibilities are endless.

Be honest

SandroS88 · 03-02-2014, 06:54 PM

Too much talking... I hate it if you want to start and she is starting to talk about something i cant describe....

Starring also a big turn off.... xD

Kitten · 03-02-2014, 06:57 PM

When people advertise their genitals instead of themselves, especially if their genitals aren't extremely interesting and/or awe-inspiring.

When people parading as Dominants actually want to be dominated or when people parading as submissives actually want to dominate.

Bad breath. Just because it's annoying when you talk to someone, to get a whiff of their earlier dinner(s).

When people are cocky but they have absolutely zip to back it up.

There are some more but let's see what others post before I clog up the entire thread with my petty grievances. :')

Athanael · 03-02-2014, 07:07 PM

_When a woman is too kind to me and possibly excessively overprotective
_People who aren't really interesting and follow what everybody else follows

Diamond · 03-02-2014, 07:37 PM

-Bad breath
Cocky
mean to friends

SlutBrain · 03-02-2014, 10:16 PM

For me its drugs and smoking.
Disgusts me (in a bad way :P)

DevilsPlaything · 03-02-2014, 11:46 PM

Mostly what turns me off about guys is mental. I don't like guys to be rude or domineering. I don't mind perverted guys but dom's kind of piss me off. I'm too rebellious to be a sub but maybe my pee fetish confuses some guys. I like a little humiliation, just not from jackasses who don't ask me first if I'm into name calling before calling me whore or something.
I also don't like it when guys are over conservative, or religious, or pretend like they don't like looking at other girls. I like my guys perverted. If I'm staring at another girls butt I want them to do it as well. :P

Prime · 03-03-2014, 12:22 PM

Considering the site we're on, I'm going to only list turn-offs that would matter for a mostly sexual relationship:

- Distant, elusive girls who play hard to get.

- Deep, harsh voices.

- Too much sarcasm, sassiness, and cursing outside of the bedroom. Although that works well if the girl wants me to be more of a jerk, in case I'm being too nice.

- Other masculine characteristics and traits in general.

rahamn · 03-03-2014, 12:53 PM

Yes I know its odd but cheating .. but I have my own definition of cheating if I know its happening and am okay with it then its not cheating until it becomes more than physical.

Lying is also on my list. Oh and games I really dislike games in a relationship. If you dont like something I did or said TELL ME. You dont have to be an a$$ about it just point it out. Yes if we are fighting I will most likely do it on purpose to get you angry but you will be doing the same thing. The make up sex will be AMAZING. oh wait back to point ... umm ... dont try to act like you expect me to be dead cause we know your still checking out guys (maybe girls too) so dont act like i cant. That brings me to another "do as i say not as i do" is a HUGE no no. Not as big as the cheating thing but close.

Jock Slave 18 · 03-03-2014, 12:53 PM

When people don't listen...

Shibari · 03-03-2014, 01:13 PM

ignorant.. 'I only want to do what I want to do guys'.. extremely horny guys that you can tell that are extremely horny

Wonna be Doms..

liars, "oh baby im so good I will make you cum"

Woptee · 03-03-2014, 01:17 PM

Really just stuff like smoking and drug abuse

Schwink · 03-03-2014, 03:15 PM

I hate when girls refuse to do anything but vanilla and expect the guy to do everything.

gpguy · 03-03-2014, 03:19 PM

I'm a little embarrassed to say but high expectations and pressure, it just plays with my mind.

JacobsField · 03-03-2014, 09:41 PM

Turn-offs for me include stupidity and immaturity.

03-02-2014, 05:52 PM	#1
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03-02-2014, 07:37 PM	#5
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03-02-2014, 10:16 PM	#6
SlutBrain getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Nov 2013 Posts: 370 Blog Entries: 2	For me its drugs and smoking. Disgusts me (in a bad way :P) __________________ Deleted

03-02-2014, 11:46 PM	#7
DevilsPlaything Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2013 Posts: 216 Blog Entries: 2	Mostly what turns me off about guys is mental. I don't like guys to be rude or domineering. I don't mind perverted guys but dom's kind of piss me off. I'm too rebellious to be a sub but maybe my pee fetish confuses some guys. I like a little humiliation, just not from jackasses who don't ask me first if I'm into name calling before calling me whore or something. I also don't like it when guys are over conservative, or religious, or pretend like they don't like looking at other girls. I like my guys perverted. If I'm staring at another girls butt I want them to do it as well. :P __________________ 23/f Likes and Limits PM Dares Human Sex Map

03-03-2014, 12:53 PM	#9
rahamn Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Texas retired now Posts: 167	Yes I know its odd but cheating .. but I have my own definition of cheating if I know its happening and am okay with it then its not cheating until it becomes more than physical. Lying is also on my list. Oh and games I really dislike games in a relationship. If you dont like something I did or said TELL ME. You dont have to be an a$$ about it just point it out. Yes if we are fighting I will most likely do it on purpose to get you angry but you will be doing the same thing. The make up sex will be AMAZING. oh wait back to point ... umm ... dont try to act like you expect me to be dead cause we know your still checking out guys (maybe girls too) so dont act like i cant. That brings me to another "do as i say not as i do" is a HUGE no no. Not as big as the cheating thing but close. __________________ grrr at having to do extra steps for everything. Wobbuffet to the rescue Kik: rahamn123 Yahoo:rahamn123

03-02-2014, 06:54 PM	#2
SandroS88 Member Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: N/A Posts: 31	Too much talking... I hate it if you want to start and she is starting to talk about something i cant describe.... Starring also a big turn off.... xD

03-02-2014, 06:57 PM	#3
Kitten The One & Only Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Gehenna Posts: 1,215 Blog Entries: 2	When people advertise their genitals instead of themselves, especially if their genitals aren't extremely interesting and/or awe-inspiring. When people parading as Dominants actually want to be dominated or when people parading as submissives actually want to dominate. Bad breath. Just because it's annoying when you talk to someone, to get a whiff of their earlier dinner(s). When people are cocky but they have absolutely zip to back it up. There are some more but let's see what others post before I clog up the entire thread with my petty grievances. :')

03-02-2014, 07:07 PM	#4
Athanael getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Europe Posts: 258 Blog Entries: 5	_When a woman is too kind to me and possibly excessively overprotective _People who aren't really interesting and follow what everybody else follows

03-03-2014, 12:22 PM	#8
Prime Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 47	Considering the site we're on, I'm going to only list turn-offs that would matter for a mostly sexual relationship: - Distant, elusive girls who play hard to get. - Deep, harsh voices. - Too much sarcasm, sassiness, and cursing outside of the bedroom. Although that works well if the girl wants me to be more of a jerk, in case I'm being too nice. - Other masculine characteristics and traits in general.

03-03-2014, 12:53 PM	#10
Jock Slave 18 Member Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: UK Posts: 75	When people don't listen... __________________ --< I'm A Slave And Master! >-- 18 Years Old, Gay and Male! Likes: Pee, pants and boxers, stink, hairy armpits, bears, muscle, speedos, punishments, pain nipple play, piss play such as drinking etc, cum play, ass play, BDSM, S&M, ball busting, spanking, PAINNNN, being a dog and more!! Limits: Pets, family, friends, animals, getting caught and pissing on/in clothes

03-03-2014, 01:13 PM	#11
Shibari getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: England Posts: 399 Blog Entries: 10	ignorant.. 'I only want to do what I want to do guys'.. extremely horny guys that you can tell that are extremely horny Wonna be Doms.. liars, "oh baby im so good I will make you cum" __________________ Submissive freak . Rope, Shibari/kinbaku. I kiss my enemies lips, while I dance in the flames of the devil, worship the Dominant that guides while I suffer at His feet.

03-03-2014, 01:17 PM	#12
Woptee Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: UK Posts: 17	Really just stuff like smoking and drug abuse __________________ Diaper, Slavery, Private, Hypnosis, Pee Pain, Wedge, Torture, Public, Scat Family, Friends, Pics MTF/Bi CHICK WITH A DICK

03-03-2014, 03:15 PM	#13
Schwink getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jan 2014 Posts: 303	I hate when girls refuse to do anything but vanilla and expect the guy to do everything.

03-03-2014, 03:19 PM	#14
gpguy getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 252	I'm a little embarrassed to say but high expectations and pressure, it just plays with my mind. __________________ Likes: Light CBT, Some orgasm control, bondage, pics/videos, light pain, light anal. Dislikes: Complete body shaves, heavy anal, heavy CBT Limits: Extreme public, social suicide, anything permanent, scat, blood, extreme pain, extreme humiliation, extreme online exhibitionism, crossdressing.

03-03-2014, 09:41 PM	#15
JacobsField getDare Devil Join Date: Dec 2013 Posts: 1,278	Turn-offs for me include stupidity and immaturity. __________________ ALL 3 PARTS OF SOCCER HAZING STORY ARE FINISHED! I am happily married and just came back here to see if I could find any couples dares. Stay kinky, my friends.