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09-17-2016, 02:28 PM | #1 | |
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PMs are a great tool that is used everyday for tons of people but it is a very neglected section that needs some attention regarding the issues that it surfaces.
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09-17-2016, 02:34 PM | #2 | |
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I dont like PM's here too much, just because of the weird they get if you dont delete the previous reply. And if you do you need to go looking for the previous messages, and it's pretty tiring. Also the 15pms/hour limit is a bit too small
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09-17-2016, 02:37 PM | #3 | |
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And it's 60pms/hour. They just do not want you to be spamming people with PMs.
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09-17-2016, 02:40 PM | #4 | |
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09-17-2016, 04:29 PM | #5 |
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I find most requests a minor annoyance but have no qualms or problems just ignoring them. So many are from sad desperate boys who don't bother to make a genuine connection by starting with a greeting or checking my likes etc because they are not expecting a reply. Ah well. One can but laugh.
I've sent a few pms to people who look interesting to my purposes, hopefully these were not taken as spam but I had at least offered honest and polite comment and looked up the people before proceeding. As someone earlier said, there is a wealth to choose from and no reason to get caught up with the small fish. :-) J&M
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09-17-2016, 04:46 PM | #6 | |
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09-17-2016, 05:10 PM | #7 | |
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Some people can not take harassment as easy as you may be able to. Still paranoia is very prominent within new users, as they want communication to be strictly through PMs, and not using any other means of communication, even if it is "anonymous." I was that way and I've grown out of it a bit, but it is still there to an extent.
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09-18-2016, 09:00 AM | #8 | |
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When setting up a gmail account on your phone it can very well accidentally happen that your real name gets attached to it. I actually had that happen with a sub i was communicating with. To be honest, i felt very guilty. I had asked to switch to gmail after having used pm for a week or so, and then her real name showed up. I never abused it, but i can soo very imagine how afraid she was... Especially since that happened after we we communicating for only 1 week. Personally i strictly use my second gmail account via a browser different from my normal browser |
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I would be scared out of my mind! It's a good thing that you never abused it because if that was never the intention of displaying her real name, then I would not have wanted to share any information with anyone ever again through getDare!
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09-18-2016, 09:39 AM | #10 | |
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That is why i wanted to say this, just to let others know. Not abusing is just naturally, i dont even consider it "good", more like "extremely bad" if one would. But still,... If she would have hit one of the morons we are discussing here........... (And just for the record, no, it is not my pet who made this mistake, we still don't know each others rl) Having said all this..... And now?........ Will we ask a modification?... Like what?.... Or for now just ranting about it (could be ok)? ..... Make a poll?... Just learn how to efficiently deal with it? |
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09-18-2016, 09:47 AM | #11 |
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I was hoping that a getDare staff member would look at this thread and some proposed ideas, specifically at staff for certain areas of the site, and chime in on their thoughts, as to what is & isn't possible.
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09-18-2016, 09:48 AM | #12 | |
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Good or bad reputations could be earned by other people voting on it. It showed up in the user profile. Seems like a good idea; if someone makes a nuisance of himself, you should be able to give a negative vote, that shows up publicly.
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09-18-2016, 11:22 AM | #13 | |
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