Sam’s AMA (formerly samishere)

[Sam~]

Do you want to have any children?

Well I would have liked to have children, however I think the opportunity to have children was another thing that was taken away from me by the guy who took my first time (see my blog) As due to the issues that caused to my anxiety/mental/emotional state with regards to trust, having intimate relationships with anyone, being able to feel comfortable being held by someone, meant that I was not able to maintain a relationship long enough to get to the stage where we could have children together.

While I physically still could have children, I feel it is now too late for me, as I'm not so young anymore and even now I sometimes still struggle with intimate relationships.

What car do you have?

I have a Range Rover Evoque. (Company car)

What was the last task Lucy gave you?

it was a session following her instructions fucking myself anally with one dildo and giving another dildo a blowjob...

[LPV]

Will you be wearing a red, white, and blue corset today to celebrate American independence?

[happytosubmit]

What were the most:
- extreme
- humiliating
- painful
dares you gave to a slave so far?

What tasks do you fantasize about, but haven't dared giving to a sub yet?

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by happytosubmit

What were the most:
- extreme
- humiliating
- painful
dares you gave to a slave so far?

What tasks do you fantasize about, but haven't dared giving to a sub yet?

These may be best to ask Matt, but I'll try to answer, there all subjective though.

Extreme, I not sure how you rate them on the extreme level. Taking Matt a walk from my house along streets, completely naked, blindfolded and hands cuffed would be up there I think just because of the risk of being seen. Ir "kidnapping" him and taking him on a naked car ride. Some below could count too.

Humiliating, hard to pick, got him to do a few humiliating dares... Could be when I got him to perform on one way cam for myself, Lucy and a few others, giving his dildo a lot of love... Pet play, peeing on himself etc.. Or maybe when I've taken him naked, on his hands and knees with collar on for a walk outside making him pee like a dog. Or wetting himself on a walk and talking to other's... Drinking my piss in public. Is hard to choose lol

Painful, I don't tend to give many painful tasks, so these may be tame in comparison to others, maybe some of the spankings I've given him when we are together or hanging 4 cooking pots from his balls, or could be having nearly 30 pegs on his cock and balls lol

As you can probably tell, I like giving humiliating and hidden / semi public tasks.

One thing I fantasise about getting Matt to do is for him to come to a house party where he's the only guy, he'd have to be our naked waiter for a meal, serving us all our food and drink, then our entertainment / plaything / servant afterwards sadly I don't know enough girls who I'd be comfortable asking to do that though lol

or I keep threatening to get him to have his bum and pubic area waxed at a beauty salon haha

[happytosubmit]

Thanks a lot for the very detailed answer, Matt must be a really lucky guy!

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by happytosubmit

Thanks a lot for the very detailed answer, Matt must be a really lucky guy!

I'm not sure he always sees it that way haha well at the time anyway lol

[happytosubmit]

Have you always been a switch? How did you start in the kinky world? And if you didn't start as switch, how did you develop to that today?

[MarvHarvey]

Originally Posted by Sam~

These may be best to ask Matt, but I'll try to answer, there all subjective though.

Extreme, I not sure how you rate them on the extreme level. Taking Matt a walk from my house along streets, completely naked, blindfolded and hands cuffed would be up there I think just because of the risk of being seen. Ir "kidnapping" him and taking him on a naked car ride. Some below could count too.

Humiliating, hard to pick, got him to do a few humiliating dares... Could be when I got him to perform on one way cam for myself, Lucy and a few others, giving his dildo a lot of love... Pet play, peeing on himself etc.. Or maybe when I've taken him naked, on his hands and knees with collar on for a walk outside making him pee like a dog. Or wetting himself on a walk and talking to other's... Drinking my piss in public. Is hard to choose lol

Painful, I don't tend to give many painful tasks, so these may be tame in comparison to others, maybe some of the spankings I've given him when we are together or hanging 4 cooking pots from his balls, or could be having nearly 30 pegs on his cock and balls lol

As you can probably tell, I like giving humiliating and hidden / semi public tasks.

One thing I fantasise about getting Matt to do is for him to come to a house party where he's the only guy, he'd have to be our naked waiter for a meal, serving us all our food and drink, then our entertainment / plaything / servant afterwards sadly I don't know enough girls who I'd be comfortable asking to do that though lol

or I keep threatening to get him to have his bum and pubic area waxed at a beauty salon haha

Whew!
Sometimes I envy Matt for his relationship with you - other times not so much!


Do you think other girls envy you for your relationship with Matt?
On Gd and/or RL?

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by MarvHarvey

Whew!
Sometimes I envy Matt for his relationship with you - other times not so much!


Do you think other girls envy you for your relationship with Matt?
On Gd and/or RL?

Oh I don't know, you'd have to ask them. In real life, no one other than Lucy knows about our kinky side, he's just my boyfriend if anyone asks.

And I'm not sure they would be particularly envious on GetDare, we are not that public with our relationship for the most part. We only report publicly on a few tasks, dares etc.. Mostly our relationship is private.

[MarvHarvey]

Doesnt have to be the kinky side that makes people envious. You are both good people. I was thinking of the ovrrall effect.

[anacamacho]

Originally Posted by Sam~

Hi just thought I'd do one of these. So ask me anything.

I won't promise to answer EVERY question, but I will answer honestly

What is your favorite sex toy? and why

[Sexyplant]

Hey there,

This seems to be a very popular thread. I enjoyed the read so far.

I tend to ask everyone this question, seems to be a good ice breaker, so don't mind me.

Do you like cats?

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by Sexyplant

Hey there,

This seems to be a very popular thread. I enjoyed the read so far.

I tend to ask everyone this question, seems to be a good ice breaker, so don't mind me.

Do you like cats?

Hiya Glad you enjoyed reading it!

I prefer dogs, but I do like cats as long as they don't scratch me haha They do look cute and can be a laugh. Also they do not require as much attention as dogs and can be left to their own devices more. But given the choice, I would always pick a dog over a cat. Cat's are too moody haha If they are not in the mood, then you can't play or fuss them.

[LPV]

How are you?

Where are you?

Are you, Matt, and Lucy going to practice social distancing when you meet up?

How are those corset exercises going? lol

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by LPV

How are you?

I'm okay, just tired. Trying to look after kids and work is hard lol

Where are you?

I am at my sister's house helping to look after her kids with the school's closed.

Are you, Matt, and Lucy going to practice social distancing when you meet up?

How are those corset exercises going? lol

Well I don't think any of us can really count meeting up as essential travel, so sadly we are not going to be able to see each other for a while

lol I didn't bring my corset with me