05-09-2014, 08:56 PM | #46 | |
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The original poster used really bad wording to ask the questions, as "something unpleasant" is not really synonomous with a punishment. The definition of punishment is as follows (from a real dictionary, not a BDSM glossary or anything: "the infliction or imposition of a penalty as retribution for an offense." If there is no offense then it really isn't a punishment. As soon as I realize I am being punished for something it is almost more difficult mentally than the actual physical punishment for me. I beat myself up about it and punish myself for my mistake. If I didn't make a mistake and I have to do "something unpleasant" then I would not be okay if it ws referred to as a punishmment. The word 'punishment' carries a strong weight with me. I do think, though, that a Dom should be able to tell a sub to do something, just because he or she wants them to. They *are* your Dom for a reason after all. As long as it isn't breaking a limit, like slutpuppy said, it is fine with me. And also like slutpuppy said, I would probably ask why but wouldn't *need* an answer. A "because I said so" would suffice to shut me up
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05-11-2014, 04:24 PM | #47 |
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Gah, me too. This is how it usually goes for me:
Me: Are you sure? That seems really really hard! (or: I don't want to!) Deschut: You will do it for me. Me: *squeaks* Okay. I will.
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