Sam’s AMA (formerly samishere)

[mikel5]

is Matt your first and only slave?

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by mikel5

is Matt your first and only slave?

He is my only slave (prefer sub to slave), and my 1st long term serious one. (which reminds me, approaching our 1 year anniversary!) Had 2 or 3 short term ones before.

[mikel5]

ever get cum tributes?

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by mikel5

ever get cum tributes?

No, as I don't send pictures. (Not something that interests me anyway)

[lotusdriver81]

Not posted in a while.

How are you?

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by lotusdriver81

Not posted in a while.

How are you?

I've been a bit down for the last few weeks with an anxiety disorder I have, but Matt and Lucy have been really good helping me through it. I'm doing better now, still have bad days, but not so many.

[Sain]

Following up on this:

Originally Posted by Samishere

2) I think it is quite bad, as kids are exposed to it from an early age, it can give an unrealistic expectation of what sex should be, what you should look like. As a general rule seems to objectify women, can show extreme behaviour including violence etc. etc.

I agree with you. Porn trains the brain to associate pleasure with the unrealistic fantasy shown on the screen.

How much porn usage do you think is "too much" for a guy?
What can society do to keep porn away from kids?

I feel like I rely on porn too much to complete some of the tasks you've given me. I find it difficult to get and stay hard without porn if my brain is distracted by pain, uncomfortable positions, etc. Your thoughts on this?

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by Sain

Following up on this:

I agree with you. Porn trains the brain to associate pleasure with the unrealistic fantasy shown on the screen.

How much porn usage do you think is "too much" for a guy?
What can society do to keep porn away from kids?

I feel like I rely on porn too much to complete some of the tasks you've given me. I find it difficult to get and stay hard without porn if my brain is distracted by pain, uncomfortable positions, etc. Your thoughts on this?

oh tough questions!

I don't know how you would decide how much is too much for a guy, could depend on the guy. Personally I'd go for very little, as I don't think it's good for anyone really.

But how to keep porn from kids nowadays is almost impossible, even if parents install blocking software or programs on phones, tablets and computers, it's probably not going to stop it. I guess the best thing would be just to educate people to the issues and why it's not good especially for young children, so it becomes socially unacceptable somehow.

As for your last question, making me feel a bit guilty now lol Never really thought about that, that tasks I give could lead to guys watching more porn. The unintended consequence of a task.

[Lovestorun]

Whats the most embarrassing thing you have done on a dare or for losing a bet?
Would you ever use public nudity as a task or punishment for a slave?
Ever played a strip game? If so which one and who won?

[lotusdriver81]

Originally Posted by Samishere

I've been a bit down for the last few weeks with an anxiety disorder I have, but Matt and Lucy have been really good helping me through it. I'm doing better now, still have bad days, but not so many.

I am sorry to hear that. Is there anything in particular you find that sets it off?

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by lotusdriver81

I am sorry to hear that. Is there anything in particular you find that sets it off?

I wish I knew, sometimes there seems to be no reason! I don't think stress helps and certain social situations seem to set it off, like meeting or talking to someone for the first time, or when a lot of people are talking at the same time (like a large gathering or meal) or being in a crowded area.

[lotusdriver81]

Originally Posted by Samishere

I wish I knew, sometimes there seems to be no reason! I don't think stress helps and certain social situations seem to set it off, like meeting or talking to someone for the first time, or when a lot of people are talking at the same time (like a large gathering or meal) or being in a crowded area.

Yeah I understand. I get that too. Large noisy groups for me.
Not found a solution myself.

Are you ok now though?

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by lotusdriver81

Yeah I understand. I get that too. Large noisy groups for me.
Not found a solution myself.

Are you ok now though?

Right now, I'm doing alright thanks, feel a bit more in control.

[lotusdriver81]

Originally Posted by Samishere

Right now, I'm doing alright thanks, feel a bit more in control.

Good to hear. It's a difficult feeling to explain.

Any plans for today?

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by Lovestorun

Whats the most embarrassing thing you have done on a dare or for losing a bet?
Would you ever use public nudity as a task or punishment for a slave?
Ever played a strip game? If so which one and who won?

1) erm, I think the 1st dare in this blog was one of the most embarrassing (at least in my head lol) -: http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=79125
Have done more embarrassing in private just for Lucy, such as acting like a dog and eating with no hands. (I know these are probably a bit tame in comparison with some!) But perhaps the most embarrassing was a dare I was given to be naked from the waist down with a collar on crawl into my back yard and pee on my hands and knees once a day for 2 weeks, really hope none of my neighbours ever saw!!!

2) I have had Matt go naked for a walk around the streets by my house while he was blindfolded, but it was like 2am in a very quiet area. Don't think I'd ever make him go naked in full public with people around.

3) I've played spin the bottle and strip poker, but only with girl friends mainly, I lost once. Did on one occasion have a couple of guys playing, but I did okay then and did not lose many clothes thankfully!