For the slaves and subs out there - Page 2

Kitty · 01-15-2008, 01:22 AM

nice thread i had read it and think it will be best if i follow that

Fiendish · 01-15-2008, 07:21 AM

It feels good knowing we've helped at least two people with this thread

Isabell · 01-15-2008, 01:12 PM

Traveler & I usually ask to called by just our names until we have have progressed to knowing if it will work or not. This way there are no strange feelings about meeting again. This also helps to put the other person a little more at ease until everyone knows more.

We always tell those who decide this is not for them that they can contact us to stay in touch or ask questions. Sometimes it helps to have someone else you can ask questions to about a subject or what some one has said/wrote to you. You may not end up with a Master/Mistress but a friend who will listen to you and not judge you for being in the lifestyle.

Fiendish · 01-15-2008, 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Isabell

Traveler & I usually ask to called by just our names until we have have progressed to knowing if it will work or not. This way there are no strange feelings about meeting again. This also helps to put the other person a little more at ease until everyone knows more.

We always tell those who decide this is not for them that they can contact us to stay in touch or ask questions. Sometimes it helps to have someone else you can ask questions to about a subject or what some one has said/wrote to you. You may not end up with a Master/Mistress but a friend who will listen to you and not judge you for being in the lifestyle.

Both are very good points

ted · 03-02-2008, 09:39 AM

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Looking4somename · 03-02-2008, 10:26 AM

It's an excellent guide to new slaves that feel submissive but don't really know what to do with it.
I hope people will read it, since I've ran across too many slave-wannabe-s that had many of the above mentioned problems.

Merlin · 03-02-2008, 07:05 PM

Have to agree with Looking4somename. Very useful thread.
And Ted even if you think that it is so boring for you because you already know everything that is standing here, how about ignoring it then and let the people read it that are interested and may get some useful information from it.

-rep from me

justuseme2008 · 03-03-2008, 04:44 AM

Top class post!!

doggey girl · 03-04-2008, 05:13 PM

that is great advice

kinkyslave · 03-11-2008, 09:04 PM

Thanks for posting this thread! It was interesting and informative. Plus, you have a great sense of humor.

sam

Fiendish · 03-11-2008, 09:10 PM

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Originally Posted by kinkyslave

Thanks for posting this thread! It was interesting and informative. Plus, you have a great sense of humor.

sam

I try, ya know? It's not easy, but I do what I can.

And thanks to everyone else who's made constructive posts here.

music17 · 03-14-2008, 03:26 PM

That was really good advice, thank you. As well I liked how you mentioned about when we should share pictures... right now Im trying to kind of figure that out, I put up a post looking for a master and I keep on getting replys asking for pictures and I just really dont feel comfortable with doing that. But your post was kind of a relief to know that its okay to not send pictures right away.

SubMissChievous · 03-14-2008, 03:34 PM

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Originally Posted by music17

That was really good advice, thank you. As well I liked how you mentioned about when we should share pictures... right now Im trying to kind of figure that out, I put up a post looking for a master and I keep on getting replys asking for pictures and I just really dont feel comfortable with doing that. But your post was kind of a relief to know that its okay to not send pictures right away.

Not only it's okay but it's my personal opinion that if that's the 1st thing a "master" is asking of you then maybe he's not all that serious... When I 1st came in to this site I was literally "showered" which such messages (like most females here) It's alright to take your time for pics as well as in your search to find the right person.

Fiendish · 03-14-2008, 03:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by music17

That was really good advice, thank you. As well I liked how you mentioned about when we should share pictures... right now Im trying to kind of figure that out, I put up a post looking for a master and I keep on getting replys asking for pictures and I just really dont feel comfortable with doing that. But your post was kind of a relief to know that its okay to not send pictures right away.

yeah, I know what you mean. Don't let a few idiots ruin it for you.

golden lily · 06-18-2008, 11:25 PM

Something else as well - try talking to any previous or current slaves of the Master... Ask the potential Master for contact info from previous/current slaves (if they are members of the site - not personal contact). If the Master refuses to give the names of slaves, it may be a good warning signal that perhaps He/She has something to hide. And above all, make an informed decision.

01-15-2008, 07:21 AM	#17
Fiendish getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: The 9th Level of Hell Posts: 339 Blog Entries: 12	It feels good knowing we've helped at least two people with this thread __________________ I have no signature!

01-15-2008, 01:12 PM	#18
Isabell Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: on the road Posts: 86 Blog Entries: 4	Traveler & I usually ask to called by just our names until we have have progressed to knowing if it will work or not. This way there are no strange feelings about meeting again. This also helps to put the other person a little more at ease until everyone knows more. We always tell those who decide this is not for them that they can contact us to stay in touch or ask questions. Sometimes it helps to have someone else you can ask questions to about a subject or what some one has said/wrote to you. You may not end up with a Master/Mistress but a friend who will listen to you and not judge you for being in the lifestyle. __________________ What makes me squirm? Wouldn't you like to know.

03-02-2008, 10:26 AM	#21
Looking4somename getDare Sweetheart Join Date: May 2007 Location: Right behind you. Posts: 275 Blog Entries: 3	It's an excellent guide to new slaves that feel submissive but don't really know what to do with it. I hope people will read it, since I've ran across too many slave-wannabe-s that had many of the above mentioned problems. __________________ Some of them want to use you... "You know, these clothes do not fancy you at all. It should be a dress or nothing... I happen to have no dress in my cabin." (Captain Jack Sparrow) ...Some of the want to get used by you

03-02-2008, 07:05 PM	#22
Merlin Misschievous's Authority Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Germany Posts: 1,552	Have to agree with Looking4somename. Very useful thread. And Ted even if you think that it is so boring for you because you already know everything that is standing here, how about ignoring it then and let the people read it that are interested and may get some useful information from it. -rep from me __________________ Looking for female sub or couple (updated Version) Merlin's Magic Tower of Decision

03-03-2008, 04:44 AM	#23
justuseme2008 Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Ask and you will find out Posts: 18	Top class post!! __________________ 24,m ireland, cam slave, looking for a serious and experienced mistress / master. Check out my posts or send me a message.

01-15-2008, 01:22 AM	#16
Kitty getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: singapore Posts: 282	nice thread i had read it and think it will be best if i follow that

03-02-2008, 09:39 AM	#20
ted Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: London Posts: 20	zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz huh wats happening oh zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz zzzzzzzzz

03-04-2008, 05:13 PM	#24
doggey girl Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: missouri Posts: 11	that is great advice __________________ want a slave pm me and if u want to give me dares im up to it limits:no pee poo having to do with family no public and no perment

03-11-2008, 09:04 PM	#25
kinkyslave Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 5	Thanks for posting this thread! It was interesting and informative. Plus, you have a great sense of humor. sam

03-14-2008, 03:26 PM	#27
music17 Account Banned Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 3	That was really good advice, thank you. As well I liked how you mentioned about when we should share pictures... right now Im trying to kind of figure that out, I put up a post looking for a master and I keep on getting replys asking for pictures and I just really dont feel comfortable with doing that. But your post was kind of a relief to know that its okay to not send pictures right away.

06-18-2008, 11:25 PM	#30
golden lily Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: western canada Posts: 9	Something else as well - try talking to any previous or current slaves of the Master... Ask the potential Master for contact info from previous/current slaves (if they are members of the site - not personal contact). If the Master refuses to give the names of slaves, it may be a good warning signal that perhaps He/She has something to hide. And above all, make an informed decision.