Sam’s AMA (formerly samishere)

[lotusdriver81]

Whats 1 kink thing you'd like to try this year?

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by lotusdriver81

Whats 1 kink thing you'd like to try this year?

oh one thing I have been thinking of trying is wax play, just nervous of setting house on fire lol

[lotusdriver81]

Originally Posted by Samishere

oh one thing I have been thinking of trying is wax play, just nervous of setting house on fire lol

Oh yes, must be careful with candles.

What turns you on the most?

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by lotusdriver81

Oh yes, must be careful with candles.

What turns you on the most?

ohhhh I think Matt giving me oral while I tease his cock

[lotusdriver81]

What turns you on the least?

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by lotusdriver81

What turns you on the least?

out of anything? kink related, I think maybe scat or little play/diapers. Just not my thing.

[lotusdriver81]

Whats your most favourite article of clothing?

What article of clothing turns you on the most?

What article of clothing makes you look the sexiest?

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by lotusdriver81

Whats your most favourite article of clothing?

What article of clothing turns you on the most?

What article of clothing makes you look the sexiest?

1) Oh I think a jumper Matt bought me, I mean it's too big for me lol, but it's just great for lounging around in and makes me feel cosy

2) On me? or in general? Hard to think really, depends on my mood and the setting. Don't think a specific item turns me on exactly. I guess maybe nice Lingerie

3) I really don't know. I have a black dress that I think I look alright in if I have to pick.

[lotusdriver81]

How is work going?

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by lotusdriver81

How is work going?

Same old, mostly okay, just one guy in management is being quite annoying! Giving me lot's of work he should do, and then taking credit for it!! But there is a chance he may me moved to another department, so hoping that does happen!

[MarvHarvey]

Do you see yourself moving to management in the future?

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by MarvHarvey

Do you see yourself moving to management in the future?

I'm really not sure, in some ways I could see myself moving into management, as I think I have the ability. But then I'm not sure I want the extra stress and pressure. Also I would miss some of the "hands-on" work that I do now.

But anyway, with my anxiety disorder I'm not sure I would be able to cope with the application process.

[lotusdriver81]

Do you have any plans this weekend?

[MarvHarvey]

Originally Posted by Samishere

But anyway, with my anxiety disorder I'm not sure I would be able to cope with the application process.

Not really a question:
You display impressive calm and thoughtfulness here, in all situations, and it is hard to imagine you being that anxious.
Maybe if you like your current job you would not be so concerned about whether or not your application was successful - and thus not really anxious about it? That has often worked for me when applying for new jobs: the more I need the change the worse I do; whereas if I don't really need the new job I do very well.

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by lotusdriver81

Do you have any plans this weekend?

Not a lot, just to go swimming, try and sort out my spare room (as I've let it get a bit chaotic lol) maybe watch a film and relax a bit.

Originally Posted by MarvHarvey

Not really a question:
You display impressive calm and thoughtfulness here, in all situations, and it is hard to imagine you being that anxious.
Maybe if you like your current job you would not be so concerned about whether or not your application was successful - and thus not really anxious about it? That has often worked for me when applying for new jobs: the more I need the change the worse I do; whereas if I don't really need the new job I do very well.

It's a lot easier to do that online than in person haha

Yeah, it would be easier than if I really needed it. But I would still worry that I'd get too stressed out, or that I'd have a panic attack. But I do know some of the people in recruiting, so it is possible I may not have to go through the full normal process and some help may be given.