Help with Spanking

Ashely1233 · 12-05-2015, 09:45 AM

Ive always wanted to love spanking but it seems difficult because if you are doing it to yourself its very easy for you to make it not hurt since its difficult to hurt yourself. Also using certain implements in certain areas are very loud so I need help.

What are some good implements to use as a girl and where should I use them. Also how do I make spanking as a punishment more "enjoyable" as in more effective and useful as a punishment. Thanks

Aron · 12-06-2015, 01:45 AM

Well some fun items I've had slaves use in the past were hairbrush, wooden spoon, belt, and good old fashion open palm

Really the easiest way to start is to have someone either in person or over the phone/Skype and hear the sound of the spank. If it's not loud enough it's typically not hard enough. Also if you get your ass cheeks wet or the area you're going to spank, it's also easier to hit softer and still feel the sting. My personal favorite method is in person single tail whips 😈

Purplek · 12-06-2015, 04:11 PM

You could use rubber bands. Make them around your feet and let them hit your sol of the foot. Thats a really nice type of pain.

12-05-2015, 09:45 AM	#1
Ashely1233 Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2015 Posts: 195	Help with Spanking Ive always wanted to love spanking but it seems difficult because if you are doing it to yourself its very easy for you to make it not hurt since its difficult to hurt yourself. Also using certain implements in certain areas are very loud so I need help. What are some good implements to use as a girl and where should I use them. Also how do I make spanking as a punishment more "enjoyable" as in more effective and useful as a punishment. Thanks __________________ Loves: orgasm control, edging, clit play, guided masturbation, DDLG, praise, sending pics (on my terms), being desperately horny, small specific tasks at random times to feel sub Likes: bladder control, obedience, hidden public, verbal humiliation Dislikes/Situational : clit/nipple pain, spanking, positions, denial, ruins, teasing, gagging, insertions Limits: large insertions, anal, face pics, messy, consuming bodily things, scat, blackmail, body writing, risky, public

12-06-2015, 01:45 AM	#2
Aron Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2014 Posts: 104	Well some fun items I've had slaves use in the past were hairbrush, wooden spoon, belt, and good old fashion open palm Really the easiest way to start is to have someone either in person or over the phone/Skype and hear the sound of the spank. If it's not loud enough it's typically not hard enough. Also if you get your ass cheeks wet or the area you're going to spank, it's also easier to hit softer and still feel the sting. My personal favorite method is in person single tail whips 😈 __________________ No longer using getdare

12-06-2015, 04:11 PM	#3
Purplek Member Join Date: May 2015 Location: Germany Posts: 69	You could use rubber bands. Make them around your feet and let them hit your sol of the foot. Thats a really nice type of pain. __________________ 18/male/germany Likes: nipple play, anal play , beeing instructed to do something, pictures, forced feminization, clothing controle, hidden public, tasks over the day, ... Limits:blood, scat/piss friends/family My ad:http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=225839 kik: _thedownfallofusall_