Help with finding someone.

nfwright · 05-17-2015, 01:07 AM

So, I've been looking across the web for about a year now, and I can't find a place with doms willing to teach submission through practice. A large problem I find is that although I try my damnedest to learn, even just saying that you've never had a serious dom before will make people leave. If that's not the case, what else happens is that someone will talk to me for a long while (weeks, on a specific occassion) before we start actually cyber-subbing. First picture, and they're gone. Never to be seen again. I just wish there was a way to find people easily. I've done the Chloe's list, I've done the application that's stickied. Nothing seems to help.

drwarschauu · 05-17-2015, 05:40 AM

Things that come easy in life usually aren't worth it. Stick with it, you'll find someone for you. I applaud your ambition to learn!
I had a tough time finding someone too, at first. But I'm happy to say that I've found such an amazing subby! If you keep posting nice things, make a name for yourself, and make friends here, you'll be noticed.
Experience isn't always needed. When your good character shines through, there will be people who don't mind a lack of experience. It might even be charming to some!

In short: don't despair, hang on! Good things come to those who wait!

MrSpanker · 05-22-2015, 07:12 PM

If you are in the twin cities area look up minky and go to their munches. It's for ages 18-32 or 35 or so.

05-17-2015, 01:07 AM	#1
nfwright Junior Member Join Date: May 2014 Location: Land of the Cold Air Posts: 9	Help with finding someone. So, I've been looking across the web for about a year now, and I can't find a place with doms willing to teach submission through practice. A large problem I find is that although I try my damnedest to learn, even just saying that you've never had a serious dom before will make people leave. If that's not the case, what else happens is that someone will talk to me for a long while (weeks, on a specific occassion) before we start actually cyber-subbing. First picture, and they're gone. Never to be seen again. I just wish there was a way to find people easily. I've done the Chloe's list, I've done the application that's stickied. Nothing seems to help. __________________ Limits: Permenant, Social Suicide, and Extreme Pain Likes: Whatever you like Dislikes: Extreme Pain M/18/Minnesota

05-17-2015, 05:40 AM	#2
drwarschauu getDare Devil Join Date: Apr 2013 Posts: 1,442 Blog Entries: 104	Things that come easy in life usually aren't worth it. Stick with it, you'll find someone for you. I applaud your ambition to learn! I had a tough time finding someone too, at first. But I'm happy to say that I've found such an amazing subby! If you keep posting nice things, make a name for yourself, and make friends here, you'll be noticed. Experience isn't always needed. When your good character shines through, there will be people who don't mind a lack of experience. It might even be charming to some! In short: don't despair, hang on! Good things come to those who wait! __________________ Male/39/switch PM dares

05-22-2015, 07:12 PM	#3
MrSpanker getDare Devil Join Date: Aug 2014 Location: Minnesota Posts: 1,308	If you are in the twin cities area look up minky and go to their munches. It's for ages 18-32 or 35 or so. __________________ Master/Disciplinarian for young ladies - If you like or need a red ass often, msg me.