Female slaves

Jt2017 · 09-06-2017, 04:25 PM

Ok I'm just putting this out here to see what is said. I know there is a few female slaves that are true to there words. But who would agree that alot of female slaves who post on here with there kik and when u reply never look at it and don't reply. This place can be good but I think there are to many fakes. Another thing is that when a female mistress is on she wants to see everything and face. In my opinion a master can't even see a boob with no face. Think there is different standards. I would like to hear everybody opinion on what I said. I know I will get good and bad but would like to hear. Cheers.

okia_ · 09-07-2017, 01:58 PM

You are right. I mostly check the female master looking for slave topics, but so many are fake. Its really off putting. The demands are extremely high and the reward is so low. There are some ads I would trust, but you can easily pick them out from the rest. They contain a lot of information, read well, don't ask extreme things etc. So many other ads from "girls" who just registered etc, it's unbelievable. Sometimes I even think they're all the same person lol. I don't know how it is the other way around, male masters for female slaves. I'd assume it's a bit better there because of the demand (lots of male slaves, fewer female slaves).

IceMaiden · 09-07-2017, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Jt2017

Ok I'm just putting this out here to see what is said. I know there is a few female slaves that are true to there words. But who would agree that alot of female slaves who post on here with there kik and when u reply never look at it and don't reply. This place can be good but I think there are to many fakes. Another thing is that when a female mistress is on she wants to see everything and face. In my opinion a master can't even see a boob with no face. Think there is different standards. I would like to hear everybody opinion on what I said. I know I will get good and bad but would like to hear. Cheers.

I think you have a point to an extent.

Yes, a lot of ads or kik from those claiming to be female are fake...but the same can be said of males. Maybe not as many, but quite a lot too. As for the ads for female doms...I personally have never requested any sort of picture but only written reports, excluding my most recent ad due to the blackmail dynamic I am looking for this time. But in the past with different dynamics/different subs I never demanded, asked or expected it. I know other genuine females too who don't expect pictures, both at first or ever, along with being genuine subs/slaves, myself included. So there are some of us out there, you just have to find us.

I agree the standards can be different and although they shouldn't be, it's always going to happen when you have a 70-30% ratio (if not an even bigger difference) of the genders. Females can be picky because of it.

I'll also point out that while I have found subs (both male and female) through ads, I have never found a dom personally through ads. I have always found a dom by forming friendships on the forums and/or chatroom, and when I see ads where it ends with me kik me I just instantly think they're not serious or want a quick jerk off.

cooperjess · 09-07-2017, 05:26 PM

I think part of this might also stem from how many messages you can get after posting an ad that blows up. They might not be fake it, it could just be that they can't reply to every one, they're feeling overwhelmed of
no longer in the mood, or that they've already found what they're looking for.

Jt2017 · 09-08-2017, 12:55 AM

I agree with what u are all saying. I was just putting it out there to see what people thought.

Masterwants · 09-08-2017, 01:36 AM

I was discussing this with a smart and wise person the other day and we agreed that there are several types of both subs/slaves and doms that hang out here.

You've got the fakes, the people that just seek a quick thrill and something to orgasm over, the newbies that don't know what they want and quickly get overwhelmed, the attention seekers, the curious that quickly decide this is too much, the ones that are trying to be someone or something they are not etc. etc. Then you have a small proportion of people that are more consistent and here for the long haul.

I think things might be a little easier if people were more open about their reasons for being here and what they wanted or expected, which most people don't tend to do. Some people are also really bad at communication, which complicates things even further.

I agree that there are some subs who want tasks, dares etc. but then can't be bothered to report back for some reason, which is a little disrespectful. Obviously this will be in some cases because what they are being asked to do either breaks their limits or is just plain stupid or dangerous, or they are simply overwhelmed with the number of requests. What is unfortunate is that they often don't bother to explain for reason for the lack of report or feedback.

I have a thread running for females where they can ask me to make decisions for them and only a small minority take the time to give me any feedback, which is a real shame when you consider that they come to me for help and I put effort into my replies.

I guess the problem is sometimes both subs and doms forget that there are actual real people with emotions behind the username...

Joker50 · 09-09-2017, 04:27 PM

If I may; I have had some of my friends on here a long time but others have come and gone. it is the nature of the site that people are not necessarily going to stay forever, also we are seeing a trickle of older members coming back on line. They are still asking for dares but now they have partners or kids or whatever.. or they haven't found anyone away from here who understands their needs.
The thing is, it is a site primarily designed for people to play truth or dare and it was not intended to be a dating site.

As it is has grown so it has become a place for more sexual / fetish / bdsm type games and contacts and people have paired up, that is humans for you, we have developed the site into it being more than was perhaps visualised in the first place.

You have to also remember that at one time the age for joining was as young as 13 and it was only the fuss of different countries and their laws being changed that finally pushed it up to 18.

The dares haven't changed that much either, I remember my previous profile getting into trouble for telling a girl of 13 or 14 that she shouldn't be asking for something as it would do her harm and then she reported me and i got the hassle. i think that was pictures too but I don't remember now.

And that was why kink talk was brought along, an 18 site you can post nudes etc too. Unfortunately it is almost a male gay site these days and a lot of women stay away because of that.

I understand why there are no pics rule on get dare and it sucks but you just have to go along with it.

as for the fakes....I'll be back

09-06-2017, 04:25 PM	#1
Jt2017 Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2017 Location: Uk Posts: 22	Female slaves Ok I'm just putting this out here to see what is said. I know there is a few female slaves that are true to there words. But who would agree that alot of female slaves who post on here with there kik and when u reply never look at it and don't reply. This place can be good but I think there are to many fakes. Another thing is that when a female mistress is on she wants to see everything and face. In my opinion a master can't even see a boob with no face. Think there is different standards. I would like to hear everybody opinion on what I said. I know I will get good and bad but would like to hear. Cheers. Last edited by Jt2017; 09-06-2017 at 04:28 PM.

09-07-2017, 01:58 PM	#2
okia_ Member Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 32	You are right. I mostly check the female master looking for slave topics, but so many are fake. Its really off putting. The demands are extremely high and the reward is so low. There are some ads I would trust, but you can easily pick them out from the rest. They contain a lot of information, read well, don't ask extreme things etc. So many other ads from "girls" who just registered etc, it's unbelievable. Sometimes I even think they're all the same person lol. I don't know how it is the other way around, male masters for female slaves. I'd assume it's a bit better there because of the demand (lots of male slaves, fewer female slaves). __________________ Likes: orgasm/masturbation control, mild pain, mild public, humiliation, long sessions/tasks Limits: permanent damage, children, poo/pee, public exposure

09-07-2017, 05:26 PM	#4
cooperjess Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: UK Posts: 202 Blog Entries: 2	I think part of this might also stem from how many messages you can get after posting an ad that blows up. They might not be fake it, it could just be that they can't reply to every one, they're feeling overwhelmed of no longer in the mood, or that they've already found what they're looking for. __________________ Jess \| 22 \| Bi AMAB. back after a long hiatus, active occasionally(?) - msg me, if you like

09-09-2017, 04:27 PM	#7
Joker50 Distinguished Member Join Date: Jul 2016 Location: London Posts: 650 Blog Entries: 6	If I may; I have had some of my friends on here a long time but others have come and gone. it is the nature of the site that people are not necessarily going to stay forever, also we are seeing a trickle of older members coming back on line. They are still asking for dares but now they have partners or kids or whatever.. or they haven't found anyone away from here who understands their needs. The thing is, it is a site primarily designed for people to play truth or dare and it was not intended to be a dating site. As it is has grown so it has become a place for more sexual / fetish / bdsm type games and contacts and people have paired up, that is humans for you, we have developed the site into it being more than was perhaps visualised in the first place. You have to also remember that at one time the age for joining was as young as 13 and it was only the fuss of different countries and their laws being changed that finally pushed it up to 18. The dares haven't changed that much either, I remember my previous profile getting into trouble for telling a girl of 13 or 14 that she shouldn't be asking for something as it would do her harm and then she reported me and i got the hassle. i think that was pictures too but I don't remember now. And that was why kink talk was brought along, an 18 site you can post nudes etc too. Unfortunately it is almost a male gay site these days and a lot of women stay away because of that. I understand why there are no pics rule on get dare and it sucks but you just have to go along with it. as for the fakes....I'll be back __________________ You don't have to be mad, but sometimes it helps. Looking for an on line partner for interesting games and disgusting conversations. Limits: Cbt, Anal. Pain. Poo. Family. Pics for the right person.

09-08-2017, 12:55 AM	#5
Jt2017 Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2017 Location: Uk Posts: 22	I agree with what u are all saying. I was just putting it out there to see what people thought.

09-08-2017, 01:36 AM	#6
Masterwants Distinguished Member Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: UK Posts: 627 Blog Entries: 11	I was discussing this with a smart and wise person the other day and we agreed that there are several types of both subs/slaves and doms that hang out here. You've got the fakes, the people that just seek a quick thrill and something to orgasm over, the newbies that don't know what they want and quickly get overwhelmed, the attention seekers, the curious that quickly decide this is too much, the ones that are trying to be someone or something they are not etc. etc. Then you have a small proportion of people that are more consistent and here for the long haul. I think things might be a little easier if people were more open about their reasons for being here and what they wanted or expected, which most people don't tend to do. Some people are also really bad at communication, which complicates things even further. I agree that there are some subs who want tasks, dares etc. but then can't be bothered to report back for some reason, which is a little disrespectful. Obviously this will be in some cases because what they are being asked to do either breaks their limits or is just plain stupid or dangerous, or they are simply overwhelmed with the number of requests. What is unfortunate is that they often don't bother to explain for reason for the lack of report or feedback. I have a thread running for females where they can ask me to make decisions for them and only a small minority take the time to give me any feedback, which is a real shame when you consider that they come to me for help and I put effort into my replies. I guess the problem is sometimes both subs and doms forget that there are actual real people with emotions behind the username...