|
01-09-2017, 05:03 PM | #1 |
getDare Cultist (Outer Circle)
|
What triggered your fetish(es)?
I know it can be hard to remember but when did you first realise you had a fetish for a particular thing?
I'm pretty certain where mine come from and if you'd like to know. Then comment below saying so. But back to the point, do you know where your fetishes originally started from?
__________________
Best Truth Giver 2016 & 2017 My Real Experiences http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=81891 Send me a pm if you want, I'm always up for chatting to people CHECK OUT MY NEW FICTIONAL STORY "Pushed to Fantasy (On Vacation)" LINK BELOW https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthre...00#post4465100 I've also got snapchat, kik, skype and messenger. If you want to add me just send me a pm and I'll give you my username(s) |
01-09-2017, 05:27 PM | #2 |
Starchy Sadist
|
Well, let's see...I have quite a few fetishes, but this springs to mind:
Most people would probably cringe from this story, and I'm not proud of it myself, but I learned that I was excited by watching a person experience pain (and knifeplay, drawing blood) as the result of an experience with my first boyfriend. We were both teenagers, but he was two years younger than me. He had some issues with depression and, upon my inquiring about his experience with self-injuring, he asked me if I wanted to watch him slit his wrists sometime. At first I was freaked out by the sight and couldn't watch the whole thing but listening to him sigh and groan and hiss while I looked away excited me. Later on, I asked him if I could watch him do it again, becoming entranced by the beads of blood and the puckering skin and the sharing of some strong emotions as he shared something with me that he felt was shameful, yet provided him with powerful release. Fast-forward to when I was seventeen. I was playing online with a guy much older than me, but didn't let him know how old I was (this was my first time actually playing with someone much older than me, and I grew a taste for older men, in part, through him). We met through Milovana as a result of some teases I'd put out, I shared with him that I actually liked more brutal stuff but was too insecure to actually broadcast that in a tease. He shared that he was interested in taking whatever I could dish out. We had exchanged some correspondence where I had him beat his abdomen with the handle of a crop until he was able to broke skin. He was pretty fit and up for the task, and sure enough, an hour or so later, I had a picture of his abs all bruised and bloody from the beating. I wouldn't say he triggered my sadism (my first bf and Kink.com probably had more to do with that bit), but I think that through him I was able to put a name to it.
__________________
No, I do not want to be your Mistress. No, I do not want to be your slave. So don't PM me about it! Likes, Limits, and Fantasies (click) A Domme with a Monkey. The Monkey, the Potato, and the Book of Truth (AMA) My PM Dares are Offline. I don't participate in unsolicited PM dares, so don't ask. "iSpuds used to be an onion before she realized that she wanted a simpler, layer free life. Gordon Ramsey himself agreed to perform the surgery, but when Nigella Lawson walked in during the middle of the procedure with a bottle of scotch, things went awry. Waking up as an iOS kernel trapped in a potato's body, iSpuds successfully sued the Food Channel for 13 quintillion Zimbabwe Shillings, and now lives in an exclusive, nano-sliver coated vegetable crisper." -Runesmith "On a scale of 1-10, what's your favorite color of the Alphabet?"
"Prismarine!" |
01-09-2017, 05:41 PM | #3 | |
getDare Cultist (Outer Circle)
|
Quote:
__________________
Best Truth Giver 2016 & 2017 My Real Experiences http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=81891 Send me a pm if you want, I'm always up for chatting to people CHECK OUT MY NEW FICTIONAL STORY "Pushed to Fantasy (On Vacation)" LINK BELOW https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthre...00#post4465100 I've also got snapchat, kik, skype and messenger. If you want to add me just send me a pm and I'll give you my username(s) |
|
01-09-2017, 06:14 PM | #4 |
Junior Member
Join Date: Jan 2017
Posts: 11
|
I think it just started as a sensory thing.
When I was as young as ten maybe even less, I put keys in underwear and sat in the pain. I put legos out and laid on them. I tied myself to chairs and things. I gave myself painful wedgies..probably more |
01-09-2017, 07:41 PM | #5 |
Junior Member
Join Date: Dec 2016
Posts: 2
|
What I remember is that every year my family would take a trip to the beach and as I was starting to like women I started to realize that I was paying much more attention to their feet and that's when I got my fetish but I don't remember when
|
01-09-2017, 07:56 PM | #6 |
Senior Member
|
For me, the love of blindfolds came from the mind trip they can give you. It takes you into a different head space. The fact that even when I am working by myself it takes some control away from me. It is both breathtaking and at times scary.
Another way to look at it I did a blindfolded dare the other day and I lost myself in it. I could of unbound myself easily but I lost track of reality.
__________________
Current Status: Exploring her Dark World, embracing the unknown PM Dares: My PM dares |
01-09-2017, 08:19 PM | #7 |
Senior Member
|
The love of kind of being taken against your will by someone evil definitely comes from how women are portrayed in the media. Being tied up while someone laughs at you, while still being admired for your beauty? That's a classic Abbie movie, princess movie, you name it. This was a theory of mine for a while, and my sister has some of the same little kinks that I do which just makes me think that it's true.
__________________
Female, 24, bi, sub, Im looking for embarrassing dares ...I love being made a fool of and humiliated likes: forced orgasms, anything that makes me blushy, pet play, HUMILIATION, wedgies, hypnosis dislikes/punishments: bladder control, pain limits: public, piss/poo drinking/eating, extreme pain PM Dares Here! Currently strictly denied by RedCamel, and I am not allowed to edge or orgasm. I am encouraged to rub rub rub as much as possible. |
01-09-2017, 11:04 PM | #8 |
Member
Join Date: Apr 2012
Posts: 55
|
I still get kind of embarrassed thinking about mine, but here goes. When I was about 10 or so, I was in a play at my school. All the younger kids had to be in it as background people, so I showed up to get changed into my costume. I was one of the last people to show up, so I walked into the bathroom and it was empty. I figured there's no reason to go in a stall, so I stripped down to my underwear in the middle of the bathroom. I looked at myself in the mirror and thought about what it'd be like to go outside in my underwear. I figured everyone would be in the auditorium, so I walked to the exit. It was just down the hall from the bathroom, not that far away. I was only wearing my socks and underwear, and I opened the door and walked outside. For the first time, I felt a thrill I will never forget. Right there, behind my school, I took off my underwear and threw them back inside the school. It felt amazing, until the door closed. I had to walk around the school in only my socks, but I manged make it back unseen (I think). Since, then I've always loved public stripping, and I never got that pair of underwear back.
|
01-09-2017, 11:10 PM | #9 | |
getDare Cultist (Outer Circle)
|
Quote:
__________________
Best Truth Giver 2016 & 2017 My Real Experiences http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=81891 Send me a pm if you want, I'm always up for chatting to people CHECK OUT MY NEW FICTIONAL STORY "Pushed to Fantasy (On Vacation)" LINK BELOW https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthre...00#post4465100 I've also got snapchat, kik, skype and messenger. If you want to add me just send me a pm and I'll give you my username(s) |
|
01-09-2017, 11:09 PM | #10 |
getDare Cultist (Outer Circle)
|
Yeah I understand that
__________________
Best Truth Giver 2016 & 2017 My Real Experiences http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=81891 Send me a pm if you want, I'm always up for chatting to people CHECK OUT MY NEW FICTIONAL STORY "Pushed to Fantasy (On Vacation)" LINK BELOW https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthre...00#post4465100 I've also got snapchat, kik, skype and messenger. If you want to add me just send me a pm and I'll give you my username(s) |
01-15-2017, 12:15 AM | #11 |
Junior Member
Join Date: Jan 2017
Posts: 28
|
I think this is a very pertinent question; fetishes don't just come out of nowhere, there are psychological reasons for every fetish.
My nudity/embarrassment fetish arose from a specific incident, which was being strip searched. I walked out of that room a different person when it was over. The story, with all the details, is here: http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=289169 |
01-15-2017, 04:43 AM | #12 | |
getDare Cultist (Outer Circle)
|
Quote:
__________________
Best Truth Giver 2016 & 2017 My Real Experiences http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=81891 Send me a pm if you want, I'm always up for chatting to people CHECK OUT MY NEW FICTIONAL STORY "Pushed to Fantasy (On Vacation)" LINK BELOW https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthre...00#post4465100 I've also got snapchat, kik, skype and messenger. If you want to add me just send me a pm and I'll give you my username(s) |
|
01-15-2017, 07:07 AM | #13 |
Junior Member
Join Date: Jan 2017
Posts: 28
|
Well, as I say in the last paragraph of the story, I've indulged my fetish a bit over the years.
|
01-15-2017, 07:23 AM | #14 |
getDare Cultist (Outer Circle)
|
It is one hell of an exciting story, if you don't mind me saying.
__________________
Best Truth Giver 2016 & 2017 My Real Experiences http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=81891 Send me a pm if you want, I'm always up for chatting to people CHECK OUT MY NEW FICTIONAL STORY "Pushed to Fantasy (On Vacation)" LINK BELOW https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthre...00#post4465100 I've also got snapchat, kik, skype and messenger. If you want to add me just send me a pm and I'll give you my username(s) |
The following user says Thank You to andrew_b for this post: |
01-15-2017, 06:30 PM | #15 |
Junior Member
Join Date: Jan 2017
Posts: 28
|
|
Advertisements |
|
|