Aftercare Lounge

Valentin · 07-22-2016, 11:02 AM

Hey,

So I know some of you, including me sometimes, play with lots of random people. The thing is, with random people, if something goes wrong and you start to feel bad and sad, the random person doesn't give a shit. And you're there with your broken feelings.

Which is why I thought about this. If you need someone to chat with because you don't feel well about what just happened or whatever and you don't have open minded friends to talk to (or even if you have), you can ask here and someone (hopefully) will PM you.

Only rule: No play here. If you contact someone who posted here, they need to talk, not to jerk off (well, maybe, but later).

I will try to keep an eye on this thread when I can. I often get subdrop and I'm doing this thread because I wish it existed when I was feeling bad.

Take care <3

wolf82 · 07-22-2016, 11:32 AM

Great idea for a thread!! Will certainly try to keep an eye on this thread myself.

Prince_of_Mercy · 07-24-2016, 04:50 AM

Great post, indeed! This is the subject which was missing and I glad you started it.

In any serious relationship, whether online or in real life , there are people who wear their heart on their sleeve and sadly, there are people who just don't give a...damn, and when relationship ends, someone is always hurt, dom or sub.

In other words, I'll gladly join "The Aftercare Clinic" and I'm willing to respond on any question, or if anyone feels bad, please feel free to contact me and I'll help as much as I can.

GetDare is a very fun place to be, so tread carefully and watch for other people too. We all have feelings after all.

And to all heart breakers out there - screw you!

Gisele · 07-24-2016, 04:59 AM

Really good idea for a thread love, I'll most likely be visiting and checking on this thread frequently! Thanks for making this

Jaro · 07-24-2016, 05:09 AM

Great idea indeed!

Valentin · 07-24-2016, 06:32 AM

I'm very glad you guys find this useful :-)

ita · 07-24-2016, 08:12 AM

I love it

Aftercare can be so difficult to provide while playing online with a random person, so this thread can definitely help a lot of people. Congratulations again for coming up with the idea

Prince_of_Mercy · 08-09-2016, 04:16 AM

I noticed some other posts and people talking about the apparent lack of aftercare from their Doms and how subs generally feel depressed, ashamed or with low self-esteem and self-depreciation.

In other words, guys and girls, don't be ashamed to disclose your feelings, this part of forum is just form you. We are here to help you, but if you feel ashamed or uncomfortable to talk about it publicly, you can always send a PM.

07-22-2016, 11:02 AM	#1
Valentin Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2015 Location: The lesser moon of Aldebaran III Posts: 158 Blog Entries: 8	Aftercare Lounge Hey, So I know some of you, including me sometimes, play with lots of random people. The thing is, with random people, if something goes wrong and you start to feel bad and sad, the random person doesn't give a shit. And you're there with your broken feelings. Which is why I thought about this. If you need someone to chat with because you don't feel well about what just happened or whatever and you don't have open minded friends to talk to (or even if you have), you can ask here and someone (hopefully) will PM you. Only rule: No play here. If you contact someone who posted here, they need to talk, not to jerk off (well, maybe, but later). I will try to keep an eye on this thread when I can. I often get subdrop and I'm doing this thread because I wish it existed when I was feeling bad. Take care <3 __________________ switch pansexual genderqueer 26 years old belgium i want to be gang raped read my operating manual here (kik, likes and dislikes and stuff) pm dares are here

07-22-2016, 11:32 AM	#2
wolf82 Prodigy Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: USA Posts: 4,471 Blog Entries: 2	Great idea for a thread!! Will certainly try to keep an eye on this thread myself. __________________ 27/M. A dom just here to have a good time. Sometimes I just browse, sometimes I interact.

07-24-2016, 04:59 AM	#4
Gisele Member Join Date: Jul 2016 Location: US Posts: 85 Blog Entries: 2	Really good idea for a thread love, I'll most likely be visiting and checking on this thread frequently! Thanks for making this __________________ 20/Female/Bi/SUB Likes: Extreme Anal, Insertions, Nipple/Breast Play, Breast Bondage, Hucow Dislikes: Edging, Chastity, Wedgies, Subs Limits: Illegal, Scat, Watersports,Blood, Family/Friends, Chastity, Social Suicide, Public, Blackmail

07-24-2016, 05:09 AM	#5
Jaro The toe sucking anal slut Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: Netherlands Posts: 7,504 Blog Entries: 299	Great idea indeed! __________________ Worm owned by Princess Butterfly ♦ Likes & Limits ♦ Toys Check out my truths and dares here

07-24-2016, 06:32 AM	#6
Valentin Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2015 Location: The lesser moon of Aldebaran III Posts: 158 Blog Entries: 8	I'm very glad you guys find this useful :-) __________________ switch pansexual genderqueer 26 years old belgium i want to be gang raped read my operating manual here (kik, likes and dislikes and stuff) pm dares are here

07-24-2016, 04:50 AM	#3
Prince_of_Mercy Member Join Date: Jun 2016 Posts: 35	Great post, indeed! This is the subject which was missing and I glad you started it. In any serious relationship, whether online or in real life , there are people who wear their heart on their sleeve and sadly, there are people who just don't give a...damn, and when relationship ends, someone is always hurt, dom or sub. In other words, I'll gladly join "The Aftercare Clinic" and I'm willing to respond on any question, or if anyone feels bad, please feel free to contact me and I'll help as much as I can. GetDare is a very fun place to be, so tread carefully and watch for other people too. We all have feelings after all. And to all heart breakers out there - screw you!

07-24-2016, 08:12 AM	#7
ita getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Mar 2016 Posts: 300 Blog Entries: 1	I love it Aftercare can be so difficult to provide while playing online with a random person, so this thread can definitely help a lot of people. Congratulations again for coming up with the idea __________________ M/31/switch Likes: messy, bondage, wedgie, humiliation, spanking Dislikes:edging, ice, bladder control, plugging, writing lines, diapers, orgasm control Limits: full public, scat, pics, long dares, CBT PM Dares BDSM Test kik: c5bf

08-09-2016, 04:16 AM	#8
Prince_of_Mercy Member Join Date: Jun 2016 Posts: 35	I noticed some other posts and people talking about the apparent lack of aftercare from their Doms and how subs generally feel depressed, ashamed or with low self-esteem and self-depreciation. In other words, guys and girls, don't be ashamed to disclose your feelings, this part of forum is just form you. We are here to help you, but if you feel ashamed or uncomfortable to talk about it publicly, you can always send a PM.