Ladies....replying to pms?

andrew_b · 08-15-2016, 10:16 PM

Okay is pretty known fact that there are more guys on here than girls.

What I'm wondering is, girls do you ever get fed up with amount of pms that you take a break for a bit or even stop replying altogether?

bleonav06 · 08-15-2016, 10:19 PM

i reply if the person puts effort into the pm or if I know them but if some random person pms me saying "give me a dare pls" then they usually get ignored

andrew_b · 08-15-2016, 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted by bleonav06

i reply if the person puts effort into the pm or if I know them but if some random person pms me saying "give me a dare pls" then they usually get ignored

That seems pretty fair alright

hornyyoungslut · 08-16-2016, 07:58 AM

Kind of going with bleanov06 but I do reply to certain PMs but not ones that I can see are spam, one worded/an incomplete sentence (i.e. "looking for sub contact me @ _____).

It does get pretty annoying, to say the least, because given that there are more guys than girls, I usually get bombarded with guys constantly asking for dares, or asking for a sub or mistress without them ever taking my profile & what I have posted into consideration.

If some guys on here put more effort into trying to talk to girls instead of sending short PMs that go against my limits or my wishes that are prominent to my profile, and not get mad when I reject, I would talk to a lot more of them, so I don't.

andrew_b · 08-16-2016, 09:07 AM

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Originally Posted by hornyyoungslut

Kind of going with bleanov06 but I do reply to certain PMs but not ones that I can see are spam, one worded/an incomplete sentence (i.e. "looking for sub contact me @ _____).

It does get pretty annoying, to say the least, because given that there are more guys than girls, I usually get bombarded with guys constantly asking for dares, or asking for a sub or mistress without them ever taking my profile & what I have posted into consideration.

If some guys on here put more effort into trying to talk to girls instead of sending short PMs that go against my limits or my wishes that are prominent to my profile, and not get mad when I reject, I would talk to a lot more of them, so I don't.

Yes and that is very understandable.

SluttyPig · 08-17-2016, 09:38 AM

Sometimes I log off and forget to answer it

andrew_b · 08-17-2016, 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by SluttyPig

Sometimes I log off and forget to answer it

That's okay, I'm sure that happens a lot with people

LitDarkness · 08-17-2016, 05:44 PM

Sometimes it likes to blog about its pms.

But since it was sick recently, the pms were just annoying. So it ignored the stupid ones.

And by the way guys, don't send a sub a pm asking them to punish you. That doesn't even make sense.

Or asking if you can orgasm or for a dare. Not okay. Pm someone you know for that.

If you post a lot, you will be bombarded with pms. It's the circle of female gD.

bleonav06 · 08-17-2016, 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by TheKidWithSkills

And by the way guys, don't send a sub a pm asking them to punish you. That doesn't even make sense.

Or asking if you can orgasm or for a dare. Not okay. Pm someone you know for that.

If you post a lot, you will be bombarded with pms. It's the circle of female gD.

Preach lol couldnt agree more

LitDarkness · 08-17-2016, 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by bleonav06

Preach lol couldnt agree more

Yeah, oh and one more.

This is the most disrespectful thing ever. Don't ever ignore someone then back off when they say they have a Sir/Master/Mistress whatever. Especially with "you're (insert title here) wouldn't get mad" or something like that.

So depends on its mood if it's obvious the guy had no brain cells left when typing the message.

Angelica_Kee_Zarcon · 08-17-2016, 06:25 PM

It depends how I feel. If the guy put some actual effort in his PM, I'll usually reply. Some I just ignore.

andrew_b · 09-15-2016, 09:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Angelica_Kee_Zarcon

It depends how I feel. If the guy put some actual effort in his PM, I'll usually reply. Some I just ignore.

This is something I talk about a lot on here, not always but you do sometimes get out what you put in with this site.

Sorry for the late reply.

IceMaiden · 09-15-2016, 10:42 AM

If they are polite/interesting/respectful I will reply. (Though I am terrible at remembering to answer PMs so it can take me a while.)

If it's the type of messages stating be my sub, be my mistress, give me a dare, got kik, blahblah....they either get ignored or if I feel particularly sarcastic that day they will get a mouthful about basic etiquette and respect.

Like the recent one demanding it's my duty to submit to any male that tells me to due to being a submissive AND female, that I should accept male superiority.

Yeah....no.

andrew_b · 09-15-2016, 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by IceMaiden

If they are polite/interesting/respectful I will reply. (Though I am terrible at remembering to answer PMs so it can take me a while.)

If it's the type of messages stating be my sub, be my mistress, give me a dare, got kik, blahblah....they either get ignored or if I feel particularly sarcastic that day they will get a mouthful about basic etiquette and respect.

Like the recent one demanding it's my duty to submit to any male that tells me to due to being a submissive AND female, that I should accept male superiority.

Yeah....no.

That is all very reasonable to not respond to

08-15-2016, 10:16 PM	#1
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08-15-2016, 10:19 PM	#2
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08-16-2016, 07:58 AM	#4
hornyyoungslut getDare Devil Join Date: Oct 2015 Location: where you aren't Posts: 1,090 Blog Entries: 6	Kind of going with bleanov06 but I do reply to certain PMs but not ones that I can see are spam, one worded/an incomplete sentence (i.e. "looking for sub contact me @ _____). It does get pretty annoying, to say the least, because given that there are more guys than girls, I usually get bombarded with guys constantly asking for dares, or asking for a sub or mistress without them ever taking my profile & what I have posted into consideration. If some guys on here put more effort into trying to talk to girls instead of sending short PMs that go against my limits or my wishes that are prominent to my profile, and not get mad when I reject, I would talk to a lot more of them, so I don't. __________________ call me Car. 23.f \| straight \| owned (dis)likes & limits \| pm dares denied by daddy.

08-17-2016, 09:38 AM	#6
SluttyPig getDare Sweetheart Join Date: May 2016 Location: America Posts: 288 Blog Entries: 7	Sometimes I log off and forget to answer it __________________ Likes: humiliation, pain, orgasm denial, icy hot (mmm..) and degradation. Limits: family, scat, needles, permanent, restrictive bondage, pictures, illegal, or unsafe. My AMA with my Wolf82!

08-17-2016, 05:44 PM	#8
LitDarkness Truth or Dare Zealot Join Date: May 2014 Location: Earth Posts: 6,116 Blog Entries: 289	Sometimes it likes to blog about its pms. But since it was sick recently, the pms were just annoying. So it ignored the stupid ones. And by the way guys, don't send a sub a pm asking them to punish you. That doesn't even make sense. Or asking if you can orgasm or for a dare. Not okay. Pm someone you know for that. If you post a lot, you will be bombarded with pms. It's the circle of female gD. __________________ M/Novisexual/24/sub Do have female parts. 30/1,603 edges+ 2 more days of denial after edges Make My Denial Harder Denial Diary 6,000th post tasks and reports Likes + Limits Stuff I Can Use for Dares BDSM Test Results PM DARES Stories & Poems Spelling or Grammar Mistake: Let Me Know Help Break My Cursing Habit Live with people and do not own toys. Keep in mind when daring me please. Not your bitch and calling me names or trying to Dom me is probitted. Violators will be declared as idiots.

08-17-2016, 06:25 PM	#11
Angelica_Kee_Zarcon Dare-hearted Join Date: Jul 2016 Posts: 9,117 Blog Entries: 9	It depends how I feel. If the guy put some actual effort in his PM, I'll usually reply. Some I just ignore. __________________ The clit and pussy between my legs belong to Rhowc. Please notify him if I fail to refer to them as his, so I will be properly punished. Likes, Dislikes, Limits and Toys Last orgasm: 01/28/2024 Orgasm Diary Taunt those in denial More about me

09-15-2016, 10:42 AM	#13
IceMaiden Truth or Dare Zealot Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Gallifrey Posts: 6,352 Blog Entries: 163	If they are polite/interesting/respectful I will reply. (Though I am terrible at remembering to answer PMs so it can take me a while.) If it's the type of messages stating be my sub, be my mistress, give me a dare, got kik, blahblah....they either get ignored or if I feel particularly sarcastic that day they will get a mouthful about basic etiquette and respect. Like the recent one demanding it's my duty to submit to any male that tells me to due to being a submissive AND female, that I should accept male superiority. Yeah....no. __________________ ♡ My Stories. ♡ FAQ. ♡ AMA♡ Happily loved, owned and collared by AbusiveMaster. I Love This Girl Unconditionally. Always And Forever ♡ Get a rule from me here. NOTlooking for a dom/sub or to play a game, exchange dares, pictures etc!