Blackmail Experiences : nonconsensual to consensual?

puppetmaster · 04-23-2013, 11:52 AM

I have been consensually blackmailing people, here and on other sites, for several years now. I am always interested in the psychology behind extreme power exchange, and what motivates people to give up control of their own lives.

In that time I have noticed several patterns, one of which is the topic of this thread.

A good percentage of those who come to me looking to be blackmailed have had a previous, unplanned, and non-consensual blackmail experience. They trusted someone they were playing with with too much information, or they were caught by someone doing something humiliating. Often the experience was unpleasant. They were forced to do things they hated, and they badly wanted the blackmail to end. And yet after getting out of that experience, they now have a taste for that feeling of fear, helplessness, and lack of control. This is when they begin searching for consensual blackmail with someone like me, to help them recapture that feeling.

So I am asking the questions here to those who have been blackmailed against their will:

Did the non-consensual experience give you a taste for more blackmail?

Do you have mixed feelings about what happen?

Did it make you more careful to avoid blackmail forever, of give you a taste for something you otherwise would not have tried?

Has anyone here ever been released from the blackmail situation only to go back to the same blackmailer asking for more?

I'd love to hear honest and real blackmail experiences, and how you got eventually out of the situation.

imapuppet · 07-04-2013, 01:59 AM

I have had a blackmail experience so similar to what you describe it is creepy. In my case I had stupidly permitted the blackmailer to control my computer, but otherwise the experience parallels your description, i.e., unplanned, non-consensual, unpleasant, … etc., and yes after being released, I have an insatiable craving for that feeling of fear, helplessness, and lack of control you describe.

04-23-2013, 11:52 AM	#1
puppetmaster Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: U.S. Posts: 51 Blog Entries: 12	Blackmail Experiences : nonconsensual to consensual? I have been consensually blackmailing people, here and on other sites, for several years now. I am always interested in the psychology behind extreme power exchange, and what motivates people to give up control of their own lives. In that time I have noticed several patterns, one of which is the topic of this thread. A good percentage of those who come to me looking to be blackmailed have had a previous, unplanned, and non-consensual blackmail experience. They trusted someone they were playing with with too much information, or they were caught by someone doing something humiliating. Often the experience was unpleasant. They were forced to do things they hated, and they badly wanted the blackmail to end. And yet after getting out of that experience, they now have a taste for that feeling of fear, helplessness, and lack of control. This is when they begin searching for consensual blackmail with someone like me, to help them recapture that feeling. So I am asking the questions here to those who have been blackmailed against their will: Did the non-consensual experience give you a taste for more blackmail? Do you have mixed feelings about what happen? Did it make you more careful to avoid blackmail forever, of give you a taste for something you otherwise would not have tried? Has anyone here ever been released from the blackmail situation only to go back to the same blackmailer asking for more? I'd love to hear honest and real blackmail experiences, and how you got eventually out of the situation. __________________ Kik: puppetmasterxhx __________________ Last edited by puppetmaster; 04-23-2013 at 11:54 AM. Reason: clarity and typo.

07-04-2013, 01:59 AM	#2
imapuppet Distinguished Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 525 Blog Entries: 2	I have had a blackmail experience so similar to what you describe it is creepy. In my case I had stupidly permitted the blackmailer to control my computer, but otherwise the experience parallels your description, i.e., unplanned, non-consensual, unpleasant, … etc., and yes after being released, I have an insatiable craving for that feeling of fear, helplessness, and lack of control you describe.