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Originally Posted by AlmightyElemental
I understand where you're coming from. I find it best when I'm in the dom position to just roll with it and do what I feel instead of thinking too hard. Not to say that I don't think. You can't not think while you're being a dom. Otherwise, you'll be giving orders that conflict with their allergies or putting them in harm's way and then you'll not only have lost a dom but more than likely made an enemy as well.
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This is true - i suppose im relying much more on my feelings than on my logical thinking when domming. I'd like to point out that my feelings when domming have nothing to do with lust, or using power but much more with connecting to the sub's feelings.
Of course using common sense is paramount. I would never put anyone in harms way or go near allergies or limits, not just out of common sense, but also because that would make the sub highly uncomfortable, sick or even worse.