Apologies for ignoring you in the getdare chat today, I was away from the computer and I had forgotten to log out. I have had a look on your profile and you seem very interesting. Im gutted I missed you.
Perhaps you should link up with someone local to you, build trust, then meet in the real world (not your place or his, and with a clearly defined "session plan", and the understanding that you can say STOP at any time)? Just a thought!!