I'm sorry, I thought we were! Ill add you just as soon as I've sent this. I'm sorry to hear about your loss, and that is a good attitude to have; people who would treat you badly for coming out would never be there for you in an emergency, and you're better off free of them so as to more fully appreciate those who love you. Of course it still hurts, and it's so stupid and senseless. I hope it hasn't shaken you too much.
That's great; I look forward to seeing how people run with it. I'm working on something a little similar at the moment, and it's not as straightforward as it should be! Fun, though. Good luck with it.