Yeah, i basically quit that site. too many ridiculous arguments where everyone demands that their way of thinking is the only possible way, but since no one can even agree what most of the core terms mean, no argument sounds even close to plausible.

You think I don't spend too much time on fetlife...well you're right I don't. After what you said though I suppose it's a good thing I don't. Oh and by the way your visitor message virginity has been taken by moi.