In my vast, worldly travels, I've realized that there are different types of verbal humiliation. There are more than I'm going to talk about, but I've only dealt with these two.

Degrading Humiliation: Slut*, whore, bitch, not good enough, pathetic, worthless, ect.
"Is this really turning you on you disgusting cunt? God, you're not even worth my time."

Condescending Humiliation: Sweetie, sweetheart, adorable, so cute, honey, ect.
"Aw, is something...

If I hurry, I can finish this before IceMaiden posts her version. Take that!

Now, I talk about this in my How to be a Brat post, but this is more advice on how to dominate a brat, from a brat's perspective.

For simplicity, I won't write my advice as vague, in my opinion sorta things. I'm going to essentially talk about how I like being dominated and you can use that as a comparison for how you dominate others.

So, disclaimer: These are my opinions and are...

Safe words are phrases or a single word decided upon in a D/s relationship before a scene starts or any kinky activity is engaged in.

The most typical safe words you might here are Green, Yellow, Red. These are actually the safe words I use. Usually, the usage of these words are universal.
Green: Everything is fine. I'm okay. More.
Yellow: Slow down. Change what we're doing.
Red: Stop. I'm scared. I'm hurt. No more. End the scene. No.

Why not just say...

Just so you know, this won't actually teach you how to stop subdropping, why you drop, or how to get over a subdrop. The title is a lie.

For those of you who don't know, subdropping is something that happens to (you guessed it) submissives after a scene.

The most common subdrop I know of is caused by an endorphin rush after a scene finishes. The sub is usually filled with intense emotion either by climax, pleasing their dom, or anything else that can happen in subspace....

Recently, I have realized that I'm not just a bottom, but I am also a brat.

What's the difference? Well, the definition of different roles in a kinky relationship varies from person to person, but this is how I view it and you may not, your dom might not, and your sub might not, but this is how I view these things.

A bottom doesn't want to submit, they want to be dominated. They usually will not play outside of a scene, meaning once the scene is over so is their submission...