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Stop With The 20 Questions
Thanks for the blog entry. I think there can't be enough angles and posts on this topic, so more people actually doing that read and act on it.
I got used with this internet bullsh*t. I prefer when new people writing me explain why they are writing me straight away. Could be as simple as:
"Hey,
I don't mind if I bother you. I saw you in chat as one of the few female, didn't look at your profile, am not interested what you actuall want and need right now apart from what might serve my urgent desires right now."
At least that would be honest.
Of course, a sincere:
"Hi,
I spotted you [occasion where I spotted you] and checked your profile. I am curious about [detail curious about] and like to ask: [reasonable question for first contact given the context].
Many thanks"
or
"Hello,
excuse me for bothering you. Your actions in the chat caught my interest, so I checked your profile. It seems [Kink X] is your biggest love. If you check my Likes and Limits, it's the same for me as you can also see in my past getDare activity.
Would you be interested in chatting with me about that now or another day?"Posted 12-11-2023 at 02:54 AM by CSasha -
Stop With The 20 Questions
omg haha I've gotta keep a link to this blog post to send to people, this happens way too often.
Quote:Like its crazy how many guys will send me my "Bend Over" task from my signature or add me on Lovense to be used, but those same guys completely ignore the interests and limits link right between them.Posted 12-10-2023 at 09:47 PM by SluttySarah -
Posted 12-01-2023 at 01:16 PM by Toybox -
Spreading My Page
Oh, I love the idea
If you send me the link, I can spread it (but I think ladies exposed isn't working anymore) one of these days. Let me knowPosted 12-01-2023 at 01:06 PM by GivingWantingDares -
I Do Not Care About Your Tasks
I can't wait to see the screenshots of people getting linked this blog and still not getting the hint lolPosted 11-28-2023 at 11:26 AM by Mr. White -
Posted 11-28-2023 at 01:55 AM by Toybox -
Posted 11-27-2023 at 08:31 PM by pluky -
Stop With The 20 Questions
Does it sound strange when I say I know this? I often feel the same way. Stupid questions without having read the profile. Sometimes, fortunately, not often, but when I refer them to the profile, they let their dom hang out and practically want to order me to answer the question.
But as you wrote, I also think it has to do with the horny brain. Unfortunately, I'm usually far too nice and answer until it's too stupid for me.Posted 09-02-2023 at 02:01 AM by Jolly*FtM -
Stop With The 20 Questions
Quote:
Being friendly and reaching out to someone with our interests is why many of us join getDare. I like a good conversation, not really into doing interviews so much. If they run out of questions or feel like I'm not engaging with them, they usually give up. Sometimes it's their fault for just being tedious or not even trying to make conversation. Sometimes it's nothing more than a "HI" at 4am in the morning.
A one-sided conversation goes no where fast. If someone asks a string of questions, I try to fire some questions back, "Are you into doing dares naked outdoors too? Have you tried any yourself? How did that go?". When people share a bit about themselves it gives me more to talk about with them and there's an art to starting a conversation with a stranger. I've had some enjoyable conversations with people about their experiences and we've talked about our lives and so on. Unfortunately, there are plenty of people that just want to hear some juicy deets to spank off to and then ghost.
Them: How big are your tits?
Me: 36D
Them: Go outside naked?
Me: Yes, plenty of times. What about you?
Them: No. Ever get caught?
Me: Yes I have.
Them: Did you let them fuck you?
Then I try to ask another question again then its back to... Them: Yes/No. .......................?Posted 08-23-2023 at 01:12 PM by Toybox -
Stop With The 20 Questions
Being friendly and reaching out to someone with our interests is why many of us join getDare. I like a good conversation, not really into doing interviews so much. If they run out of questions or feel like I'm not engaging with them, they usually give up. Sometimes it's their fault for just being tedious or not even trying to make conversation. Sometimes it's nothing more than a "HI" at 4am in the morning.
A one-sided conversation goes no where fast. If someone asks a string of questions, I try to fire some questions back, "Are you into doing dares naked outdoors too? Have you tried any yourself? How did that go?". When people share a bit about themselves it gives me more to talk about with them and there's an art to starting a conversation with a stranger. I've had some enjoyable conversations with people about their experiences and we've talked about our lives and so on. Unfortunately, there are plenty of people that just want to hear some juicy deets to spank off to and then ghost.
Posted 08-23-2023 at 03:03 AM by SilverBlue
Updated 08-23-2023 at 03:07 AM by SilverBlue -
Stop With The 20 Questions
Quote:You're patient, I don't even reply to people who come up to me to ask a random question, the "hi how are you" type.
Also if by any chance I started answering someone's questions (they tend to start asking after I play on kik something like last pic dare), when I get tired of their questions (much sooner than you) I tell them to stop asking me questions, usually they oblige.
Everyone knows the horny male brain has tunnel vision lol
... Maybe I'm just a bitch like that lol
And 1000% the male horny brain is on a planet of its own *sigh*Posted 08-21-2023 at 11:57 PM by Toybox -
Stop With The 20 Questions
You're patient, I don't even reply to people who come up to me to ask a random question, the "hi how are you" type.
Also if by any chance I started answering someone's questions (they tend to start asking after I play on kik something like last pic dare), when I get tired of their questions (much sooner than you) I tell them to stop asking me questions, usually they oblige.
Quote:Like its crazy how many guys will send me my "Bend Over" task from my signature or add me on Lovense to be used, but those same guys completely ignore the interests and limits link right between them.Posted 08-21-2023 at 09:17 PM by pluky
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Posted 08-21-2023 at 03:18 PM by Toybox -
Posted 08-21-2023 at 03:05 PM by FrostbittenSoul -
Ladies.Exposed
This is not surprising to me,
As soon as you nudes are out there you lose control.
You can end up anywhere.
If they add information about you could be caught naked.Posted 07-05-2023 at 09:59 PM by Roberta50 -
Posted 05-09-2023 at 05:55 PM by Toybox -
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Posted 05-09-2023 at 05:44 PM by wolf82 -
Wish
Why only 3? Didn't want to sound as needy as you really are?Posted 05-09-2023 at 03:58 PM by Bear21 -
This HEAT!!
Take it easy in the heat. Speaking for myself, I love all that you do.Posted 09-08-2022 at 05:49 PM by masterken558 -
Posted 08-30-2022 at 11:27 AM by Toybox -
Hannah's Sperm Bank
This slave seems of excellent quality. A quick, and obedient response to a simple command, is the mark of a superb submissive.
I hope to have it at my mercy again.Posted 08-27-2022 at 02:21 PM by Gothswitch -
Make Me Submit
I’ve PM’d a few of these to Toybox and can’t wait for the new ones.Posted 08-21-2022 at 04:20 PM by masterken558 -
Hannah's Sperm Bank
Quote:Well, I guess I'll be the first to contribute to this plaything sperm bank.
I discovered the slut about 3 years ago, when I gave it a dare involving its roommates and petplay. The toy's report was clearly satisfying and that was the first time I came thinking of it.
From this time, I stumbled over several of its tasks reports while lurking and got off a few time.
And I must say that the album "Things I wish I could do for all the people of GetDare" with the plaything's comments did the job a few more times, as they fit well with memories of its reports.
This slut is great, and deserved every drop of cum.Posted 08-19-2022 at 10:32 AM by Toybox -
Hannah's Sperm Bank
Well, I guess I'll be the first to contribute to this plaything sperm bank.
I discovered the slut about 3 years ago, when I gave it a dare involving its roommates and petplay. The toy's report was clearly satisfying and that was the first time I came thinking of it.
From this time, I stumbled over several of its tasks reports while lurking and got off a few time.
And I must say that the album "Things I wish I could do for all the people of GetDare" with the plaything's comments did the job a few more times, as they fit well with memories of its reports.
This slut is great, and deserved every drop of cum.Posted 08-19-2022 at 05:05 AM by dragoneau