This year I am staying home for Christmas (rather than travelling across the country to visit family). That means it is the first Christmas with just Asslvr and I. That means we get to spend a lot of time relaxing, watching tv, cuddling, and and LOTS of kinky things. I think most of the gifts under our tree are kink oriented. It is also the first Christmas that I get to spend some time being Little over Christmas. To say that I am excited is an understatement.

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As part of a new, and temporary rule, I've effectively got to blog about something I'm uncomfortable talking about for the next 3 days...most of the blogs so far have focused on things I have done but this one's something I haven't...sex!

Ah sex, the ultimate passionate expression of 2 people's love for one another...or at least something better to do rather than watching rubbish TV. That feeling of closeness to another human being that doesn't find you utterly repulsive, to feel their...

Disclaimer: This is no request for PMs or visitor messages by slaves desperately looking for a dominant. I am nevertheless aware that I attract those with any blog post and action, especially with such a topic as this.

So alias wrote about his opinion on what makes a good dominant and inspired me to do the same here.


1. Responsible and reasonable. We are all too eager, emotional and aroused to take up tasks and p/funishments and get off. That's alright. But the subs...