Some of you may have seen my TODR thread in the past few days, asking for dares to celebrate my 36th birthday. Some of you may have contributed to it, in which case I'm extending another heartfelt THANK YOU. For those of you who haven't seen it, let's say it was a resounding success and that it resulted in the best birthday celebration ever. Or as Dungeonmaster put it, "the best one so far". I have a feeling this might be a tradition in the making.

Part of the fun of this whole...

For Dungeonmaster. Just so you understand exactly what your denied slut feels when you drive her to the edge.



It’s been a mere 65 hours since my last orgasm. Nothing in the grand scheme of all these courageous getDarians who live months of denial. And still, when Dungeonmaster was driving me wild with edges this morning before I got even out of bed, I experienced yet another first—the slow-building perfection of an edge. I thought I’d share what it felt like.
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My biggest kink is control. As a sub, the thought of losing control is freaking hot! Bondage is a great way to take control. The feeling of being helpless - not able to move, move closer to the pleasure or away from the pain. Being blindfolded so you can't see what is coming, focusing on the sensations you are experiencing. Gags add just another layer to that. You are taking away my voice. My ability to talk, object, express myself. You are muting me. And the thought of which makes my clit tingle! ...

Last week I was sitting in the parking lot of a local "guy" (car stuff, tools, etc.) store, waiting while Mr. Devious shopped for a birthday gift for his dad. It just so happens that on that day (November 5th) in 2016, I was sitting in the exact same spot, doing the exact same thing - searching getDare while I waited.

It was that day that I came across a blog written by a user whose name at the time was Jaroface. He wrote about how he was kinky but he wasn't sure if he was submissive....

I have been a gD member for a while now. Not as long as some others, of course. But I still kind of feel like a gD veteran.

I have come and gone and come back a few times, mostly for the chat but also to browse the forums once in a while just to see if there is anything interesting.

What I'm finding is that, lately, I've felt like I've come home. I feel safe here. I've started to be myself again and I've felt myself become my little self when in chat lately. My playfulness...

This is going to be a vent post. I just need to get it out and didn't really have anywhere else.

I am so so sick of people in my local community and people I know telling me what I am, what I am not, and what I can or cannot have in a relationship.

"You are not a slave, you are a submissive."
"You are not a submissive, you are a slave."
"Because you are a submissive, you can't have a TPE"
"You can't have high protocol and...

I've been having a lot of fun lately on this forum, and it shows in the number of reports I've been writing. As most of them were related to tasks / punishments / gifts on threads, I posted the reports in the appropriate place rather than on my blog. Feels like it's time to do a compilation with descriptions and links (click on the underlined descriptions to go to the relevant report post).


Celebrating my birthday with dares
Once upon a time, a group of conspiring fiends...